One word? When seven would do…

Yay the laundry is all done 🙂 well apart from the load which has built up since the last load finished obviously… This morning I hung out the last load which finished yesterday when it was too dark to hang out and have done lots and lots of bringing in and folding up and putting into piles for people to put away of clean clothes.

After Popmaster Ady, Bonnie and I went to meet the boat, collecting more of Norman’s rubbish on our way. We got our diesel, our amazon stuff and our milk (we buy ten 4 pinters at a time and bung them in the freezer). We called into see Mel on the way back and I had a quick chat with Abby. Home for a speedy lunch and then all back to the car again to go and wave off Casey. The temperature had plummeted and from being perfectly warm enough to be out in a warm fleece with no hat and gloves at the first ferry it was bitter by the second.

We waved Casey off with a seven person mexican wave and then Ady went off to Dave’s to swap over the fuel filter on the Pajero in the hopes it might fix it’s problems – it appears not to have done but for a tenner was worth a chance. I went back with Vikki for a cup of tea and catch up chat. Davies went home and then Ady and Scarlett joined us for a second cup of tea.

It’s been a draining week in lots of ways but the weather has been so amazing. We finally got the winkle money in our account so will be geting that cob course booked asap.

So the big shock news this week was that Mike and Casey are leaving. Casey goes tomorrow – she has a two week trial at a job which she hopes to get offered. They are waiting for final paperwork on renting a house, have handed in their notice on their house here on Rum and Mike has applied for various jobs – all down in Cambridge.

Mike has not handed his notice in for his ranger job here, he is hoping to secure another job first but planning to live in his tent from March onwards after he leaves Stable Bothy and carry on Rangering here until he has another job. I assume it won’t be long and Casey says once she definitely has a job he will probably move down there anyway because she can cover the rent then.

This is very sad 🙁 Mike has been a great friend to us here on Rum and Davies and Scarlett adore him. We all think the world of Casey and so will miss the pair of them hugely. We have all also learnt so much from Mike about nature and wildlife and so will have a big gap there too. I am sure it is the right move for the two of them and pleased for them too but people leaving Rum is always hard in such a small community.

It has also created all sorts of chaos about who gets their house. On one hand we don’t actually want their house – we’d struggle to afford it, it is not ideal in terms of location (right next to the shop / hall etc) and would very much be an expensive, distracting place for us. On the other hand it would mean we could relax about what happens to us next, focus on building something up here knowing we have a secure, weather proof roof over our heads for the next winter or two, would mean we can have friends and family to stay with so much less stress, can offer WWOOFers and other volunteers the chance to come here and stay in the static during the spring / summer / autumn and have a ready supply of labour to help with stuff on the croft and house build and maybe even rent the static out during tourist season to raise some funds. Except we are not the only ones thinking that way and it turns out Gav and Laura have expressed a similar interest and down in the village there is a huge squabble underway with people championing both parties. Oops.

Casey came up today and was very indignant on our behalf (her and Mike really don’t like Gav and Laura) and briefly I was equally as riled up at the prospect of us not getting the house despite me having big reservations about actually wanting it…. I’m over that now and feeling much more what will be will be about it all. I guess if nothing else I am reminded that anything can change very quickly and over the course of this year another house may well come available at a better time and better location for us anyway…. We’ll see.

In other news we have done all the laundry now and are gradually bringing it in to air infront of the fire. I have provisionally booked us two places on a cob building course in Norfolk in May (awaiting funds to secure the booking, winkle money still in progress and reimbursement of expenses from Eden are slow coming through), I have lots of seeds on their way and was asked today to write a blog post for Big Lunch Extras. I am inspired anew to chase some writing work somehow… paid would be good!

Just read back quickly my last post, that all seems a long time ago!

In brief then:

Saturday & Sunday at Eden was excellent, some amazing people on the event with us, some great speakers, fab food and two fun evenings back at the hotel bar getting to know a handful of people even better. Made some good friends who I reckon we’ll at least stay in facebook contact with! Missed the kids loads, we talked at least twice a day on the phone and skyped a couple more times. Very hard not to be with them though.

Monday morning we skipped the visit to a local garden centre which I am sure would have been interesting but we decided would not have enough relevance to us right now to keep us any longer from Davies and Scarlett. Lots of goodbye hugs at breakfast to those staying at our hotel and then Ady and I nipped back to our room to have a quick last bath and pack up. Then the long drive back eastwards. We did stop at Tescos for a last few bits and pieces and then went to Chris and Julie’s for a surprise drop in visit where Davies and Scarlett and my Mum already were. Mum left us all there and it was a lovely few hours with C&J, we do miss them and it was lovely to hear them talk of how much they tell people about us and how proud of our lifestyle they are. The kids were far more interested in hanging out with their cousins which was heartening, they’d clearly not missed us that much!

Back to Mum & Dad’s for a last evening. Dad and I went to get fish and chips for dinner. It was a fairly early night and there was a slightly sombre feel to the evening . Nothing has changed in their world other than them all just feeling even less satisfied with their lives and each other. I’d hoped and expected to see Frazer, Kat and Robin again but we didn’t, I exchanged texts with Frazer who said he and Kat had rowed and were not speaking. Looks like they are just playing out my parents relationship all over again 🙁 They had spent time with the kids on Saturday and Mum has Robin every Sunday anyway so at least Davies and Scarlett had seen plenty of them. Mum had also taken all three grandchildren down to my Granny’s on Sunday so they all saw her too which made her weekend.

On Tuesday morning Scarlett and I went to the pet shop across the road to spend some of her cash stash on gifts for Humphrey, I bought some bits for Bonnie and Scarlett got a pressie for Lesley’s guinea pigs to say thankyou for Lesley Humphrey sitting. Davies and Ady got a part for our Pajero from a car spares place in the parade of shops by Mum & Dad’s and then we loaded the car up and were on our way. Glasgow was a straightforward drive but incredibly tedious and just a really long way. We stopped at services for a quick lunch and happened to be at the one where the first services pub had opened that day so Scarlett was excited about having walked past the TV camera. We stopped twice more for speedy wees but that was all and finally hit Scotland just as it got dark and started to tip down with rain. The Premier Inn felt almost like home having been there the week before! This time our room was right on the top floor though so our plan to empty the car out and repack everything didn’t happen. We’d planned a fast food feast in the room with the telly and a bath for that night so Davies and I collected KFC, Ady and Scarlett got McDonalds and we all watched Grand Designs, had very long baths and enjoyed being just the four of us again.

Wednesday was the shorter drive to Fort William. We ended up stopping at a huge retail park just outside Glasgow first where there was a B&Q, Poundland and Tesco where we picked up pretty much all of the last few things on our shopping list including cheap storage boxes, some new clothes all round and some retail opportunities for the kids. They had been playing a game with each other all week of buying small surprise gifts for each other 🙂 We’d hoped for a quick drive through gorgeous scenery but sadly it was very low cloud obscuring most of the view through Glen Coe and there was a diversion due to a closed road which took us about 50 miles and over an hour to drive around a closed stretch of about 2 miles. Very frustrating 🙁 We checked in to the Premier Inn in FW and were in Room 2 so perfect for unloading the car :). We all dashed into the small town to do various bits of shopping and then walked the kids back to the room to watch some TV while Ady and I did Lidl and Morrisons for food shopping stocking up. We had dinner in the Brewers Fayre next to the Premier Inn. By then we were all sick of chips and catered food really, we didn’t even have pudding in there but walked across to Morrisons and bought ice cream to take back to the room! Last baths and an earlyish night ready for an early start.

The Tuesday ferry home had been cancelled and the weather was not great for Thursday but the ferry was still running. We were up and on the road super early and got to Mallaig with loads of time to load all the shopping onto the van for Rum and pay freight, then drive back to the garage to drop the car back and have one of the mechanics run us back along to the ferry port. Davies and Scarlett sat in the Calmac office while Ady and I did one last shopping run to the CoOp in Mallaig. We did really well in there and have stocked up our freezer with some bargains. Finally on to the ferry, along with Allan our local councillor and chair of the IRCT, Sean who had come off for an overnight trip to the dentist but been stuck on the mainland when Tuesdays boat didn’t run. Derek who has been off for over a month, Mr Rhys who had been off since just after Christmas and Gav, Laura and baby Maggie, coming home. It was so lovely to see Gav and Laura and finally meet Maggie :). We all sat together in a little Rum corner on the boat and chatted away. It was a very rough crossing, easily the worst we’ve done and both Davies and Scarlett fell asleep which was probably for the best. Gav and Laura both felt really sick but Ady and I were both fine.

We were met off the boat by Casey and a hugely over excited Bonnie who was beside herself to see us after 9 days. Mel & Em who met us with hugs and kisses, Dave who called out Welcome Home as we got off the boat. We loaded the car up with all our shopping, all our stuff, the four of us and Bonnie – I had both kids and the dog on my lap! We dropped stuff off at the freezer and then headed back to the croft. We’d bought crumpets in the CoOp so came and inspected the static for damage (the only thing wrong was my clock taken off the wall and put on our bed to keep it safe, sadly underneath the bit of ceiling that leaks in heavy rain so the face has some water staining 🙁 I guess it just tells the continuing adventures of the clock along with us…), got the fire lit as it was FREEZING in the static, had lunch and Bonnie spent a delirious couple of hours rounding up all the birds. Ady carried everything up the hill, I think it was nine journeys, while I sorted it out and put it all away. We finally finished just before dark. Davies stayed home with Bonnie to keep the fire going while Ady, Scarlett and I went down to collect Humphrey, check for any post at the shop, get Bonnie’s crate and bowls from Mike and Casey and that was us back home and reinstalled.

We all slept really, really well. I had a feeling of utter peace when I opened one eye the next morning and realised I was home in my own bed.

On Friday it rained all day. The kids were just happy to be home and relaxed so had a pj day. Ady wanted to dodge the showers and mess about on the croft so I took myself off to the village with the various thank you gifts we had for people and spent a couple of hours each drinking tea with Em, Vikki and Debs. Catching up on the gossip, talking about our trip, eating different snacks at every house (shop bought biscuits, breadmaker toast, home made flapjacks) and very much enjoying the big sociable element to being home and just going house to house. Mike arrived home soaking wet from a day out on the reserve and offered me a lift part way home which I accepted as Bayview Cottage is almost the furthest house from the croft. We had pizza for dinner and enjoyed having such a full snack cupboard!

On Saturday morning I worked and it was a nice busy post office shift, good to catch up with more folk but sad to learn the news that Mike and Casey are leaving.

Home for lunch, showers and Burns Night preparation. Back down to the village for a fantastic Burns Supper, top food, excellent company, poems, plenty to drink and then live music from various Rum folk who are starting to play together. Davies joined in with guitar and has been invited to come down every Saturday night to carry on doing so. Scarlett had a go on the drums and I got to do some singing. I do love singing 🙂

A very late night and a rather late start to the following day too…. Sunday was gorgeous roast pork, a walk down to the freezer with Ady to blow away cobwebs and more pj wearing all day for the kids.

Yesterday was rainy. I walked down to the shop in the morning to put our veg order in and then spent most of the day online doing stuff like buying seeds, catching up on emails and generally being efficient. In the evening Mike and Casey came up for dinner and catching up. We played Lego Creationary and they stayed til 2am.

Today has been gorgeous and sunny and bright all day (it started raining at about 930pm and still is but I don’t care!). Ady and I met up with Gav and we walked some of the perimeter of the proposed Common Grazings land for the 3 crofts. Amazing views of the sea, the mainland and across to Croft 2 and Croft 3. That done we headed to the boat via Norman’s to collect some of his rubbish for him. Sent our jerry cans off for more diesel and picked up our animal feed from the boat shed. Then home for lunch.

This afternoon was two loads of laundry, emptying the car of the animal feed, lots of being outside for everyone – Davies and Scarlett spent some time being chased up the croft and then the hill beyond by the setting sun and then a load more time hanging out down by the river. Bonnie mostly herded birds, Ady and I walked lots and plotted lots.

And so caught up. There is stuff to say about nissen huts, cob building courses, the potential of a house to rent and more but that can wait, at least I am up to date with the blog back on Rum again rather than stuck down in Cornwall last week!

Not your normal Monday to Friday…. not even our normal Monday to Friday. Hmmm, normal.

Monday was supposed to be a fairly relaxing day with all of the pre- Rum exiting stuff taken care of. But of course life doesn’t pan out like that. Firstly we had a minor crisis of ringing the car hire company to see what car had been booked and discovered that none had. Argh! Cue frantic trying to get hold of Sarah at Eden to find out what was happening and being unable to reach her. That threw the whole thing into chaos as without a car at the other end there was no way we were getting on the ferry and leaving Rum.

Then Tom Pig started mating with his smallest son. Understandably his smallest son was not only a bit upset by this he was also rather injured and his back was covered in blood. It was disturbing Barbara who had some sort of primal reaction to her offspring screaming and we felt there was no way we could leave that sort of situation for nine days and expect other people to come and feed them and deal with it. So Ady rang Marcel and he came up to assess the situation for us. Googling turned up nothing even slightly helpful about male pigs having sex with other male pigs – plenty of suggested websites and youtube videos but nothing of the sort of helpful advice I was looking for I can assure you 🙁 😯 Marcel said that while no serious damage had been done to the young pig there was a high risk of infection to the damaged area which would not only be unpleasant for the pig but would also mean it was no good as meat either, so a plan was hatched for the pig to be killed that evening.

In the middle of all this Vikki came up for lunch and then, as Vikki does, she stayed until about 4pm seemingly oblivious to all the stress and trying to sort things out going on around her. Finally we got confirmation of the car being booked.

Vikki left, Ady and Scarlett took Humphrey down to Lesley and then collected Marcel. I cooked dinner which the kids had and I kept back Ady and mine. The shot rang out (it was SO loud) and 90 minutes later Ady ran Marcel home and returned with a black sack full of pork. He had given Marcel about a third but we have 10kg of delicious looking meat now in our freezer. Many lessons learnt, not least that those piglets were indeed ready for slaughter a good six weeks ago and if we’d only done it we would have four pigs in our freezer rather than one and another to sort out when we get home next week. Still, we now far more ready for the next lot of piglets, hopefully later this year.

A really late dinner, everything finally packed up and to bed.

Tuesday morning Ady took Bonnie to Mike & Casey’s. We decided it would be better for just Ady to take her and although she was a bit confused at being left there with her crate I have had pictures from Casey of her looking very happy. Then more stress over the car when we rang to let them know what time we’d be arriving in Mallaig for them to come and collect us and were told the car was a little one not suitable for four people. Argh! We had to leave them to sort that one out as we had to catch a ferry. Sure enough they did and we have a Ford S max which is lovely and plenty big enough.

Ferry trip was smooth, it’s nice to be on the boat without Bonnie who always find it stressful and we have to sit in the small designated dog area with. Picked up the car hire guy in the smax, back to the office to complete paperwork and then on the road. Glasgow by 8 finally found our Premier Inn by 830 and sitting in the restaurant by 9pm. A nice meal, lots of attention from hotel staff, baths and all slept well despite the heat of the room.

Wednesday – breakfast then on the road Manchester bound. A smooth journey, stopped at our old house for a photo, stopped at Boots for cosmetic supplies (top up of nail varnishes :)), Asda for some clothes shopping (new pants, new pjs for Scarlett, new jeans for Ady, jeans for Davies, wine glasses for me, I’ll be amazed if they make it back to Rum unbroken!)). Arrived at Lynda’s for chats and cosseting – all our favourite foods there waiting for us and lovely clean beds. Had a nice evening with them.

Thursday – back on the road after a quick stop at Tesco for some more supplies of various things. This time destination Sussex. Arrived there just before 3pm.

A lot of upset over various things belonging to us that had been got rid of. Lots of comforting Scarlett 🙁 Was very tempted to gather everyone up and just leave but managed to keep a lid on my temper. Kat and Robin there when we arrived, Frazer came after work. Went out for a meal with Mum & Dad. A late night with lots of drink consumed.

Friday – Back in the car by 10am, destination Eden. We stopped for a coffee and a browse in Lidl and Sainsburys (don’t forget how shop deprived we usually are…) and arrived at 430ish. Will blog more about the Big Lunch Extras thing later but very well fed, felt like minor celebs as everyone had heard of us. Missing kids lots, not helped by being in a family suite in the hotel with a seperate room with bunk beds in. Were it not a ten hour round trip I’d have been most tempted to drive back and get them. Sorely regret not having asked if they could have attended the weekend.

Have rung and skyped with the kids tonight and confident they are happy and settled. I’m struggling massively with not having my kids, dog, animals, home etc where I can see them all and panic everytime my phone gets a text or email. Sure it will all be fine and the weekend looks good ahead, just exhausted with the emotional toll of it all.

Hotel is nice, have had a bath and drank a glass of wine in bed while watching TV and blogging, feels most decadent! Sleep is calling now, a busy weekend ahead and then all of the travelling in reverse.

So. We can’t possibly do a third winter in the static. A second one has proved challenging beyond words. The fact is that we spent way too much time simply surviving and are actually not moving forward during these winter months. I want our lifestyle of off grid, low impact living but, BUT not at the cost of our health, happiness and energy and enthusiasm levels.

We crave baths, living space and a proper solid base to shut the weather outside. We can’t throw our all into developing the croft when so much of our time is just spent tending to our basic survival. I am on the one hand incredibly proud of our getting water, the compost loo, solar and wind power up here. But in the last week we have spent one full day getting firewood up the hill and a second full day just processing laundry. If we took out of the equation all of the carrying firewood, food, gas bottles etc up the hill, removed the big deal that is getting warm and dry after a days work, having a space to take wet muddy clothes off, emptying the loos, filling up the generator, dealing with problems happening to the wind turbine, the water supply etc then we would actually be able to put in full time hours on the crops, the animals and start to consider a proper house build. Oh and focus on some of those other things like down time with the children, socialising at things like book groups, having people round for coffee.

That leaves us with 3 options if we stick to our pledge not to be in the static next winter.

1. have a better house on the croft. Given our failure to sell Osborne Drive last year, our secure and reliable tenants in there now and my reluctance to liquidate all our assests and invest them here just incase at some future point we decide this no longer works I am very worried about trying to sell the house again -both the implications of selling it and the long term consequences of doing so. Rum is perfect for us for now, I believe Ady and I have a good 20 years here of finishing raising our children and then focussing on our own end of our working lives by realising our dreams of self sufficiency, permaculture, volunteer hosting etc. But then I don’t know if our long, long term future is here. I don’t know where Davies and Scarlett will settle or the direction their lives will take them in. I don’t know what our health will be like in middle and old age, I don’t know what will happen with my parents and in which direction we could feel ourselves pulled in the next two decades. To chuck everything in to such an uncertain, remote place seems a little rash even to my fairly reckless standards. Medical provision on the islands is poor, access and infrastructure is likely to be very slow at progressing and given our fairly harsh physical existence just now I forsee a future when a gentle stroll to amenities, good access to the doctors and a ready supply of sunshine and warmth and comfort may well be something we crave at 60 and 70 rather than mud, rain and extremes. All of that talks me out of trying to sell Osborne Drive and build a proper house here on Rum. Along with my yearning for something a bit different. I really want to build something alternative, green and different. My current (and for at least a year) dream is a cob house. I am currently planning to spend the winkle money on going on a course to learn more about it and hoping to maybe persuade my parents to pay for me to attend the course as my birthday present (they said we could talk about what I wanted when we go down) and Christmas present combined so that we can spend the winkle money on Ady coming too. It’s a four day course in Norfolk so Davies and Scarlett could spend time with friends or family while we were there sometime this summer (various dates through May, June and July. I know it would be a two year or so build but if we could learn about it and get started this year then the plan of eventually having a low cost house on the croft would happen without selling the house, done by us using local materials, with plenty of scope for volunteers, WWOOFers and friends to come and help.

Which sounds great but won’t of course be ready by next winter. In which case house on croft option 1 is something else temporary. I am waiting for a nissen hut quote but it’s a long time coming and although until it actually comes in I am not sure whether it is financially viable or not it will still require either borrowing money, begging money or a quick earning of money in order to make it happen this year. It remains option 1.

Option 2 is renting a house on Rum. We are on the housing list and while there is no imminent house and we will have no real idea of when a house may come up it is at least a possibility. Up until now we would have said that we didn’t want a house in the village. Indeed it will be financially crippling and by no means ideal in terms of being off of the croft but it would enable us to have a sensible base to work from on making things happen on the croft, have people to stay, have a bit of respite from our extreme lifestyle and a bit of a taste of normality for a while. We would personally pledge to only be there for 2 years or as long as a build on the croft took us but freeing up the static to earn money by renting as holiday accommodation or using to put up WWOOFers would mean all of that would happen so much quicker anyway. This is an out of our hands option but is there in the background. I think we would give this until September to happen and if it didnt then it would decide us to go with option 3.

Option 3 is to become fair weather Rumachs. To take three months or so off every winter to get off the island, learn more, travel a bit, experience different things and not just exist through the winter. It would mean no turkeys, reducing general livestock to a very small number and working out the logistics but could be done. We could then either look at housesitting, WWOOFing or trying to get work of some sort over the winter so that we could go into more suitable accommodation over the cold months before coming back next spring ready to get cracking on house build and either finishing or doing the same again in Winter 2015/16.

There is a part of me that clings to the idea that the harsh winter months are the trade off for the amazing summer months but actually they need not be and I think after two of them we have done our time, earned our stars and get to just skip off with a note from our mum excusing us next winter. Still lots to think on, still waiting for that nissen hut quote, for a house to become available in the village, for getting that cob training course booked but at least it feels like a germ of a plan.

Remember that schedule for Sunday about panicking about no one having enough clothes? Tick!

Well Davies and Scarlett anyway. Ady and I didn’t even get to our clothes but we are less arsed about being judged on our mud splatted clothing, I feel it just gives us an air of interesting eccentrics which is sort of the effect I will be aiming for anyway. The kids are equally un-arsed but I fret more about being judged as an unfit parent parading my children in too small jeans and wellies than I do about people just thinking I am a loon.

Yesterday was work for me in the morning. I had all sorts of new post office things such as selling mobile phone top ups, people paying their NI by cheque and paying cheques in to their bank account. An 88p stamp to send something to Berlin was a piece of cake in comparison! It was as usual very sociable though – Bad Neil, Mel, Emily, Norman, Mike & Debs, Steve, Claire and then Jinty and Ross coming in at the end along with Ady and Bonnie.

Some faffing about getting a copied dvd off Steve while I tried to hold Bonnie on a makeshift lead of bailer twiner and all our shopping in the freezing cold and got all cross and impatient and then home.

We had lunch and then Ady cleaned out the chicken house while I went to finish off tidying up the pig pen. I reeled all the excess fence onto my new reel, put a secondary fence (not wired up to the electric) along most of the fenceline and just enjoyed the feeling of being out working on the croft.

Then back in to make bread dough and pizza dough as we had Mike and Casey up for dinner. First time we’d seen Casey since she headed off in November so lovely to see her back. Mike has been back and forth a bit and I’d seen him at the shop on Thursday already. Casey was suffering from an ear infection and they had pledged not to drink but both ended up having a few beers anyway 🙂 We had pizza and Casey had brought up a collection of gifts including Out Of Africa which they said we
should watch, a hand made Christmas decoration, a very lovely scented candle, the promise of one of Mike’s amazing pictures still a work in progress and a game to play with us. Yes, a game.

We played it after dinner. Scarlett loved it and her and Casey won, Davies really enjoyed it and he and Mike came second. Ady and I bloody hated it (although we did a fine job of pretending) and came last. I feel just as tainted as that time I had lentils at the Not Swingers house. I hate games, they are not fun, you don’t get to be silly and I don’t want to concentrate on collecting cards or paper money or plastic pieces, or try and guess what other people’s next move might be. And I don’t want to worry about not knocking my wine over when I wave my hands about when I talk. The end.

But then we played Casey Charades and I cheered right up, I love that game. It has all the vital ingredients of silliness, being loud and waving arms about, in jokes, totally inappropriate behaviour and clues which have to be burned afterwards incase someone got hold of them 🙂 Adore it.

They left around 1am hoping to see the Northern Lights on their way home. They wouldn’t have done, I’ve been looking every ten minutes for the last 2 nights. They better bloody not appear next week while we’re down in Sussex *has scary premonition of most ironic and annoying possible scenario ever*.

Today was Sorting Out The Clothes Day. But first we all slept in. Our bedroom is baltic just now with a side order of condensation city, we’ve been going to bed fully clothed and still waking up shivering. It’s pants. I wanted it to be colder but actually it sucks at night. We have the terracotta pots and tealights things working but even that is not taking the edge off.

First Scarlett, every single item of clothing from her bedroom and a mammoth trying on session. Whittled a rather full wardrobe down to just about enough clothes suitable to take away, unpicked the ankle cuffs from a pair of trousers which just about make them acceptable and she wore a pair of tracksuit pants for two hours this afternoon in a gradual working her way up to wearing them properly process. Fortunately she is pretty good humored about her clothing foibles and mostly cheery about it. That done we have a large pile of clothes for material scraps and a bin liner full to take down to the village for the swap shop clothes bank area in the hall.

We broke for lunch then and Ady put on Navigator for them to watch. He and Davies watched it all, Scarlet dipped in and out, I worked on unpicking trouser cuffs and then emptied out the tops of the wardrobes in our bedroom. I gave up on packing for me as daylight was fading fast. Then Davies and I did his clothes, he is far less picky! So kids all packed up clothes-wise.

I’ve sorted out all the croft animal sitters with a group email laying out all details, all of them have replied to let me know when they are doing their shifts, we ran through Bonnie care with Mike and Casey last night and I’ve just emailed Lesley about dropping Humphrey down to her tomorrow. Scarlett and Ady cleaned him out today so he is all sawdust fresh and ready for a mini break too. I’m just waiting back on details on the car hire for Tuesday and final details for the actual weekend but they can arrive by email during the week anyway, I appreciate most people won’t be leaving home on Tuesday for an event starting on Friday! I’ve had a couple of emails from Lynda today so that all remains is the weather and Calmac working together to ensure the ferry is running on Tuesday.

I fed the animals, trial running the new dual location feeding with birds in one place and pigs in another to test out how it will work for animal sitters. It was all nice and smooth. Ady got dinner one. Several episides of the Good Life which is just so good for our souls and then a couple of Will & Grace before bed for children.

Tomorrow is proper packing up, Humphrey to the village, Vikki coming up for lunch and a pop down to the shop.

In the meantime I have stuff to say about houses and future plans and stuff but will have to get to that another time.

Yes, off island, for ten days!

When I organised the Big Lunch back in June I got invited to a Big Lunch Extras workshop thing. I was going to go to the October one but life caught up with us and it just didn’t fit in but managed to get on the January one instead. I’m not entirely sure what it entails but it is lottery funded community building workshops, seminar stuff at the Eden Project with lots of networking, training and help with accessing info, grants and so on. It sounds both interesting generally and potentially useful for both us here on Rum and for me / Ady and some of our other ideas for business stuff. Plus they are covering all travel expenses!

So on that basis although it will be a mad 10 days we are heading down to Cornwall, via Sussex. I’ve not said anything as we have literally no time to see anyone – our schedule is as follows:
Tuesday – leave Rum on 2pm boat, arrive Mallaig 330pm, drive to Glasgow to stay in Premier Inn off motorway.
Wednesday – drive to Manchester, stay with Lynda and Stuart – both because they are a handy stop over and because I am not sure when we’ll next see them and we miss them!
Thursday – drive to Sussex, arrive mid afternoon. Finally meet Robin and see Frazer for first time in nearly 2 years. Parents want to take us all out for a meal to belatedly celebrate everything missed for last two years – birthdays, births etc. Stay at Mum & Dads.
Friday – Ady and I drive to Eden Project arriving for lunchtime for Big Lunch Extras. Kids are staying at my parents. First time Ady and I have ever been away from kids since we had them, regardless of quality or interestingness of workshop it will no doubt feel like a sort of honeymoon!
Saturday & Sunday & Monday morning – Big Lunch Extra for Ady and I. Indulged by grandparents for Davies and Scarlett until approx Sunday lunchtime by which point my Mum will have had enough of them and Davies will be spending time reassuring Scarlett that it’s only one more night til Mummy and Daddy come back.
Monday – drive back to Sussex from Cornwall. Reunited with children, suspect more visits from Frazer, Kat and Robin. Stay the night at parents.
Tuesday – Drive to Glasgow. Stay in Premierinn.
Wednesday – drive to Fort William, Overload on supermarket shopping etc, stay in Premier Inn.
Thursday – drive to Mallaig, catch ferry, return to Rum, get reunited with Bonnie, croft, static, animals, deal with any fall out days away, reconnect static to water, gas, solar, wind, put away vast quantities of food shopping and probable stuff kids will have rediscovered at parents and insisted on bringing back. Sigh at laundry from 9 days away with no access to washing machine. Collapse.

I suspect we’re mad. It was the only way I could ever see us getting to Sussex to meet Robin as we could never justify the expense. We have one set of people looking after Bonnie, another looking after Humphrey and three sets of people sorting out their own rota for pig and poultry feeding twice a day. If I’d realised when I started arranging it that Gav and Laura wouldnt be back I would probably have never even considered it! I’m not even going to start considering poorly animals, gale force winds or any other eventualities and have been talking to Davies and Scarlett about road safety for weeks!

Definitely needed to blog this, it was far too long for a comment reply Michelle! 🙂

Today has been laundry – three loads, all very complicated as the water needs taking off the supply to the static and putting on the washing machine, via a hose that Ady has bodged with a load of gaffer tape so it only leaks a bit ;). Then the nice posh genny has to be used to start the machine as the other one doesn’t make the door lock and the water valve open, but the nice posh genny is not powerful enough to get the water up to temperature (old machine, lowest wash is 40 degrees) or operate the spin cycle so once it is full and heated we have to turn it off, switch gennys over and then start it up again. Very complicated. But clean washing! On the croft! For just the price of the petrol! It was a perfect drying day so I got the first two loads dry and aired infront of the log burner, now folded and put away. The third load I hung out by headtorch light but hopefully will dry tomorrow. We’ve already realised we don’t own enough pairs of pants each to take with us so will stop on the second day and all get new pants. On Sunday I have sceheduled in panicking that no one has clothing suitable for staying at grandparents / meeting strangers to do training workshops about community building. We have lots of clothes that are mud stained, ripped and meet Rum chic standards. Maybe we’ll be buying more than pants!

Barbara Pig has not escaped at all today, hurrah and yipee. Bonnie caught a rat, she is a spectacular ratter,yay Bonnie. Ady and I are both at dry throat clearing cough stage of the cold and the weather has turned colder so the bedroom is very chilly at night which doesn’t help. Rent paid again by tenants, still no sign of the winkle cheque in our bank account.

Today was Pig Move Day. Every time we move the pigs we learn something new, get a bit better, realise we still have not cracked it. First though Ady and I went down to the freezer to get pheasants (from Muck) our for dinner and see if Sandy had any suitable plumbing bits to borrow to sort out the washing machine. Ady found something which may work but we will raid B&Q next week to get a proper supply of suitable things to rig it up once and for all.

Back at home Ady fired up the strimmer to clear the path for the electric fence while I started working on closing up the side they have been on and is now a mud bath. It has only been 3 weeks but they have already totally trashed the area we moved them to just before Christmas, reminding me of just how wet this last few weeks have been. After some debate we decided to give them the whole area to the edge of the fence which will mean they have traveled along the length of the croft since we got them. It’s a pretty big area but means we can use two sides of the croft boundary fence and our animal sitters next week will be able to feed them without actually having to set foot on the croft at all; we have put the feed bin outside the croft so they can walk the nature trail and feed them over the fence. Perfect.

Ady strimmed, I faffed with fencing – my new electric fence reel is indeed revolutionary – I balked a little at spending over a tenner on an empty plastic reel but actually it makes winding up and dispensing fence so easy it was worth every penny 🙂 Mel and Em walked past so we stopped for a chat with them and arranged for them to take a turn in the rota of Croft 3 animal looking after next week – Mel & Em, Mike & Debs and Vikki are all dealing with the pigs and birds, Lesley is Humphrey sitting (2 years old at Christmas so an old man these days) and Mike & Casey are Bonnie sitting.

We hit a point of being ready to cut the old fence which put them on a very small area briefly and called lunchtime as it seemed a logical natural break. Back up to the static for lunch where the kids were engrossed in Scribblenauts – a DS game they both got for Christmas and is responsible for Scarlett’s leaps forward in reading and writing 🙂 After lunch Ady and I went back down and the kids decided to go and visit with Mike & Casey who got back on Tuesday’s boat and they have missed loads. I said they had to wash up first but Ady let them off doing it until later so they went off with Bonnie.

We were doing really well and at 230 were well ahead of schedule and pausing to watch an eagle circling over the croft which we spotted before the chickens so took great enjoyment in then watching the chickens to see when they all stood to attention having finally spotted it. Ady, me and all the birds looking skywards we missed Vikki approaching from the top of the croft! 🙂 She started to help move bits and then suddenly we saw big clouds coming in and rain started spotting so as we were ahead we called teabreak time and headed up to the static to get the kettle on. Just as Vikki and I got in so Mike & Debs appeared from the top trail too. Ady joined us shortly afterwards for coffee, chats and welcoming Debs to the island and Mike back after several weeks off for Christmas. It was ace to see them all, although I cursed the kids for going off without washing up and Ady for letting them! Then as it hit 4pm everyone realised they needed to head off before dark, Davies, Scarlett and Bonnie came home and Ady and I went to try and hurriedly finish the pig pen. Of course we didn’t. We lost the light, Barbara and one of the little boys kept getting out and in the end we gave up for today. I reckon if we’d had that hour we spent drinking tea and chatting we might have finished it all but actually I’d rather have friends drop in for a chat and a cup of tea and carry over the last hour til tomorrow.

Ady and I headed down to collect veg and any post (amazon subscribe and save delivery of conditioner, ketchup and cooking oil, – rock n roll) before coming back home. I cooked dinner – roast pheasant, potato gratin thanks to some out of date double cream Jinty was giving away and tinned veg. Was delicious and frugal and quite local.

I’ve heard back from Big Lunch that they are sorting out our car hire and will be able to reimburse our expenses next weekend so we’ll not be out of pocket for very long at all which is a relief. Still waiting on that winkle cheque arriving in our bank account though…

Not the day we’d planned, another of those Rum type days where time runs away from you.

I had a shower this morning and the water ran out, just as I had lathered up my hair and body and was stood naked and sudsy. Ady had stepped outside so I suspected I would be left to deal with it all by myself but he reappeared back indoors so I could yell for him to fix it somehow! His solution was to hook the pump up to the water butt so that I could at least finish my shower.

That done he got his oranges on and headed up to look at the source of the water. There must have been air trapped somewhere along the system so he bled it all and now it is not only fine but the pressure is way better than it has been of late. We’ve all learnt a lot in the last three years but Ady has gone from being one of the least practical men I know to someone who can not only have a look at all things electrical, plumbing or gas / heating related but probably sort it out. I know none of our systems here are in the last bit sophisticated but it’s still something that makes me very proud of him and he of himself.

While he was doing that I carried a couple of bags of logs up the hill and started to chop them up. We have had about ten bags of logs sitting in the trailer at the bottom of the croft for well over a week waiting for us to get them up and on the odd occasion that we are at the bottom of the hill empty handed we have both brought a sack up but there were still about 7 left to bring up and get chopped. It’s amazing how quickly the wood dries out once it is chopped and stacked with air circulating around it in the woodstore, certainly not the well seasoned, nicely aged firewood one would burn in an ideal world but not entirely green either.

Hmmn, not sure paragraphs about our firewood and plumbing are desperately interesting reading really but it’s our day!

And at least there are paragraphs. Even if there are sentences starting with the word ‘and’ 😉

Then it was lunchtime. It has rained on and off so between showers I read Davies and Scarlett the first half of the latest David Walliams book which Davies got for Christmas. Scarlett is doing lots of writing and trying to spell things out at the moment. Interesting how both of them will have learnt to read by learning how to write…

After lunch we saw someone heading up the track towards the croft just as we were about to try and start the washing machine up. It was Sean the rat, coming to give us some rat advice after the rats in polytunnel and rats eating through the wheelie bins storing animal feed incidents of late. I left him and Ady to it while I worked through all the wood chopping as Ady had brought the rest of the wood up the hill for me before lunch. All now chopped and stacked and drying out. We have probably just about got enough to see us through the log burning weeks ahead til spring although we will gather some more before then and are planning to get a chainsaw of our own later this month so will get more efficient at processing firewood.

Ady and Sean walked all around the croft looking at various areas and discussing ways to deter the rodents. Sean is here doing his phd in rat behaviour and is one year through the three year course. I think he only needs to be here for one more year on Rum and then can spend the third year writing up findings but his girlfriend is hoping to move here soon to volunteer with SNH so maybe they will end up staying longer. He has learnt loads in his first year from lots of observation, setting tracking plates to monitor footprints of rats, catching and microchipping about 50 rats and spending lots of time out on the island watching. It’s an interesting subject once you get past the eww factor of it being rats and as we are relatively low in rat predators and relatively high in rat food as an island it is a good study location. Sean says that the rats here are so clean and disease free that you could actually eat them. No one plans to but given how closely we all live to them here it is heartening that at least they are not spreading nasty diseases.

I finished chopping and came in to read some more to the kids. We had an interesting conversation about dominoes leading to potential items to make and sell to tourists using Rum resources such as simple old fashioned games made from wood, stones etc as counters. Ideas such as jacks, tick tack toe, dominoes and so on all came from a set of wooden dominoes my Dad has that his dad made for him as a Christmas present when we was a boy. I can think of lots of charming Davies and Scarlett produced Rum gifts they could create to sell in lovely handmade little bags….hmmmm

By then it was starting to get dark so I started sorting out dinner – leftover gammon in a suet pastry roll and various potatoes according to taste / preference for various people.

Our usual evening ‘routine’ of an episode of The Good Life followed by one of Will & Grace.

Clare sent Ady and I texts this morning to say she was coming back on the ferry today. Davies has been lighting a fire in the yurt twice a week but last time was Wednesday last week so Ady headed down this morning to light a fire and clean up the inevitable puddles (the door leaks when it rains and the wind blows in a certain direction).

It tipped down with rain all morning and most of the afternoon so it was another indoors day. The wind has blown all day too though so plenty of power and we’ve had the genny on all day. I’m concerned that the cheque I posted last Thursday has not hit our bank account yet and not sure how long to give it before asking the winkle man to cancel the cheque and send us a new one. Argh.

The kids tidied their bedrooms which were a bit post-guest messy with added stuff heaped in them but being so small and having been very well tidied before guests didn’t take long. I had offered to read to them but the weather cleared up after lunch and they were engrossed in something on their tablets. Ady had made soup from chicken bones and leftovers and Fliss gave me a loaf of her best bread yesterday as part of bag of birthday stuff so we had that for lunch and then Ady and I went for a walk with my camera. We were slightly scuppered in our plan to walk to the village by Barbara Pig breaking out and following us all the way to bridge before she caught us up and we took her home again. She’s so bad. That meant it was dusk really so not much good for photos but we walked down to the village anyway. There was no post for us but we saw a nice joint of gammon in Jinty’s fridge so bought that for dinner instead of our planning fishcakes which pleased everyone.

We bumped into Clare, Mel & Em and of course saw Jinty and then walked home again. Always good to get outside if at all possible for a bit of a walk – I hate not leaving the static all day. Back at the croft Barbara was out again, definitely have not sorted out the fence just yet grr.

I’ve had a truly lovely day 🙂 In a perfect ideal world it would have had a window of about 90 minutes somewhere between 1pm and 3pm where it didn’t rain or look like it might possibly rain in which we could have headed out to the Clearances Stone along the road to Harris and Kilmory. It is easy walking and has a fab view back towards the croft so I could have tested out my new camera. But it didn’t and frankly I was not up for the gamble of getting wet, the children were very happy playing with the lego and we had loads of wind whizzing the turbine round and powering the internet so instead we stayed in, Ady bought me a constant supply of tea (laced with brandy after a certain hour) and so we didn’t bother.

For the first time in about 4 years we had a bedtime intruder – Scarlett woke after a bad dream at about 3am and came into our bed. Our bed barely fits the two of us so with an additional body plus teddy it was a squash and a squeeze! To the point that at 5am Ady stopped trying and came to sleep in the lounge. Except Scarlett and I were not aware of that so continued to try and sleep squished up on my side of the bed. Ah well.

So we were up late, Ady cooked bacon sandwiches for everyone and then we just hung out. I had a real flurry of blast from the past contacts on facebook including a lovely message from the Mum of a friend 🙂 We watched eagles circling and then a buzzard getting mobbed by crows – love that looking out of our windows is so often like an Attenborough documentary :). I got my camera from Ady and the kids and a surprise cloth bag saying ‘ignoring advice since 1974’ which is just fab 🙂 Cards including a home made Davies card, one from my Granny, the official one from my parents and then a bright purple sparkly glittery ‘fabulous at 40’ one written in by Frazer, Kat, Mum and Dad including lovely things written which made me cry.

At 5pm we headed down to the village, ostensibly to put in the veg order but fairly obviously so that Rum folk could do the birthday thang. The shop was bedecked with balloons and the whiteboard said ‘Nic is 40 celebrate 40 years on the planet’. Lots of birthday kisses from all around. Mel & Em gave me a lovely bottle of wine (which I had had at theirs on Boxing Day and said was lovely), Jinty gave me a very large glass of baileys and a seed sprouter with the ironic recommendation that it is great for chickpeas ;), Abby baked me a cake, Vikki gave me another bottle of wine (my favourite from naked wines which we both signed up to for a while) and a book we had been talking about last week, Lesley gave me a box of Lush stuff, Fliss had left an Isle of Rum bag (long coveted, never purchased) filled with a loaf of bread, some honey and orange butter and a bar of soap but my best and my favourite gift of all which was a song written about me by Jed, our resident visiting rock star singer songwriter called ‘Nic is turning 40’ all about me, our wind turbine and washing machine, our caravan, my cool kids raised outside the system, my veg growing, my strong man and how I might be turning 40 but I only seem 20 to Jed, it was awesome 🙂

It was all very lovely and we left at 8pm to wander home. I rang my Mum while Ady cooked dinner – venison steaks and home made chips 🙂 and brought me a large glass of wine too. We watched a Good Life and a Will & Grace.

And now, at my age, I really should be in bed 😉

It’s almost been a weekend off actually.

Yesterday morning I went off to work where I had my usual enjoyable couple of hours being Mrs Post. I was patronised by Stuart the headmaster, Emily from the castle, Dave and his brother, Ross and Lesley’s brother Gordon – all heading to the boat to go off, Bad Neil and Norman. The boat brought me new wellies, dog food and some mystery items squirreled away by Ady. Too much to carry so I left it all there and walked home to return later with the car.

Back at the croft Davies was feeling much better and none of the rest of us have shown signs of the Mainland Cold so far so fingers crossed we may have avoided it. Ady had been busy with various things and had a productive morning. We had a cup of tea and then he and I went back to the village with the car to collect post and parcels, get some stuff out from the freezer for dinners and some venison steaks from the freezer for dinner on my birthday. On the way home the car died and Ady was worried that the effort taken to restart it again would have drained the battery too much to start it again from cold next time. So we went home for lunch and then took the car back down to the village to put it on charge at the workshop overnight, then walked home. I wore my new wellies which rubbed my heel – need to break them in!

We had a mammoth Good, Bad, Learnt in 2013 session with hopes for 2014 which is always good and life affirming 🙂 Then I cooked dinner and we watched a couple of episodes of The Good Life and a Will & Grace. The two sit side by side in a quite pleasing manner somehow… Ady and I also unwound a new spool of electric fence wire onto my new electric fence wire spool designed to prevent tiresome tangles of electric fence and preserve sanity. We’ll see…

Today was grey and drizzly so I stayed in bed reading – I’m reading the latest Bridget Jones and although it took a while to get into I am actually really enjoying it, it feels like catching up with an old friend on facebook after ten years! I keep finding myself wanting to post on fb, ff or my blog in Bridget style – Rainfall 5cm, minutes spent walking in rain 57, mud splatters on previously clean jeans 1 million, alcohol units 4 (not good), percentage of day spent obsessing over imminent big birthday 23 (good). 😉

I had planned to do some pig fence stuff but Ady had done some fixing of the fence earlier and persuaded me it was far too cold and grey to be outside so instead I spent ages trying to sort out the phone signal issue. I have now actually got someone at o2 to concede there is a network problem and assure me that they are working on it. They are refunding us both 10 days worth of money (we’ve been without for 6 days, if it reaches 8 I will get in touch again) and we’ve to keep checking to see if it comes back up. Tiresome, tedious and very annoying. We do at least have emergency call cover which is heartening incase of needing proper help in a hurry up here. Fingers crossed it gets sorted soon.

As it was windy we had the internet on for a lot of the day so I faffed on facebook a bit, chatted to some friends and Scarlett watched stuff on a tablet while Davies stayed in bed until it was afternoon watching something on a phone. Almost like ‘normal’ families on a Sunday 😉

We had lunch / breakfast / whatever you call it when you eat cheese on toast at about midday and it’s the first meal of the day for some of you and the second for some others… Then Ady and I donned our orange waterproofs and headed down to collect the car from the village and take Bonnie for a bit of a leg stretch. Back at home we fed animals, brought in firewood, put almost dry washing on the airer and then Ady cooked dinner and I made bread. A really relaxed lovely Sunday.

I don’t actually know what is planned for tomorrow, I know there have been emails circulating with me missed out of the loop so suspect something is afoot and I know there will be bacon sandwiches for breakfast and venison steaks for dinner. Other than that I am happy to be led around like a woman of certain years 😉 🙂

I was going to not bother blogging tonight as I have to be up for work in the morning but I notice I signed off my last post by saying I had to be up for work in the morning which means its a whole week. Oops.

Last Saturday was a very quiet morning at work, I think I had about 2 people in. The system was not working for the first hour so I had to ring the helpdesk, which sounds straightforward but Jinty had had a fit of post Christmas tidying and reorganised all the folders and posters so I couldn’t find the number for the helpdesk for at least 20 minutes and had to look through loads of old newsletters. When I did find it and ring them they asked for our branch code which I couldn’t find either and had to then leave them on hold for about ten minutes (was not going to hang up having been in a queue to talk to someone for ages) while I tracked that down. Argh! Finally sorted it all out, rebooted everything and got it all up and running again at about 11am.

Jinty and her visiting sister called in before the boat and then dashed off again and I finally got a flurry of customers just before closing time. I realised that due to being closed on Thursday (Boxing Day) there was no totals of cash in hand in the safe to copy across so I had to pull all the change out and count it. It took *ages* and I just finished as Jinty came back with loads of green looking people who had arrived on the boat for Hogmanay on the seasickyness boat all year – I think all ten or so people had thrown up on it!

I said hello (no hugs!) to everyone and then headed up the hill for home.

Ady had spent the morning digging out the wind turbine pole and rigging it up ready for the new one. We had lunch and then put our oranges on and headed out to finish installing it. It was the stillest day I think Rum has ever seen but finally during the evening the wind finally got up enough to spin it and test that it was indeed in full working order once more. Hurrah, yippee and woohoo!

On Sunday we mostly faffed with the washing machine. We eventually concluded that it would not work from the water butt as the pressure was not sufficient so moved it over closer to the static and hooked it up to the burn water that we have piped to that. Sure enough it worked! 🙂 This is fantastic! The joy of a washing machine working ON OUR CROFT within 20 feet of our washing line is possibly one of the greatest achievements yet. I know it’s not compared to getting the static up there, getting water across, finally getting the compost loo, growing crops, rearing animals and all of that but a bath and a washing machine are the two big home comforts I most miss so to have finally hit the point that we are making those happen rather than just lifeline survival things feels like a real leap forwards. Further faffing as the Honda genny (Ady’s pride and joy, cost over £1000, very precious) struggled with the spin cycles which the internet tells me do spike at just over the 2kw mark (our genny’s capacity is 2kw) but our cheap back up bargain genny (about £200 but more powerful at 2.6kw) cannot manage the start up bit to get the water flowing. So a combination team effort between gennys is currently required and the fast wash cycle takes over 2 hours which is a whole lot of petrol to run a genny for. Will be less than the £2.50 per time we pay for a laundry token and minus all the hassle of going down to the castle and back certainly but still tweaking required.

Monday was BART DAY! Eagerly anticipated arrival of Kirsty, James, Marcus and Alex on the boat. Ady and I had been further washing machine tweaking in the morning and I had some washing pegged out and more still in process. We all met the boat, Ady and James came home in the car while the rest of us walked. We had a cup of tea on the sporran and then adults walked over to Croft 2 to show Kirsty and James Gav and Laura’s cabin and borrow some petrol from Gav’s stash.

Late night, much drink, lots of kids on screens. You can picture the rest of the day 🙂

Tuesday morning Kirsty, Ady and I walked down to the village to collect veg box, get in some supplies, gather post from the boat (including my birthday present, woohoo it’s arrived in time although stashed away at the moment), sing Happy Birthday to Jinty etc. Barbara Pig was on an escape adventure from the night before and accosted Kirsty and I as we walked home up the hill. Ady spent a lot of time outside taking her back to the pig pen. Other than that much tea was drunk, chatting was done etc.

We saw the old year out and the new year in in style with music, dancing, fizz and at midnight all spilt outside to watch fireworks from down in the village and across on the mainland. Magical and special. Another Rum friends memory banked 🙂
Children went to bed around 2am I think, adults more like 330am, we certainly saw the year in fully 😉

New Years Day was a slower start, obviously. The kids had been invited down to the castle to play xbox and console games, Davies had to light a fire in the yurt and I think we were all in need of a bit of fresh air and leg stretching. We all walked down in various combinations, the kids lit the yurt fire and then headed to the castle with us lagging a bit behind. I’d been unsure whether all of us were invited to the castle or not and didn’t know whether inflicting all 8 of us was better or worse than dumping the kids… in the end I was honest with Mel and we arranged to have a bit of a walk on the beach for half an hour or so before coming back to join the kids. Having mentioned that Kirsty and James had not seen inside the castle before either she offered a tour too 🙂 Yay Mel 🙂

So Kirsty, James, Ady, Bonnie and I had a wander along the beach, we showed them How to Pick A Winkle, Bonnie chased some crows and we reflected a little on previous new years days on beaches we have shared before heading to the castle. Mel and Em had laid on festive snacks of a very high quality and we had a lovely hour or so chatting and drinking tea with them before Em Bonnie-sat and Mel took us (and Scarlett and Alex) on a castle tour. We were conscious of daylight leaving us so headed back to the croft.

Ady was Mr Curry Meister for the night so he did that while Kirsty was wise and I tried out being inspirational again for the first time in ages. I miss friends 🙂 🙁

A lovely last night although poor Davies had succumbed to James’ cold which on top of three incredibly late nights, way more screen time and way less outdoors time than he is used to had him feeling a little delicate and sensitive along with three other children all slightly passed their best selves meant they took a little coaxing before getting back on track.

We called midnight an early night 😉

Thursday was Operation Pack Up and while there is still time to find something so far I don’t believe Kirsty and James left anything behind…. 😯

Some of us walked and some of us drove to the pier, all arriving with plenty of time to chat to fellow Rumachs, very many of whom were waving folk off yesterday (Jinty’s Dad and sister, Lesley and Ross’ Mum, us saying good bye to The Barts and Sandy leaving in spectacular drunk fashion apparently proclaiming there is no love left on Rum!!!). The ferry turned the corner and we all parted ways back to our ‘normal’ lives.

We spent the afternoon emptying the car of the massive animal feed delivery that we’d found in the boat shed having arrived on New Years Eve and starting to carry logs up the hill and split them to go in the wood store. Rats have chewed through one of our feed bins so that needed repairing. Davies needed to mostly sit next to the fire and drink vitamin C drinks, Scarlett did lots of tending to her poorly brother. I made bread dough and by popular poorly boy request moved traditional Friday night pizzas to Thursday. I also trekked down in the dark to the shop for some supplies having decided it would be better done last night than tonight and would mean we’d not need to leave the croft all day today. I also got to test out my new Christmas head torch 🙂

Earlyish nights all round.

The wind has been fierce today to the extent that we tethered the wind turbine for most of the day. Even with that done we have had enough power to charge everything, run everything and still have a full battery without the genny on at all today :). Both kids have had bath showers (filling the very deep shower tray up for a shallow bath) and hairwashes so Davies feels less full of skanky cold germs and better and Scarlett has had her hair detangled. We’ve mostly been indoors all day and played games, watched some TV stuff, knitted, done drawing and generally vegged out feeling the static is huge without guests or the Christmas tree! Oh and I did some paperwork sorting and filed our tax returns for 2012/13 so feel very virtuous about that 🙂

I messed about for ages trying to sort out our non existent phone signal and managed to ring my parents and get a crackly message out to say we are fine but have no phones just now. I might ring again in the morning and try for a more coherent message.

But for now, as I have work in the morning…. 😉