This week’s challenges will be of a different sort 🙂
Saturday was an emotional farewell to Steward Wood. Another heavy frost (and so cold night), we had breakfast (pancakes) at Seth & Mel’s and the kids stayed there to play while we packed the tent up. It went fairly quickly and Ady had found a cart to take stuff down the hill which meant only two loads rather than four. I got the tent empty and we went down together and then repacked Willow, putting the bunk back together and clearing up ready for driving. The tent was still damp (we need to get it out and dry it off) so we put it off as long as possible before striking camp. We loaded the cart up for the last time and went round to say goodbyes. We caught most people but wrote a note to leave for anyone we didn’t get to say goodbye to. We’re hoping to go back in a couple of weeks for a party but need to work out a route to the host we’re due at to see if it works out logistically.
It felt really sad to leave, we were all a bit tearful, it was such an amazing place to start our journey.
We’d booked a campsite mid point along the 80 miles travel to the next host, booked solely for it’s almost equidistance to the two points with very little veering off our route. But we didn’t hold out much hope for it being ‘our sort’ of campsite as it is on the site of Diggerland, which looked like some sort of amusement park and the pictures on the website showed packed in caravans and campervans alongside each other. We drove through the nearby town to find a laundrette as we had 4 bags of dirty washing to deal with and then went to check out the campsite. It was totally empty, with just a field with hook ups and water points and a shower block and toilets. It all seemed fine so we headed back to the town, got the washing on and went to Tescos to get food supplies for the weekend and something to eat for lunch. Ady and the kids stayed in Willow while I sat in the laundrette with the kindle and dealt with all the washing, drying and folding up of clothes. By then the chip shop nearby was open so we indulged the kids request for fish and chips for dinner and then drove to the campsite.
We watched a dvd and charged everything up, had a look at the moon and the kids went to bed and watched the end of the film from their bunk while Ady and I had a glass of wine, a late picnic style dinner and toasted the end of our first WWOOFing host. We all slept really well and were most glad to be back in Willow :).
Sunday morning we all had showers. As we were the only people on the campsite I’d turned the heaters on in the ladies shower & toilet block and we all used that. We couldn’t get the lights to work in either block and I’d walked all around the block the night before trying to find some way of turning them on, only to pop my head in the gents on the Sunday morning and find the consumer box with the fuse for lights turned off – d’oh! The pipes must have frozen and burst in the recent frosts (or perhaps the winter) though as the whole block flooded when we had showers. The first shower didn’t work at all – and as it was coin operated for 20p per five minutes this was rather annoying. It had obviously annoyed someone previously as the coin box had been smashed 🙁 The other shower did work and was nice and hot but despite the fact it was on a timer it went off every ten seconds so you had to keep pressing the button – very annoying 🙁
Scarlett and I showered first and then walked back to the van in towels carrying our clothes rather than attempt getting dressed in the flooded room. Ady and Davies went next and then Davies and I cooked breakfast for us all. We carried over a picnic bench from the other side of the field and sat and ate outside in the sunshine. It was lovely :).
We left about midday and headed the further 40 miles to the next host, stopping along the way for some more food supplies and petrol as we were rather early and I’d arranged to arrive ‘early evening’, so we had some lunch in the van.
We got a really warm welcome from Tanya the manager – we’re at Paddington Farm Trust and were shown around the farm which has various accomodation for paying visitors, the bathroom facilities being open to us, so access to a bath again 😉 and then left to settle in but invited to join them around the fire pit later for some full moon celebration stuff.
We parked Willow and the kids went to play in the playground while we had a cup of tea. No hook up here (although we can charge up phones, laptop etc in the longhouse so will ration online time to getting two nights out of each charge like at Steward Wood) so we’ll need to be disciplined about cooking before dark, which we’ve not actually managed yet ;).
It all went slightly wrong when we went along to the fire pit though as we joined three people already there; a woman, a man and a teenage (I think he was 13) all smoking roll ups (including the 13 year old) and exchanging stories about drug taking trips and the best substances to get ‘off your tits’ on, which had both Ady and I feeling rather uncomfortable 🙁 The kids were playing with two girls that the woman had brought along with her and we didn’t register that they’d all wandered off until suddenly we heard a very upset girl screaming for ‘Mummy’ the woman jumped up calling her daughters name so my initial knee jerk that it was Scarlett was dampened as it didn’t really sound like Tarly anyway. The girl kept calling and we suddenly realised it was Tarly in a terrible, hysterical state, sobbing and wailing and crying 🙁 She was saying ‘I hate it, make it stop, I’m scared, I don’t want to be here’ and I truly thought something absolutely dreadful had happened to her. She ran to me and was shaking but my prime concern then was where Davies was. I then spotted him running towards us also crying and upset. Both were almost incapable of talking through their sobbing and I felt awful having been sitting there feeling uncomfortable about the environment anyway and not having realised the kids were not with us.
We eventually got what had happened out of them and it had been one of the girls they were playing with losing her temper and going crazy punching, kicking, biting and scratching them. She’d started on Davies and when Scarlett tried to get her off him she turned on Scarlett, Davies tried to resuce Scarlett who lost a shoe in the scuffle which the girl then used to hit Davies with before lobbing into a field. Davies told Scarlett to come and get me which is when she’d run to us.
The woman shot over to speak to her daughter and find out what had happened while we comforted and calmed down Davies and Scarlett who were both the most distraught I have ever seen them 🙁 I realised about the shoe and went steaming in to tell the girl to get it back. It was returned and the woman made her daughter apologise – rather pointless in terms of D&S but I understand why and then sent her to sit in the car while she came and spoke to us. She was incredibly apologetic, went to great lengths to disassociate herself and her daughter with the farm and to promise that she would not bring her daughter back here while we stayed, that this was not what the farm is about and that the issues with her daughter are something she is trying to deal with and she was so sorry and to please not colour our view of here with what had happened. She then left.
We went back to the fire briefly, where the man and boy told us that the girl ‘is a bit mad, sorry that happened to you’ and then we came back to the van to decide what to do. It felt very scary to have been in such a situation and we discussed leaving there and then but decided we needed to give it a nights sleep and see how it seemed this morning. The kids calmed down fairly quick, had a very touching moment where they had a big cuddle with each other and thanked each other very seriously for sticking up for each other then we had a big talk about what had happened, what could be learned from it and so on. We talked about using instinct more and not roaming away from us in unfamiliar places, not automatically trusting people, how being physically hurt makes you feel and why I will not ever tolerate it from them and how they’d never want to be responsible for making another person feel like they were feeling, how they did an amazing job of sticking together and what positives we could take from such a negative experience. Back in perspective it was a fairly minor incident, probably commonplace in a playground but simply not something Davies and Scarlett are used to. Neither should they be of course, but no lasting damage has been done and I’m glad we managed to talk it through and all conclude we should stay and give it a fair go.
The kids had tea and at Davies’ request we dow loaded The Twits to the kindle and I read the first half to them all snuggled up on our bed, then they went to their bunk and we had cheese on toast for dinner before snuggling up and going to sleep too.
Today we learnt again that first impressions can be pretty poor indicators of what a host is about :). Our first task was to fill up the pigs water; we are parked alongside them, so Ady did that and had to deal with them knocking it over as soon as he’d filled it 😆 We had breakfast and then went to meet Tanya. We were shown various places around the farm and went to fill up all the animal feed buckets, let the chickens out and then went around the farm feeding the pigs, sheep, chickens and took Benji the goat from his overnight home to a field next to Silver the pony. Very good fun taking a goat for a walk 🙂
We met some of the other long term volunteers who live here and then were set to work planting some comfrey into an area previously used for pigs and destined to be used again (just been googling comfrey and learning all about it 🙂 love how much we’re learning either ‘on the job’ or by triggered research at the end of each day). That took us a couple of hours working as a team with the kids spreading the plants out, Ady digging holes, me putting the comfrey in and the kids filling and treading around the replanted plants. Then the woman from last night arrived. She didn’t refer to the incident but made us all a cup of tea, sat and chatted with us, brought along a book she’d mentioned for us to look at, enthused about our years plans and caught me at the end as we said goodbye and said with real meaning ‘it was nice to see you again’. I suspect she’d detected our flight plans last night and was glad to see we’d not done a runner after all. We put all the tools we’d used back and then tracked Tanya down for another task. She was just on her way to the sheep with another volunteer so we tagged along and helped round them up, turn them and do some hoof clipping and dagging (cutting soiled wool from around their bums where flies can be attracted and cause flystrike where they lay eggs deep in the fleece and then maggots hatch under the sheeps skin. It can quickly kill sheep and along with footrot is one of the biggest threats to sheep. I was aware of all of this from my lookering but it was great to do some of the actual maintenance work rather than just be alert for the signs.
We then started back for the house and met up with Benji along the way and Tanya decided to have a quick look at his hoofs too and realised they were overdue a clip so we stood and did that too with both Ady and I having a go at that. Just like trimming toenails (with the exact same toenail-y smell!), digging out the earth and mud and cutting the excess hoof away with clippers.
Then it was lunchtime 🙂 Late lunchtime at nearly 230pm! We went into the farmhouse kitchen and were cooked fried egg sandwiches using the eggs we’d collected from the hens this morning and then the kids went off to play while we had a chat with Tanya about the background of this place and how she came to be here as manager.
We’ve not really talked through workload or hours or anything but she seems very keen for us to do a couple of hours in the morning, be given lunch and then be left to our own devices. This does mean we will probably be spending some money on food for breakfast / dinner but that suits us as we can have some time to ourselves in the afternoons to explore the surrounding area which will be fab. plus we are not working that hard and we are getting some great learning and experience.
We quickly did some repair work on a chicken coop that chickens have been escaping from and then went off for a long walk, covering the small woodland that is part of the farm and currently has a project to build a wooden outdoor classroom happening on, sit awhile at a pond, pass the beehives which are a collaborative project between the farm trust and the local beekeeping association before walking a very circuitous route to the Glastonbury Tor which we can see from Willow (and from the very top we could see down and spot Willow :)).

We got back via some barbed wire fence field crossing (naughty!), and helped feed the animals for bedtime and take Benji the goat back to his bedtime home, more taking a goat for a walk 🙂

We caught up with Tanya again on the way back and she said to join her again in the morning for animal feeding and to get a job list for tomorrow. We’re hoping to finish early enough to walk into Glastonbury for the Tuesday market and a nose around the town and it’s famous springs and high street.
Back to the van for pancakes for the kids tea, cooked in the dark as we didn’t get organised quickly enough, the second half of The Twits and a glass of wine for me which went straight to my head which is a real novelty on just one glass :).
This is a very close match for the sort of thing I see us doing so I am very heartened that the possibility exists as a paid job rather than a landowner. Once again we have already learnt loads after just 24 hours and I suspect the next four days will have yet more lessons to learn. We’re very glad we stayed and have had a good day today, despite the token hill of the day involved in walking up the Tor ;).