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30 July 2010

Misty Eyed

Filed under: — Nic @ 9:18 pm

Davies and Scarlett did some animation station and playing with the toy animals this morning. We looked at a very cool animation that Jonathan had showed Davies when we were last staying with them, which is all the cooler for featuring Worthing pier and seafront. Davies had made some plasticine dinosaurs the other night and he wanted to do an animation with them so he made a rather cool mini film featuring a lego man and a plasticine pteradactyl.

We have several vouchers for free films at our local theatre – Davies won a family of four ticket at the Alice gala event and we got two sets of two free ticket vouchers in the goody bags we won at the Shrek event. I had looked at the T&Cs on the vouchers and noticed something about ‘new release’ films being exempt though so suspected we wouldn’t be able to trade them for Toy Story 3 but as we all wanted to see it we’d planned to go this week. Ady was supposed to be out tonight so we’d tentatively planned tomorrow for the 830pm show. So we drove into town to the box office (you can book online but the vouchers needed redeming in person so I thought we’d try) to get tickets. On the way Ady rang and spoke to Davies (who was answering my phone as I was driving) and said he wasn’t going out tonight after all so we decided to go for the 6pm show tonight instead (far better all round – not after a full and therefore potentially hurty ankle day at work for me, not too late home the night before we’re off to Chris and Helen’s and not right in the middle of when Ady and I would be eating dinner). Sure enough we couldn’t use our vouchers but Toy Story is a bit of a special film for us and on the basis we won’t be doing stuff like cinema visits next year we went for it anyway and got tickets for tonight.

A quick trip to the nearby pound shop for fishing nets so we can do the OPAL pond survey sometime next week and then home via Morrisons for popcorn and fizzy drink supplies to take to the cinema with us later.

Back at home we had lunch and watched Gimme a Break, a show I’m sure I’ve mentioned before where kids in the family get to decide on a family holiday and make up rules and punishments for their parents. We love it, mostly because we like to laugh at how mean the kids are to their parents 😆 This was one we’d seen before where the usually sunbathing mad mum gets forced to do absailing and jetskiing. Scarlett said to me ‘you’d love that Mummy, you’d do *everything*’ and Davies agreed. So we talked about what sort of rules they’d come up with (limited tea for me and limited housework and tidying for Ady while he spent time with the rest of us instead 😯 ) with both kids making me all teary-eyed with their absolute vision of me as an up for it, seize the day, try anything type of person who loves life. That’s very much who I like to think I am but of course I also see the side of me that sometimes resents being a grown up and pairing socks, worrying about making lunch and gets all shouty about tidying. Am very chuffed the kids see me as the person I like to think I am 🙂 .

I then spent a very happy hour listening to / watching MTV which had on a ‘classic 90s mixtape’ which took me right back to being 17 /18 /19 and in nightclubs dancing til the early hours in my miniskirts and DMs with my heavy eyeliner and wrists full of bracelets, drinking snakebite and black and stinking of cigarette smoke and dry ice. Then it moved onto me being 21/ 22/ 23 and living with Ady, working in fairly responsible jobs but still spending many evenings sitting round drinking with mates while a fug of cigarette smoke hung about 4 foot above the ground and enjoying playing grown ups. Happy days. The songs that really took me back were Mr Wendal, Arrested Development (me and the kids talked about that one and how we can learn something from everyone we meet, often the most from the most unlikely sources – Davies asked if that song was what made me decide to Home Educate :lol:), Two Princes, Spin Doctors (reminds me of a holiday Ady and I went on with my parents to a B&B in North Wales where we got my Mum really merry and all played pool with a load of scousers and had a fab night playing that and an Alanis Morrisette track on the dukebox on repeat), Rhythm is a dancer, Snap, reminds me of dancing on the stage in the club with my friend Polly and then staggering back through dark streets to my then boyfriend Matt’s flat – we had to leave the club seperately as we were secretly together… oh the memories :).

I saw in 1990 in Italy with the first person I ever kissed, I was about to turn 16. I saw out 1999 with my new husband of 3 months, quite possibly concieved Davies that night in the house I’d owned for nearly 6 years. 26 to 36 doesn’t feel anywhere near as dramatically life changing.

Ady arrived home in time for us to drive to the cinema and park and be installed for the 6pm show. They were playing music from past TS films so I was already welling up behind my 3d glasses at Jessie’s song long before the film started. Toy Story was Davies’ first real passion and he used to watch the films several times a day when he was 3. He had dressing up outfits of Buzz and Woody, the toys, the pjs, his first pairs of pants were Buzz Lightyear ones. I remember Ady being on a mission for weeks to get him an Evil Emporer Zurg toy for a birthday or Christmas or something.

Gratuitous Davies as a little kid in Toy Story stuff pictures follow:

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We all really enjoyed the film, quite the best sequel to a sequel I’ve seen. It beautifully ended the story and was poignant and touching. The 3d was quite good, not the best I’ve seen and I think it would have easily been as good without it. Scarlett and I both cried – for different reasons at the same bit but won’t elaborate incase people haven’t seen it yet and are planning to.

Back home for bedtime for the kids and curry for us.

29 July 2010

Not Home, not educating

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:02 am

Work for me today. I had planned to get up with everyone else and I heard them all up and being noisy and getting ready but then suddenly it all went quiet and I realised they’d all left! Ady dropped Davies and Scarlett off at Julie’s. This left me a very leisurely morning to get dressed and ready for work. I still nearly blew it and was almost late though when I realised Michelle had blogged about five minutes before I was supposed to leave.

Work was fine, everyone is being very nice to me about my ankle (although to be fair it is still very visibly swollen so I have an obvious ailment) and making sure I don’t stand for too long. This meant I had an hour on the counter and then two hours sitting down on the desk where I could even kick my shoes off :).

I nipped home to change into jeans before going to collect D&S and the hen was back, looking fine and just scratching around with the others. She’d gone again by the time we all got home later and was not put away with the others at night. She is either sitting on or has hatched eggs (possibly while we were away?) and will appear with chicks at some point, has some sort of weird double life like Six Dinner Sid – and lives with other people the rest of the time, or she has infact been killed and eaten by a fox and is just haunting us as a frequently sighted ghost chicken. Need to fit a tiny webcam to her ankle or something next time she’s here.

I drove to Julie’s which is the longest drive I’ve done since I hurt my ankle and it was fine. I took the longer but less trafficky route so I wouldn’t have to do so much using the clutch. It has definitely turned a corner from waking me at night and constantly nagging at me to aching a bit by the end of a day and reminding me if I’m doing too much on it but being an odd whinge here and there rather than an all the time hassle. A bit like going from a toddler to a 7 year old ;).

Julie was surrounded by wet, half naked children as they’d been to the allotment, gotten dirty playing there and then been playing in the sprinkler in the garden to get clean. Jack and Maisie are big into Sarah-Jane Adventures at the moment and were desperate for Davies and Scarlett to watch with them so we stayed on. Julie and I drank tea and caught up with each other, then Chris came home, followed about 10 minutes later by Ady appearing for half an hour dropping some plants off. So all the Goddards were there which was nice. The kids were really funnily blase about it too – Scarlett and Maisie wandered through having not realised either Chris or Ady had arrived and just casually went ‘Hi Daddy, Hi Uncle Chris / Uncle Ady’ like they are transported there like that all the time 😆 There are no Davies’ other than my Mum, Dad and Frazer (Dad’s an only child and both his parents had died by the time I was 9) and my Mum’s family all already had different names and new spouses so I’ve never been part of a ‘clan’ before. I know there is only 9 of us but it was lovely to sit there being a big group of Goddards like that 🙂 I love that the five cousins have such a great open, lovely relationship with each other :).

We came home and I got myself changed then Ady dropped me at Lancing station before coming back home to feed Davies and Scarlett and get them to bed. I met up with GI Sarah (work colleague) at the station and we travelled to Brighton where we met up with Sarah Pyjamas (another work colleague) and Abi (ex work colleague) and all went to a very nice and cheap Italian for pasta, pizza and wine before going to the pub next door to watch Katy & Rach do their improvised comedy show and then stayed for the Q&A session afterwards.

It was a good night 🙂 We walked back to the station, got on respective trains and GI Sarah and I walked from the station to the library where she was parked and she dropped me home.

Not something I get to do often, and my ankle is rather protesting at all the working, driving and walking I have asked of it today but it was a really enjoyable evening.

27 July 2010

Timely Friends

Filed under: — Nic @ 10:44 pm

The hen hasn’t appeared at all today. One of the other hens has a poorly leg and is limping, coincidentally her left leg the same as me but I’m guessing hens don’t do empathic cracked ankles so it probably is genuine. I hope the hen does reappear, she is one of our favourites. I assume she is either off doing ‘hen who wouldn’t give up’ type stuff and will reappear with babies in a couple of weeks, will have gone for good or will be a bit like a dodgey east end trader of a hen who you appreciated while she’s around with her suitcase of rip off designer watches and fancy perfumes but know not to mention when you don’t see her for a while. It was suggested today that she was off on a ‘hen night’ by one of our visitors which made me laugh lots picturing her wearing L plates and drinking cocktails while wearing a T shirt with a picture of one of her hen mates 😆

In other non-fowl related news we watched some Horrible Histories this morning, Davies re-tidied his bedroom after I’d highlighted some of the flaws in his previous tidying attempt and Scarlett helped him (as it was Ady who tidied her room I suspect she was feeling lucky rather than smug and she has a good sense of karma that girl).

Helen, Alex and Abbie arrived mid morning and Helen and I chatted while the little two spent the entire five hours or so out with the birds and the older two spent some time hanging round us, some playing chess and then battleships, some lurking with the birds and then the remainder watching a Harry Potter film in Davies’ room.

Helen and I spent the whole time chatting. It’s funny how people seem to come into your life at just the right time to inspire or support you and I really feel meeting Helen has been a small catalyst for us deciding to embark on the plan for next year, coming across someone doing something outlandish and loving it.

When they left I hung some washing out, brought some in and was looking for the hen when Ady arrived home. He stood and chatted to me while I made quiche for dinner, the kids had free choice each on videos – Davies chose James and the giant peach which he has been speculating for ages might be Tim Burton and he was proved right – love that he can spot a director ;). Scarlett chose Walking with Dinosaurs which spawned a whole load of dinosaurness at bedtime with Davies appearing with plasticine stegosaurus, t rex, pteradactyls and diplodocus for me to identify while I was trying to have a bath 😆

I finished reading ‘not bad for a bad lad’ by Michael Morpurgo and the back story information stuff on the back pages before we began the now ritual we’re off to bed, oh no we’re not, okay we are now, not really pantomime routine that is 9-11pm in our house currently. Fortunately this is also prime alcohol consumption time for Ady and me so we get to be softer and ever more easily entertained parents while Davies and Scarlett get a really good public information type education about why drink is bad for you. Or something.

We had dinner while watching Heston and his Willy Wonka creations – never quite sure if he is mental or genuis and suspect a mix of the two.

26 July 2010

At home you say?

Filed under: — Nic @ 10:49 pm

Davies was up early this morning with a nose bleed. He went through a phase of having them pretty freqently when he was littler and has always been good at dealing with them in his usual unhysterical manner but he’s not had one for ages. Yesterdays not-quite-right-ness seemed to have left him other than that though although he did have another nose bleed, this time in a very spectacular, bled for ages fashion at bedtime which necessitated a changed bed and pjs and soaked quite a lot of a towel. I’ve never had a nose bleed but my Dad used to have them as a boy apparently.

We all spent time this morning looking for the lost speckledy hen – she’d been around in the afternoon yesterday and just disappeared. She then reappeared sometime during this afternoon and Scarlett came into the house with her tucked under her arm saying she’d just found her scratching around with the others in the garden. She disappeared again this evening though and was not around at bedtime so is obviously going elsewhere to roost. Not at all sure what to make of that and fairly sure she won’t be anywhere near as securely away for the night as she would be in the shed so will endeavour to prevent her from doing the same thing tomorrow, assuming she comes back.

So, plenty of time out in the garden, the kids played together lots, I finished a book I was reading about a bird flu pandemic (*really* need to select a far cheerier few books for my next couple of reads) and Scarlett and I made pastry and orange curd for an orange meringue pie for pudding tonight (was delicious 🙂 ).

We watched some documentries on Nat Geo Wild about giant fish in the Amazon and I finally filled out the tax credits form that has been kicking around for weeks AND walked to the post box and sent it too. And I spent way too long dreaming up a name for a blog for our big adventure. Several people have asked if I’ll be blogging it (including a couple of real life friends who don’t read this blog). I don’t know what our online arrangements will be yet but it is my intention to keep this blog up to date for my own records. However it had occured to me that writing about the whole adventure might prove to be some sort of revenue stream in some capacity – blogging, column for some out there hippy magazine etc. as confirmed by Jax. So in the interests of making it a complete story in one place I thought a blog from this point on talking about the idea, the planning and the execution of the whole plan before following us on the actual WOOFing itself would probably be a good idea. Hence the need for a name, and if I’m going to try and make money from it apparently twitter and facebook and stuff too. So be warned, you probably won’t want to be reading any of that stuff 😆

I’d come up with the idea of using a line from the theme tune to The Littlest Hobo, partly because I like it and partly because it seems like a good bit of music – ‘every stop I make, I make a new friend’ and ‘maybe tomorrow I’ll want to settle down, until tomorrow I just keep moving on’ all fits in very nicely with the rather romantic idea I have of how it will all pan out. But it seems many a person has had similar ideas and you can’t get a ‘Maybe Tomorrow’ anything online anywhere. Then I thought of ‘wanderers’ which naturally led me to ‘wonderers’ if for no other reason than I always have to stop and remember which one I mean and it seemed most appropriate. I have been known to be filled with wonder ;), the reason we are doing this is because we wonder if we’ll like it and it will certainly entail us wandering about. Infact we could as easily have been wandering wonderers but I’ve gone for wondering wanderers. I like it, it has far too many syllables, is confusing and could have several meanings and it doesn’t sound like anything else other than itself. Yes 🙂

Maybe tomorrow I’ll do a first blog post on it (see what I did there? 😉 ).

In other news I cooked a roast beef and yorkshire pudding dinner. It was far too hot for such a meal really but the beef had been frozen already so needed using and the kids like their roast dinners. The kids had a bath and hair wash while I cooked and I detangled Tarly’s hair which was in dire need of doing.

We ate dinner while watching Top Gear, all had seconds of the delicious orange meringue pie and then the kids and I watched some Ray Mears before their bedtime (which was then interupted by Nose Bleed Mark 2). Ady and I formulated a crap clearing plan and debated how best to plan our way round the country deciding a big map with stick pins was the answer.

25 July 2010

2010 half year round up

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:48 pm

I’ve been looking at the aims and objectives for 2010 just to see where we are with them. What I wrote is in normal type, I’ve bolded my current edits:

First up, regular stuff:

Wildlife Explorers Both Davies and Scarlett want to carry on with this. They get loads out of it and have both settled well into being in seperate groups now. I think Scarlett moves up when she is 8 so this whole year will be in different groups for them. We’ll also do at least the monthly Home Ed meet up at Pulborough Brooks, carry on with the Wildlife Action Awards (silver is complete and just needs printing off and posting, gold is probably already underway if I look at what they’ve already done for it). I’ve been looking at Pulborough Brooks events site and already earmarked several events coming up in the first quarter of the year to book.
Still going strong at WEX, Davies having had a wobble at being in the older group has moved back into the younger one. He is by far the oldest there but is far happier there and the leader, Diane says she’d rather keep him in the little group than lose him altogether.

Swimming Scarlett has specifically mentioned improving her swimming as something she wants to achieve this year. They are both making steady progress and I’d hope they had both reached the big pool by the end of 2010. I have also done well with swimming this year going from a gasping to reach double figures at the beginning to managing my goal of 50 lengths in an hour by the end of the year. My aim is to continue swimming for an hour most weeks and just see how many more lengths are achieveable for me in that time slot.

The kids are still doing well with swimming, both are more that capable of over 50m swimming although this is not particularly reflected in their achievements in lessons where I think they are far from pushy and tend to keep them back rather than pushing them forward. Both of them are happy to stay where they are though. Davies is toying with the idea of a snorkelling course in the summer holidays which I think he’d enjoy.

My own swimming has gone well with me completing the 2.5km swimathon challenge, raising over £300 for charity and having signed up for a channel swim later in the year.

Badgers This will be Davies’ last year in Badgers, infact he could even finish in the Summer and become a cadet in September. He will have done the full five years in Badgers by the time he finishes, been awarded SuperBadger and has already achieved his gold paw and become a Follow Me Badger. He intends attending Badger camp again this summer.

Scarlett has her silver paw and will have achieved her gold by the end of the year. She will still have two full years ahead of her even by the end of this year but will certainly be well on track for completing all the badges and getting her Super Badger status.

I have also joined the ranks of SJA as an Assistant Badger Leader, which I hope the trade off of poking my nose into something that had previously been Davies and Scarlett’s domain and forgoing my hour alone or with Ady each Wednesday evening will pay off with securing the future of the Worthing Badger sett along with giving me something else interesting to add to my CV.

Badgers has finished for Davies although he will be going back next presentation night to be awarded his SuperBadger status. He starts Cadets in September and although I have reservations as to how he’ll get on with it he is up for it at the moment.

Brownies and Sea Scouts
which I’ll lump together because they rather conveniently run at almost the same time on a Tuesday evening and mark the fact the children are in the middle set of the guiding and scouting movement now rather than the first one (Brownie and Cub rather than Rainbow and Beaver). Davies has enjoyed his first term at Sea Scouts despite facing some tension over his Home Ed status. I am both proud of him for choosing to stick with it and hopeful it will work out ok for him. This coming term and the Summer term should prove to be the more enjoyable ones with them getting out and about more and doing outdoor activities which I think Davies will love. Brownies for Scarlett will be very experimental and I reserve judgement on how she will find it – and indeed on how they will find her – until after she’s been a couple of times.

As I predicted both of them didn’t last at these. Davies managed a whole term before deciding Sea Scouts was not for him, Scarlett did two sessions of Brownies. I am neither surprised or disappointed.

Young Archaeolgists Club
Davies intends signing up for a second year of the local branch so should start attending their monthly meetings again in February when they restart.
Davies is enjoying this and so far sessions have worked out that Ady has attended them all with him which they have both enjoyed.


Reading Groups
Along with the Home Ed reading group Davies and Scarlett have started going to monthly I have also volunteered to run a six week long trial of Chatterbooks at the library. They are normally run as a monthly meeting book group but the powers that be have dictated we do it for six consecutive weeks to see how it works out. It’s on the condition that Davies and Scarlett attend as it’s in my own time and has a strict 7-9 year olds age range. I’m still at planning stage with regards to how it will actually work each week but anticipate it including illstrations, storytelling, talking about books and authors and sharing what we enjoy about reading and books.

Home Ed reading group has continued although sessions have been focussed on a display for Bognor library this year rather than book reading. I have run two seperate runs of Chatterbooks which D&S have both attended and helped with.

Having asked everyone what they’d like to do, see, learn about in 2010 I got a fairly reticent response from all three of them but I suspect this was to do with timing (day after a very late night and long car journey) than general apathy about their lives ;).

Ady wants to learn about butchery. He thinks it might be something he’d like to do as a career one day but he’d like to learn more about it recreationally at first at least. We will look out for courses or other opportunities to learn for him. He’d like to visit the Isle of Wight – we’ve not been for years and he has a yen to go over on the hovercraft for the day.
Butchering is now well onto the agenda, IoW will need to be carried across into 2010 part II

Davies
wants to learn to ride a bike. I’m hoping he will crack this at Centerparcs actually as we’re intending taking his bike, he’ll have nice flat roads with no cars to practise on and plenty of able friends to cheer him on / show him how it’s done. He wants to continue improving his reading. I think he’s cracked it this year but needs to practise now. He surprises both me and himself with how well he can read when he actually tries but still has a bit of a mental block about trying in the first place as he’s spent so long not being able to read he seems to forget he can. More bushcraft type activities would be good and he’s very keen to try out his own little tent for the first time. He wants to go to Badger camp again and would like to learn some more stuff about animation. He did ask if there was an animation museum and I’ve found various possibilities including The Cartoon Museum, The National Media Museum (which has the annual Bradford Animation Festival each November and we may consider visiting).
Bike riding is still not ticked off, bushcraft is by virtue of a Campcraft Sleepout booked for Davies’ tenth birthday present and animation is by a filmmaking holiday club session booked for October half term. His reading is coming along and is certainly not a concern for me or him.

Scarlett would still quite like to see a dolphin actually! She also wants to see an elephant although she is not being so particular as to demand to see one in the wild. She did say she’d quite like to ‘go to a jungle’ but she knows this might be one of her dreams she needs to make happen one day in the future rather than asking me to facilitate. Visiting either Port ympne or Chester Zoo will tick the elephant box for her at least. I’m hoping a planned visit to Scotland in the summer may prove successful for the dolphins.
She doesn’t want to read or write although does at least concede these days that she may have to learn if she really does want to work with animals. I overheard Davies putting forward a very convincing argument for literacy and numeracy based on her zoo vet DS game the other day :lol:. She wants to improve her swimming and would also quite like to learn to ride a bike now. She’d like to hatch ducklings which we have got planned for the spring as soon as the timing is right for them to be okay outside when they are fully downed.
Yay – dolphins tick, hatching ducklings tick! Portlymphe needs to be bumped up our list for the second half of the year.
Both Davies and Scarlett still want to learn to do backflips. After toying with gymnastics for a term and concluding it wasn’t for them I have put feelers out for circus skills and tumbling / acrobatics coaching instead. They have their names down for Whippersnapper Circus and we’ll keep an eye out for one off courses with them. I also have a fire juggling friend with contacts in the right places seeing what she can find out for me too.
This seems to have slipped off their priority list rather as they have both realised how very tricky it will be and just how much practise is required.

I have had an initial chat with a friend and fellow HomeEdder about art classes for them both as I think they’d benefit from someone giving them advice and training on how to use various materials and some ideas. I’ve also got their names down at a local art gallery for art classes there too if the tentatively planned skills swap (I do something with my friends’ daughters while she gives Davies and Scarlett some art lessons) doesn’t pan out.
Nothing has happened as yet. The skills swapping never quite got off the ground despite plenty of planning chats. We’ve put it on hold until the weather is less lovely!

A woman I met on my WPA course has offered music lessons and has a folk harp, piano and various percussion instruments. We agreed to get Christmas out of the way first and then come back to it but that could become a regular thing if she and they get on and enjoy working together.
Argh, fail 🙁 Really must contact Sheila!

Julie is keen to progress with the pony riding this year too although Honey is getting very old and tired and she doesn’t expect to still have her by the end of the year. Jack and Maisie are not interested but Julie thinks Lorna might be and wants to carry on with Davies and Scarlett who she feels show potential and enjoy it.
another on hold although I do think 2011’s plans might pick this one back up.
I am looking forward to doing some real live shepherding, finishing my WPA training (I have an interview, assignment, H&S training course and CRB checking to undergo still yet along with more training along the way) and actually doing some volunteering. I am reserved about the Badger thing but know I will learn new skills from it and be doing something community spirited. I’m looking forward to the various things I have proposed at work and the further training I have been put forward for too.
Done shepherding, have some WPA stints lined up, done several work related things, have one term of Badgering left committed to.

I want the allotment to be even more successful this year. I want to increase our ‘livestock’ to include ducks and maybe even make some money from breeding chickens.
Grown loads at home, allotment done okay but realised it is hard to balance with work / home stuff, livestock holding increased to currently 14 chickens, 2 ducks and 3 quails!

I want to shop seasonally and locally and try and avoid supermarkets wherever possible. I am planning on batch cooking, using our own produce, PYO and doing lots of freezing, preserving and other such muffiny pursuits.
All going pretty well on that front.
I want to carry on with my swimming weekly, cycling as soon as the evenings are light again (which tidily brings me to 30 minutes three times a week during the summer months) and think about something feasible for the winter months but at least include a couple of daytime walks a week to get the blood pumping. I want to spend more time on the beach.
erm, swimming not bad, cycling not happening, daytime walks currently on hold due to ankle, pretty physical year planned for 2011 though.

I’d like to learn to crochet and try and make one thing every month craft-wise that I am proud of enough to sell / give away as a gift or just keep and hug to myself every time I see it (a bit like my blanket 🙂 ).
Can now crochet, not very keen on it but can do it.
Places to go
Which also includes planned or half planned holidays.

January
Centerparcs

February
There has been a request from the kids to visit Cadburyworld. We have been before but Davies only just remembers it and Scarlett doesn’t at all. As it’s indoors February would seem a sensible time to take a visit there. Having checked prices I don’t think the group discount price is worth the headache of trying to organise a group visit there, but if sufficient people are interested then I might be persuaded to think again…
never got there, no one has mentioned it since so we might quietly forget about it…

March

April
I want to visit the Thames Barrier and as part of the trip would include a riverside walk we stand more chance of decent weather in April than any earlier in the year. Again, would consider organising a group trip if enough people are interested, but equally happy to visit alone. The minimum group size is only ten so possibly worth trying to drum up numbers.
Am also keen to visit Wildwood at some point in the Spring and again would like to try and get enough people in for a group visit so we can take advantage of prices and an educational talk. Another place probably better visited late March / April for hopefully warmer weather.
Groombridge Place opens at the end of March – end of November and is somewhere else I definitely want to visit in 2010.

Need to carry all those forward.

May

We’ll definitely do the Green Fair at Sustainability Centre, although I notice they are doing a Skills Fayre for the whole week with all sorts of interesting looking things happening which I will wait to hear more about and maybe considering doing. I think we’d love it.

Also up for the Victorian Farm camping trip if that happens although it would likely be just me and the kids.

Hoping for a repeat of fabulous time at Jan and Jonathan’s.

If we’re not already booked up there is the Food and Farming Fair at Weald and Downland on 2nd and 3rd May,
done some, others not done due to other stuff.
June
Nothing specific planned yet, but there’ll be heavy horse show at Weald and Downland on 5th and 6th, Open Farm Sunday on June 13th, the South of England Show on 11th June.
had very busy June, quite happy with what we did manage!
July
A camping trip to Scotland is in the planning stages with Marcus, Michelle and Chloe. The quest for spotting dolphins continues…

Dates already released for the Festival of History as 17th and 18th of July so will be doing that again, along with Wicksteed Park for coastertastic fun.
Been fab 🙂
August
Davies tells me he’s going to Badger camp, no idea on dates for that yet.
It’s the Steam Festival at Weald and Downland on 14th and 15th
changed his mind (yipee!) have plenty of other stuff planned!

September
We’ll be doing our traditional camping at Sustainability Centre with day trip to Butser again. I’m hoping to pre-arrange something a bit different at Butser and see if we can get one of their regular workshop tutors to run something for us like flint knapping or Roman or Celtic cooking.
Sus cntr booked, Butser needs attending to.

October

Just noting a few events if we are free at the time: Autumn Fair and Game Show at Ardingly 2nd and 3rd October.
Autumn Countryside show at Weald and Downland on 9th and 10th.
If we’ve not already managed it earlier in the year I want to visit Port Lympne.

November

December
Already planned Christmas camp for Okehampton along with provsionally booking Pennywell for the nativity. Come and join the celebration! 🙂

Not a bad start at all, most of the planned things either in hand or achieved, several decided against in favour of other stuff instead. Have reminded myself of a couple of things I want to do this year and need to factor and plan in so will try and get them sorted.

Family

Filed under: — Nic @ 10:53 pm

My Mum had appeared here on Monday evening after work last week, spent some time with the kids (I was cooking a roast dinner, so hobbling round the kitchen when she arrived), been all surprised when asking after our allotment and being told we would obviously be giving it up at the end of the season (they run from October to September so we’ll see out this year, harvest our potatoes, onion, garlic etc and dig up our apple tree once it’s fruited and replant it here in the garden before handing it back to the first person on the very long waiting list) as we’re going away. She said ‘Oh. So you really are going away then? Really?’ as though we regularly come up with harebrained schemes and don’t see them through. It is true we do fairly regularly come up with crazy notions but after getting married in Las Vegas with 3 weeks notice (memorable quote ‘we’re doing this whatever you say. I’d love you to come with us and be part of it but if you can’t then we’ll celebrate with you when we get back’), getting pregnant with Davies (they were in Australia at the time, told them over the phone, Dad asked ‘so what are you going to do then?’ I replied ‘become a parent I guess’), moving to Manchester, having a home birth, Home Educating, not getting a divorce when the full horror of our debts came to light, going camping (but what about the ensuite bathroom?) and so on, I think we have form for seeing them through really.

So I guess the silence is punishment that we are going to do this after all and their faint protests : Dad ‘but you’re really lazy Nicola, you do realise you’ll have to *work* don’t you?’, Mum ‘what will you do if you need medical attention?’ have been ignored. But Davies has been missing my Dad, hell I’ve been missing my Dad and I don’t want the next few months to be akward, I want them to wish us well and be excited on our behalf even if they think we’re bloody mental.

So once I got up – I was doing installment sleeping again – 11pm til about 4am, then about 2.5 hours listening for the cockerels to start crowing, watching Scarlett sleep and feeling sorry for myself that I wasn’t, then sleeping from about 7ish til 10ish when Ady brought me a cup of tea. The others were playing Goddard-opoly (one of those make your own opoly kits from years and years ago), I checked that everyone was in agreement and we rang my parents to see if they were about for us to go over and visit.

They were, we did, I was teased for not helping make lunch despite being nearly in tears from pain – ankle playing up big time today for some reason, Davies was fawned over until I asked Mum to stop (he was looking embarrassed, I was fretting that he’d get Frazer-itis and still be at home when he’s 48) and Ady was being remonstrated with to ‘have a day off’ when he got up to wash up which was clearly just a dig at me as if they’d really cared they would surely have just washed up themselves rather than sitting there? I set my Mum’s laptop up to our flickr account so they could see our holiday photos, the kids sat with them to give a commentary but Mum mostly talked over them and Dad fell asleep.

Sometimes it’s nice to have a crazy idea like a year on the road made easier for you by reminding you that you won’t be leaving behind all that much 🙁

At bedtime last night Davies had complained of a lump in his throat which I’d put down to either tiredness of the onset of a cold. This afternoon he rapidly started to go downhill so it is a cold. He said he wasn’t hungry and as we’d been at my parents longer than I’d anticipated we’d left it rather late for a roast dinner so we’ve defered that til tomorrow and the kids had a quick tea, some story (we read half of ‘not bad for a bad lad’ by Morpurgo) and then bed. Not that they went to sleep mind you, but at least I’d done my best at getting them there.

We seem to have mislaid one of our speckled hens who we are hoping has tucked herself up safely for the night away from foxes as she is not in the hen house with the others. Ady and I both spent some time searching for her to no avail 🙁 Fingers crossed she reappears safe and well in the morning.

We had Stephen Fry echoing round the house as both D & S are listening to different Harry Potter audio books while we watched Stephen Fry in America on TV.

Work, friends, waterbombs

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:05 am

I worked in the morning. As predicted no one had done the Summer Reading Challenge display and it was ready and waiting for my return from holiday. I wasn’t feeling particularly inspired to do anything creative so used the promotional materials of posters etc that had come featuring the Space Hop characters, did some photocopying and enlarging and made some 3d versions of them pop out from a black background on the wall. I added a scrunched up silver paper moon, lots of photocopied little aliens and books off the posters and might make some stars to fill in the gaps next time I’m in.

I signed a couple of children up, listened to two children who had already read their first books and then it was home time. Ady had run me in and came back to collect me. Home for a quick bit of lunch and then back out again as Davies and Scarlett had been invited to a friend’s 9th birthday party.

I’d sent Debs (party Mum and host) a text to say D&S would love to come and she’d said there was an adult’s zone at the end of the garden so we were welcome to stay around too. The only parties D&S have ever really been invited to tend to be friends of the whole family so actually the idea of not staying hadn’t even occurred to me – another one of those reminders that actually we *are* a bit different! 😆

We arrived and Davies and Scarlett got pulled straight into a game with a load of other lads running around with toy weapons and walkie talkies. At that point we were the only other parents around so we stayed in the adult zone with tea chatting to Debs and Jezz while all the kids rampaged about. More parents arrived on and off so we chatted to various people and drank the steady stream of tea (and ate cakes). The weapons game was replaced with a full on water fight with water pistols and water bombs so most kids were by now sugar crazed, soaking wet and having an absolute ball.

Caz and Bid arrived near the end of the official party and when everyone else had gone home our kids and the six of us sat chatting further and eventually moved onto drinking wine. I think we could all have sat there all night but at about 830pm it was getting chilly and I was aware the kids needed some proper food as they don’t tend to eat the party food like pizza and sausage rolls.

we came home, I fed Davies and Scarlett and Ady made a curry for us and thanks to not having slept properly still I was falling asleep on the sofa by 11pm so went up to bed for an Early Nic Night. Scarlett was still awake so ended up appearing in bed with me too which meant I still didn’t get my decent nights’ sleep.

23 July 2010

Many, many clicks

Filed under: — Nic @ 10:49 pm

Another at home day today. I’d already decided we’d not have much going on as I wanted to avoid driving and for once we’ve all been fine being housebound. I think nearly 2 weeks away from the joys of things with plugs and toys which take up room and pets who can be cooed over and cuddled have given them novelty status.

So, more washing, more dvd watching (today was Ice Age 2 and Alice in Wonderland (the latest borrowed from work)), DSing, bedroom tidying which they did as collaborative works together, we put the quails out for the day and had to rescue them a few times, I made a couple of phonecalls (one to arrange to give blood, one to return several of Julie’s calls and catch up with her) and did the many clicking exercise of downloading other people’s photos from flickr, loading them back up to a different website and then arranging them to create a photobook. Hopefully the results will be with me early next week in time to present to the recipients next weekend :).

I also finished reading two books, both of which had me crying – Alone on a wide, wide sea to Davies and Scarlett and the lastest Jane Green which I’d not realised in advance was of the subject matter it was and brings my total number of books about women dying of cancer to four in recent times. Sob 🙁 I hate that the chick lit authors who have ‘grown up’ with me from writing about new relationships and new parenthood at times I was going through those things all seem to have moved on to divorce, infertility or premature death these days 🙁 – do we not have happy endings in our fiction once we pass 35?

It’s been a very low key week and certainly not one I could repeat too often, particularly as I had various online things I wanted to catch up with so haven’t been particularly present for Davies and Scarlett, but I think we’ve all quite enjoyed pottering about at home for a change.

22 July 2010

Sent home!

Filed under: — Nic @ 10:07 pm

Back to work for me today. Although I’d been in on Tuesday night for Book Club it has been nearly 3 weeks since I’ve worked and I was slightly dreading being on my ankle all day. Typically it was already quite throbbing and stiff when I woke up this morning (another dawn waking, earlier this time at 4am, not at all sure how to break this habit) so I put on the ankle support bandage thingy.

Ady took Davies and Scarlett off to do store visits with him for the day so I waved them off and then headed into work early. One of my jobs at work is to coordinate the ordering of books for the five reading groups run from Lancing library. There is the book group I belong to and four others – one which is WI members, one which is U3A members, one which came about as a result of a few streets in North Lancing getting together to try and prevent the closure of a small local post office – they failed but decided to carry on with the social aspect of meeting up and started a book club and one which is very established and all it’s members have MAs or PHDs in Literature and they meet to critique writing. It can be quite a frustrating task as often they all seem to want books that are really popular and have been featured in Richard and Judy’s book group reviews or various literary prize nomination lists and because I am only there for 11 hours I rarely actually see any of the reps from the book groups myself. So for a while I’d been angling to try and arrange an event and invite all the book clubs to come along so I could explain how our service works and manage their expectations a little more realistically, to get some feedback on how they think we do and to put my face to them as a contact and know who I am ringing if I need to chase things up. We came up with the idea of a Coffee Morning event and with some pushing on my part I got a date set, invitations sent out and RSVP’d to and it happened this morning, run by Brenda, the Principle Librarian and me. I only realised after it had all been arranged that it would be my first day back at work after the holiday so was keen to get in early and sort stuff out in preparation.

The event went well, we had 20 people attend and despite a glitch in the timetable over teabreaks for the rest of the staff meaning Brenda disappeared for a while in the middle leaving me to it it was a definite success :). Another thing to add to my CV I guess. That took me to lunchtime, half of which I missed as I was moving tables back and clearing coffee cups.

In the afternoon my ankle had swollen up quite a lot and was pretty painful. I’d been given mostly sitting down duties but I had to take the ankle support off as it was cutting in where it had swollen and colleagues were shocked at how puffed up it was. At 415pm I was offered the chance to go home – I suspect I was looking a little grey – and for the first time ever in my working life I went home from work early! I don’t have another full day shift until next Friday when fingers crossed it will be improved enough to manage a full day on my feet.

Ady and the kids were already at home so I laid on the sofa with my feet up and an ice pack on and it soon reduced in size and felt better. I am concerned that we are now on day 16 and it is still so swollen despite most of the bruising having come and gone now. I am also almost out of my prescription painkillers so I might make a GPs appointment for more of those and get it looked at at the same time just to check there is nothing else I should be doing.

The others had found a video in a charity shop of the film Loch Ness so we all watched that together in a reminising fashion of the holiday :). I read some chapters of Alone on a wide, wide sea and then it was (ha!) bedtime.

Dinner for Ady and I, we watched some Outnumbered on dvd and I am about to have an early night with some painkillers and see if I can push past the dawn waking phenomena!

21 July 2010

If I don’t catch up now maybe I never will!

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:50 pm

So for once it will be brief. Well brief for me. Which let’s face it rarely counts as brief by anyone else’s standards. Infact it probably doesn’t even count as standard by anyone else’s brief. Maybe I should get on with it…. 😉

Monday Having continued the 5am waking it was a late morning for Davies, Scarlett and I as I went back to sleep. Poor Ady was back to work with a vengence – I think he is clinging to that ‘only X months to go’ feeling of an end in sight.

We had no milk so I nipped to the shop for some so we could have cereal (them) and tea (me) before getting started on the serious business of uploading photos and beginning the epic blogposts you see below this one. Having realised it was not just milk we were out of (I had a plan to make cheese scones for lunch but realised we had neither cheese nor butter) I decided to have a go at a short drive to Sainsburys on the basis that few gear changes are required in that short journey.

So off we went. The drive was okay, I’d not want to do any length of driving as yet and when I was stopped at traffic lights I did the handbrake / neutral thing so I could release the clutch, I think slow and steady is the way forward with this but I certainly wouldn’t have been driving last week or the week before. The supermarket was fine, the kids were stars :). I went with their requests for lunch food (Davies: crumpets, Scarlett: tuna in french bread) and got a whole chicken to do a roast dinner with on the basis we’d missed two roast dinners and all of us could do with a proper home cooked in an inside kitchen dinner. (and yes I know I have mentioned beds, baths and kitchens and missing them and I know our current plan means we won’t have any of those things as such but there will be access to them every so often.)

Back home we had lunch and the kids caught up on various things they’d missed: Davies, X box, dvd player, the garden, the geomags; Scarlett: the chickens, the ducks, the chicks, the quails, aqua beads and her paints.

We harvested the potato council spuds – a pretty balanced crop from the two varieties, most of which we used for roast and mashed potatoes for dinner that night. We emptied them in the chicken’s cage so they could pick over the compost, eat the woodlice and rotted seed potatoes.

I did some more flickring and blogging and cooked a roast chicken, rpast and mashed potatoes, stuffing, various veg and gravy. My Mum appeared while I was peeling potatoes and Ady arrived home shortly afterwards so her and I caught up on holiday news while Ady caught up in the garden.

Dinner was lovely, I enjoy eating with the kids although we are nowhere near ready to do it every night but are working towards it given they are often awake long past when we’re eating anyway.

Tuesday Further lateness, particularly as when I woke at 5am I really couldn’t get back to sleep so got up and had a cup of tea for an hour of so before going back to bed and sleeping for another couple of hours. Not at all keen on this nights-sleep-in-installments business 🙁

Having finished ‘flour’ in River Cottage Family Cookbook we moved on to ‘milk’ and I read aloud the first bit. At Sainburys the day before we’d bought some gold top milk, some goats milk and some yoghurt, double cream and buttermilk. I also had some ‘on the turn’ double cream in the fridge so we did a taste test of various types of milk and then made some butter with the old cream. We’ve done butter making several times before but I don’t think it ever loses it’s magic 🙂 We also made some cheese scones to go along with it and then harvested some lavender to make some lavender shortbread (RCFC called for normal shortbread and didn’t mention cheese scones but they seemed fitting in this section 🙂 ).

It was swimming lessons and as it is the last one before the summer break I was keen to get D&S there but rather nervous about the drive as it is very trafficky both way being along the coast road. I’d rung my Dad to see if he could take us but he wasn’t home so I was really pleased when Ady appeared home in time to take us and drop us off before shooting off to his last meeting of the day and coming to collect us again later.

It meant the kids had nearly half an hour in the pool before Scarlett’s lesson, so the best part of an hour for Davies before his. I was surprised at how very wobbly and nervous I was being back there after the falling down the steps accident. They both had good lessons as they were fun end of term type stuff such as team races and messing about with floats. They are both to remain in the same groups next term which I’m slightly disappointed with as I felt they were both ready to move up really although I am aware that the ‘trial’ week when they were graded was the week I hurt my ankle so neither of them would have been at their best. Ultimately I want them to enjoy being in the water, gain water confidence and increase their survival chances in water so it’s always been less about climbing the ranks of swimming levels.

Scarlett had a short time in the pool after her lesson before declaring herself worn out and coming to sit on my lap – in her soaking wet swimsuit! I was feeling very overheated having sat there for over an hour by that time though so it wasn’t entirely unwelcome, although I did feel slightly self conscious limping out, saturated when we left 😆

Ady collected us and did dinner and getting to bed duty while I went out to Book Club at the library. It was a good group, we’d read ‘After You’d Gone by Maggie O’Farrell which we’d universally enjoyed and sparked some interesting conversations.

And so to today, Wednesday. I’d read a book for an hour or so at today’s 5am waking before painkillers kicked in and I went back to sleep. This morning I stuck on the chicken carcass to boil up for soup and some bread dough for rolls for lunch, did several loads of washing – have now caught up 🙂 and the kids watched TV, spent time with the birds and watched more Harry Potter dvds.

Ady came home at lunchtime which was nice, we’ve missed him being with us after such a long time in each others company. The rest of us had a later lunch by virtue of a later breakfast 😉 Scarlett and I having soup and rolls and Davies having rolls with peanut butter – rolls were a hit 🙂 .

In the afternoon the kids played in the garden and we visited the allotment briefly to water and check all was okay. Back home for dinner and Davies made himself an omelette. He didn’t like it (I don’t blame him, I don’t like them either 😉 ) but the chickens did 🙂 .

I read some story and then made some flatbreads to make tortillas for dinner for Ady and I. Time rather ran away with us and we were back to a 10pm dinnertime again proving that eating with the kids is not quite within our reach yet. But I have caught up with blogging 🙂 .

20 July 2010

Wicksteed and Festival of History

Filed under: — Nic @ 9:58 pm

Thursday morning after breakfast with J&J, some time for the children to continue a game they’d been playing on the computer and continued chatting we left for Wicksteed. The past two years we’ve arrived late, getting on for dark on the Thursday – infact last year we arrived so late we ended up begging a pod in Chris & Helen’s tent, so it was a real novelty to arrive at a sensible time. With the exception of a caravan we had the entire field to ourselves, which in some ways made it trickier to decide on a pitch. We went for next to the hedge in a slight dip in the hope it would be sheltered from the wind. LovelyEm arrived while we were still pondering and we set up in the newly arrived wind and rain shower 🙁 . Once we were set up I felt happier and we headed off to Tescos for supplies for dinner and some more tent pegs and a hot water bottle which I had decided was needed to keep my ankle / foot from the 5am aching in the cold that had been waking me every night.

Back at the campsite Helen and Chris, Chris and Babs and Kirsty and James arrived, various wind related tent casualties occured and by about 1030pm despite being with much adored friends the wind and rain were getting to me so I took painkillers and retired to bed, falling asleep long before Davies and Scarlett who were still chatting in their pod. I woke when Ady got into bed around 1am having been making tent repairs which he rather annoyingly wanted to share details of with me which roused me fully and I then lay awake in pain for a while 🙁 Just as well I’d had that early night…

Friday was Wicksteed day. We were all up bright and early and wondering whether the rollercoaster would be running due to the wind. It wasn’t 🙁 . I think the wind was better than last year’s very heavy rain though. Babs did some complicated maths and worked out we’d save money by going in as a group but when they wanted us to go to a different ticket office and were not sure if we’d be able to use Tesco vouchers anyway we decided to stick to going in individually.

It was a slightly odd feeling being there as for the first time the kids, particularly Davies would really rather have been going round with his friends instead of his parents. Retrospectively we should have not bothered with wrist bands for Ady and I, left them to it and hung out at the tent instead or maybe even gotten there early enough to do the rides as a family the day before and then sent the kids off with mates on the Friday.

Fortunately the mates they most wanted to hang around with were Marcus and Alex so we were able to hook up with Kirsty and James for much of the time and go around with them. The plusses of bigger kids are definitely tinged with a slight feeling of redundancy …I guess it’s been that much more intense a needing as HEors with needing to physically be around so much more.

Anyway, we all had a good time, I’d dosed up on codine, used my support bandage and worn my DMs so my ankle was numb and supported but I was careful with the rides I did go on to avoid too much bracing with my feet (so the crazy boat slide ride was out) or general stress on it (ditto the cycling helicopter). Did a couple of pirate ship rides and umbrella rides and log flumes though and mourned the rollercoaster remaining closed all day.
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Ady had checked the times of the circus and been told 1pm and 3pm so we had passed that information around and arranged to do the 1pm show then head back to the tents for lunch. When we arrived at the Big Top just before 1pm though it said ‘next show 2pm’ so something had gone wrong. I sent out a group text to try and let everyone else know and we headed back to the tent for lunch first instead.

The circus was pretty good (included in the wristband price) although one girl seemed to be in pretty much every act and there were a rather large amount of costume character fillers. I wasn’t very keen on the horse part of the show either but the kids really enjoyed it, particularly with the additional attraction of candyfloss 🙂
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Unfortunately we’d taken the closing time of 5pm in two previous years as the norm and heading over to the bigger ride area for the last hour just managed one ride before all of them closed 🙁 I had an even bigger gripe in that I’d hobbled to the toilet block to find it locked, hobbled to a second one to find that locked and then hobbled to the others to find them leaving a rapidly locking up park 🙁 . I was very fed up and ready to find someone to shout at but lost my fight when one of the toilet cleaners at the camping field ran after me to give me back my camera that I’d left in the loo 😳 so we headed off to Tesco for dinner and picnic for the next day supplies instead.

Jax had arrived when we got back and with Merry & Max arriving earlier our group had swollen to even bigger numbers (particularly given Babs now had two tents up 😉 ). The campsite was really filling up now, not with particularly desireable people in all cases but moving cars around to create a barricade and lighting a ‘campfire’ (small barbecue filled with charcoal) enabled us to gather round for marshmallow toasting, plenty of laughter, a bit of crying and generally loving being with friends.

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The last few of us stayed up really very late indeed laughing and talking – the evidence of which was still around when I woke up for my 5am wee and painkiller tradition:
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Saturday was Festival of History day one. We managed to leave the campsite at a fairly sensible time and walked in with Helen & Chris, Merry & Max. We’d all arranged a meet up at 1pm near the seaside for lunching together but the complete re-organisation of where each arena and zone was totally threw us. I still think we probably missed some bits despite being there for both days. We all have bits we prefer – I like Peterkin the Fool and wanted to see at least one of his shows, I also like walking round the various camps but am less bothered about the re-enactment stuff in the arenas. Davies and Scarlett would happily do activities and watch Punch & Judy shows for the duration whereas Ady would position himself infront of the loudest battle. We spent some time walking round the various camps, watched some of the lance battles and then spent some time in the Roman area where D&S played some games Roman games” alt=”” />, by then it was time to head to the Fool but a sudden downpour drove us (and many, many other people) into the English Heritage tent. I suspect they had never been so crowded in there 😆 Ady and I had picked up some big yellow ponchos at Tesco the night before reduced to 50 pence each, so wishing we had bought more and could have resold them for profit, we donned those and headed out of the squeeze.
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We had sat down near where Peterkin was setting up on our ponchos as by now the rain had stopped but people all stood infront of us forcing us back onto our feet. The kids managed to get to the front but I was struggling to stand still and there was no where to sit so when the rain started pouring again and he cut his show short I was quite relieved. As an aside I was really fed up several times over the two days with other people’s selfishness in terms of positioning themselves right infront of others, pushing to the front, not caring whether those behind them could see. I was ever conscious of my foot which possibly made me even more aware of people in my personal space but several times we found a good position to sit infront of something to watch only to have others shove infront of us and block our view 🙁 .

Scarlett was hungry so we headed towards the seaside once we’d tracked down where it was, found some deckchairs and sat down. Scarlett forgot she was hungry and dashed off to play in the sand, Davies went off to watch Punch and Judy and Chris and Helen appeared and joined us. We realised the rest of the group was sitting on the other side to us but having claimed chairs satisfied ourselves with waving at them rather than moving. Ady went off to get tea and I heard what Helen had seen and done which gave us a couple of things to head for in the afternoon.

Suitably refreshed and with no further rain we had a good afternoon. We found the reindeer antler man Helen had mentioned (and has linked to I think, him with the fab beard). He was fab, really engaging, full of anecdotes and facts and very keen to let Davies and Scarlett do as much of the tool handling as possible. They each chose a piece of antler, drilled a hole in it and then etched a spiral pattern in it with some of his tools. He was perfectly happy to then use them to sell on his stall but of course we bought them – at £2 each I was quite happy we’d not been had 🙂

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We did some tussy mussy making in the YACs tent (very proud that both kids managed to id 5 out of the 6 herbs there), some wax seals and visited the pub for free lemonade for the kids before settling down at the main arena for the WW2 display. Scarlett was not super keen so I gave her a bit of a pep-talk (I’m sure you can imagine how that went 😉 ) and we got ice creams to eat on the way out. We missed the final parade which I do really enjoy but we were all tired, my foot hurt and we decided to call it a day.

We managed to make the same error of entering the motorway in the wrong direction that we’d done last year :rolls: and decided fish and chips for dinner was the way forward meaning no cooking or washing up, an early dinner leaving plenty of time for playing / socialising. Winning idea 🙂 .

Back at the campsite Stella and Rich had arrived and Katy and the little fishes (all four of them 🙂 ) came along too so we were a pretty big crowd (although missing LovelyEm who we’d said good bye to that morning). Which was just as well as there were pretty big crowds all round and the campsite was packed to capacity. There were more rain showers but they passed over and we had another dry evening in the end.

More marshmalllow toasting over the barbecue, more kids running wild, more drinking, laughing and chatting, another lovely evening, this time with added sky lantern spotting – a letting off one Jax had brought along decorated by them recently.

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Another late night surrounded by lovely friends, it finished off our very wonderful break camping in a perfect fashion 🙂 .

Sunday packing up went smoothly – having been critical of Ady’s packing the car technique for ages I finally got involved and told him where to stick things 😉 – he admitted it had gone in far better than he’s ever managed so I suspect I have just given myself a new responsibility 😆 Although I don’t know when we’ll next, if ever, be loading up that particular car for a camping trip as we’ll be at September camp in two cars.

We called in at Tesco for some bits for lunch (and some bits to take home for dinner later) and arrived at FoH at the same time as The Raines. We hooked up with them several times during the course of the day, meeting up to watch Peterkin, who picked Chris to be one of his victims which was hilarious
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We chatted to a US nurse who told us why the nurses wore bright red lipstick and how they had officer status and then Davies uttered the hilarious request ‘Mumma, is it okay if Ben and me go to the pub?’ 😆 He had cause to project me into his future several times this weekend 😉 . We folllowed behind the kids and they sat outside toasting ‘everyone who died in wars’ together while we looked on
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We split up again, having arranged to meet up for BZents later. We carried on and did most of the bits we’d not managed before including the Historical Marketplace. We did miss the woodland open air plays and I’d liked the idea of one of the talks about a relationship played out in letters (My Dear Howie). We looked for but could not find the skinner we’d enjoyed talking to last year but did find a stall with fox, squirrel and bear skins which was interesting. I also missed the allotment talks.

We bumped into Jax at the Antartic Explorers tent and had seen Kirsty and James at the Artisan bit so had told them of the plan for BZents at 415pm and we all were there for that. Most of the children who wanted to (with the sad exception of Ben 🙁 ) were included in the Horatio’s Last Hurrah play which was to the usual high standard and we decided that was a great high point to end on. We left at the same time as Babs and Kirsty, pleased to have a firm date to call ‘see you in X weeks’ to each other as we parted.

Satnav said the drive home should have been 2.5 hours but thanks to M25isms it was closer to 3.5hrs. Bath and food for Davies and Scarlett, I sorted dinner for Ady and I while Ady emptied his car, Scarlett was delighted to see her ducks (now most definitely no longer ducklings) and Davies was pleased to have the quails in his bedroom (who promptly started flying despite being only 3 weeks old so have a cover on their box now.

It’s highly unlikely we’ll be Wicksteed and FoHing next year given our plans for 2011 so it was fab to have had such a great weekend with so many friends. It was also the perfect end to such a wonderful week in Scotland, with J&J sandwiched inbetween. Ady is telling anyone who’ll listen how it ranks for one of his top holidays ever, Scarlett now has in perspective how amazing it is she has seen dolphins, Davies did a really good job of being the spare to Scarlett and Chloe and hanging out for the end of the week with Marcus and Ben – and as it turned out Maddie too 😉 and I am now looking at through rather different eyes and I had 11 nights away where despite being in really quite a lot of pain from my ankle had an excellent holiday. I loved the scenery, wildlife, views and campsite in Scotland and the comfortable, enjoyable company of Marcus, Michelle and Chloe. I loved dropping in at J&J’s for the peace of their landscape and gorgeous home, calming company and great taste in youtube clips, I loved being with our fab group of friends round a campfire at Wicksteed with all the in jokes, comfort for those in need and laughter and support. I also very much loved getting home to my house with a bed, a bath and a fridge ;).

Havering with dolphins

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:56 am

Last year Scarlett expressed a desire to see dolphins in the wild. I did some online research as to whether this was a feasible challenge here in the UK and uncovered various ‘hot spots’ including Cornwall, parts of Wales and Scotland. We had really hoped Shell Island in North Wales would answer this one for her as we were camping there in July and some advance contact with the campsite and local boat tour opertors suggested we had a good chance. In the end despite countless time gazing out to see across the bay and a rather expensive boat trip the dolphins proved elusive and we didn’t see any. We saw seals which Scarlett considered a worthy runner up but we carried the quest over to this years list of ‘things we want to do’ for her. I am a great believer in finding ways to make dreams come true whenever possible.

We were reliably informed that Scotland, specifically the Moray Firth is *the* place to see dolphins in the UK, infact in Europe and arranged with our tried and tested holiday sharing family 😉 to have a camping trip there this year. Michelle took on the role of researcher and tracked down a fabulous campsite at Rosemarkie which we were excited to see had many rave reviews about dolphin sightings on a regular basis, both from the campsite and from nearby Chanonry Point. A six night stay for us made joining the Camping and Caravanning Club financially worthwhile so we did that, got it booked up and then dealt with the full logistics of a 12 hour drive to get from our ‘almost as far south as you get’ home to ‘almost as far north as you get’ destination. Not quite John O’Groats to Lands End but pretty damn close.

So Wednesday was the first leg of the journey – six hours driving to a Travelodge (booked in their advance booking £22 deal) in Carlisle. Six hours driving in a car filled with enough stuff for 11 nights away, with two young children and a woman with a cracked ankle is never going to be a delight but armed with toffee bon-bons, many painkillers and my crutches in the top box we were off. We’d been initially aiming to be away for 9am, stop for lunch mid-point and then drive back out for dinner somewhere in Carlisle once we’d checked in. The ankle, left over packing from the night before and me only being able to crawl round the house on hands and knees meant it was closer to 11am when we actually set off. Getting up and down the stairs was a nightmare 🙁

Aside from being in agony and the shiny floor surfaces of Services being no place to skitter across on crutches the twice we stopped for wee-breaks it was fine. No real hold ups, a very brief wee-stop once and a fairly brief McDonalds for kid-food and tea & coffee for Ady and I stop and we were at the Travelodge by 6pm. We had a rest and recuperate in the room and then set out to find food. The sat nav told us cashpoints and shops were six miles away but when we set it to go there it changed to 23 miles away meaning a nearly 50mile round trip thanks to being on the north bound side of the motorway. Some debate ensued about whether to do it or not but Ady was driving-tired, I was in pain and the kids were hungry so we went for dinner at the services Burger King instead.

This put us back in the room before 8pm, already fed, down to the last teabag which I knew I’d need in the morning, without a sniff of alcohol (not allowed to sell it on motorways apparently) and therefore fairly fed-up 🙁 . I settled for sitting in the bath (water came up to mid-thigh, lost all semblance of dignity trying to get in and out with ankle then taking many painkillers and reading my book in bed. I did send the others out to ask at the desk for more teabags though (along with another pillow as we only had three between four of us and some more loo roll as there was only half a one when we arrived which got used up in just one visit to the loo each by D&S (what do they do with it?) ).

All of which meant we were up and out nice and early on Thursday morning though. We cheered as we passed the border into Scotland quite quickly and stopped at some more services for tea, coffee and pastries to go for breakfast. The final leg of the journey was slightly longer than satnav expected due to lots of road works but so breathtakingly beautiful with scenery that noone minded. Some text conversation with Michelle told us that calling into teh nearby Co Op along the way would be wise to get supplies and then we were there!

A speedy check in, despite my failing to think of bringing the C&CC membership card to prove our member status and we were offered a choice of two pitches. One the other side of the loos and showers to where Marcus and Michelle were pitched, so close to them as we’d initially requested when booking, or one right on the beach front (all of a minute’s walk to M&M’s tent). No contest really :).

Predictably the wind and rain put in an appearance as soon as the tent was out of it’s bag with poles threaded. Davies and Scarlett and Ady really tried to be helpful but as none of the three of them had any real idea of how the tent actually goes up and my ordinarily great temper was slightly frayed due to really being in pain by now so in the end we gave up before the wind broke a pole or we all broke our relationships and sat on the tent to stop it blowing away. And then along came Marcus and Michelle 🙂 🙂 🙂

And suddenly the wind dropped and with four adults and a bit of a plan it all seemed terribly easy – I’d say it was our best pitching ever :). Marcus had some spare rock pegs (an utter necessity for that campsite – along with a claw hammer to bang them in and get them back out again afterwards, a handy hint from a campshop owner when Ady bought pegs) and we were very quickly in and sorted. Michelle and I sat in the car to rest my ankle while Ady and Marcus emptied the car into the tent and then as the time was right according to changing tides we all headed off to the Point. It is a fairly short walk along the beach and my only real regret of the week was that I never did manage it as it looked beautiful and walking along beaches – either to see dolphins or come back to the tent for relaxing and drinking wine – rank in my all time favourite past times. The last evening was my planned ankle-almost well enough time to do it and the tide was too high meaning there was no sand and only very big pebbles making it impossible for me to navigate across so I never did do that walk.

Marcus and Michelle had seen dolphins every day they’d been there but even so Ady, Davies, Scarlett and I couldn’t quite bring ourselves to expect to see them. I was hobbling slightly behind with Ady when Scarlett came flying back calling out what we first thought was ‘I’m going to see dolphins, I’m going to see dolphins!’ but turned out to be ‘I’VE SEEN DOLPHINS! I’VE SEEN DOLPHINS!!!’ 🙂 🙂 One child, dream made reality :).
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At that point Michelle says I broke into a run and I certainly forget my ankle hurting or the 12 hour drive or the trauma of the tent pitching and I too saw dolphins 🙂 My longing for dolphin spotting has been all about making it happen for Scarlett but they are very magical creatures and it was quite a moving experience. Neither Ady or I got anything like the photos captured by Marcus and the crowd gathered at the point every turning of the tide was always at least half made up from serious photographers, several of whom sell their photos to the press, for calendars, postcards or for stock images of dolphins. There was a real camaraderie between the regulars, some of whom spent a month or more there every year for the dolphins. The other half of the crowd was people like us, drawn there from all over to see dolphins. Watching and listening to lots of other people get their first glance of dolphins over the course of the week was also a lovely experience.

Suitably thrilled, educated about why the dolphins leap (catching salmon to eat, they knock them out of the water to try and break their necks or otherwise disable them, they also need to swallow them head first so have to be quite adept at throwing and catching), and now rather cold we headed back to the tent. The kids disappeared to the beach, Ady cooked dinner and Michelle and I drank wine and admired the view.
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It doesn’t get dark until after 11pm which is just blissful and ideal for us with our tardy dinner habits so for once we ate in daylight all week 😉 .That first night we rang the children to get them home at about 1130pm – suitably ashamed of our slack parenting when they told us they had walked all the way into the village 😳 It finally did get dark and bedtime was called.

Friday – one of the few non-dolphin related things on our list was to visit Loch Ness. It has long been somewhere Ady has wanted to see and when we realised how close it was it was top of our list of places to head to. We ended up not doing rather a lot of the other things on our provisional list really, mostly due to my ankle which coupled with the loveliness of the campsite and the regular appearance of dolphins visible from the tent meant we were happy to have a relaxed, doing-very-little time.

So to Loch Ness – we lost Marcus and Michelle on the way – we’d assumed we could follow them and not bother with satnav, they’d assumed we’d got satnav and would arrive around the same time as them. This meant some frantic use of my phone to track down a postcode for the place we were heading for to put into the satnav and put us about 15 minutes behind them. A complete lack of mobile phone coverage meant that I got their voicemail and text messages over the course of a couple of hours all in one go at the same time as they got all of mine. So we completely missed each other as they ate first then went round the exhibition while we went round the exhibition and then ate. When we arrived we parked on a fairly steep hill and when I opened the boot to get coats out (it was pouring with rain) a bottle of oil fell out and landed right on my ankle causing a yelp and tears to my eyes 🙁 .

The Loch Ness visitor centre was, I thought, pretty good. Not necessarily a ‘must see’, nor at £18 for the four of us exceptional value but educational, enjoyable and excellent for setting the scene for Loch Ness which all of us knew a little, rather than a lot about. They have set up about six walk through chambers with films projected onto the walls and a different feel in each. The centre was very scientific in bias, not exactly debunking theories on a Loch Ness monster but certainly not subscribing to them either. I thought it was very good although my least favourite bit about it was the walk through an array of ‘retail opportunities’ on the way out, flogging a variety of Nessie themed stuff, some traditional Scottish stuff like heavy jumpers and kilts and finally a whisky and shortbread shop. We resisted all lures to spend money until the cafe where we had chips (kids) and tea / coffee and quite possibly the best millionaires shortbread I have ever tasted (Ady and I). Having already seen dolphins and therefore decided the money set aside for a dolphin spotting boat trip would not be needed after all I decided to book a Loch Ness boat trip instead. The others took some convincing but on the basis that none of the four of us might ever be at Loch Ness ever again I persuaded them. It was well worth it :).

We had an hour to kill so drove into the village and looked at the castle but decided admission prices made it prohibitive so visited the tourist information centre and a gift shop instead where Ady was assured by a wise old Scots woman that the weather would clear up by 4pm. As it had been raining non stop all day long and mists were swirling around the place in a spooky and atmospheric fashion this seemed rather unlikely.

The boat takes 12 passengers but there was just the four of us and a German couple so we had an all but private charter. John, the skipper picked us up in a mini bus and we arrived at the Loch side to board the boat. The boat is one used for scientific research on the loch and had all sorts of sonar and radar equipment which he explained to us before heading out to the widest and deepest part of the loch, telling stories, history and personal anecdotes as he went. I spent a lot of the time outside loving the murky feeling of the loch and the air of mystery and magic all around. At one point Ady, Scarlett and I were outside and Ady asked where Davies was – we looked round to see him sat up at the wheel steering the boat :). John then let Scarlett have a go and between the three of them they brought us back to shore. What a fab memory, to have steered a boat across Loch Ness 🙂 .
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Back to the campsite ready for another evening trip to The Point for dolphin spotting and another lovely evening infront of The View.

Saturday
Rosemarkie, the little local town had a ‘Beach Fun Day’ so we walked along the beach to have fun ;). I think all we really participated in was chatting to Charlie Phillips of WDCS (whale and dolphin conservancy society) who is very cool and has the most soothing accent I could listen to him talking about dolphins for hours. The kids wandered off to play in some woods while we sat and drank tea and coffee and pondered the village fete-ness of the day which included Cutest Pet, Sandcastle and Best Cupcake competitions. Cutest Pet must have been a sure fire win for a little huskie puppy who looked like a wolf cub and was so gorgeous even I rather wanted to cuddle it. We walked along the beach to the furthest point we could see from our tent and did some rockpooling finding various ‘treasures’ both live and not including a huge piece of wood, washed white and weathered but quite incomprehensively on the beach with no real evidence of quite how it would have gotten there. We walked back via the Spar and deli in Rosemarkie and I think we had another evening visit to Chanonry Point before dinner.
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Sunday was the night the wind and rain came in and I spent quite a while sitting in the car trying to get warm and reading my book. Ady cooked a curry which I shivered my way through eating and then Michelle and I sat in her porch, Marcus and Ady sat in our porch and the kids sat in our tent until some sort of sibling altercation between D&S put an end to their evening and effectively ours. It was a noisy night and I think there were some casualties on the campsite but our tent stood up to it all just fine and aside from some puddles in the middle section (really must waterproof those cross seams) we were fine. Ady did a spot of dry stone walling with some beach pebbles to build a barricade where a small gap showed between the side of the tent and the floor thanks to a small hole in the ground.
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Sunday morning was when it became apparent that Davies needed some sort of fleece as one of the casualties of chaotic packing was him having one lightweight denim jacket and nothing else with sleeves at all. Scarlett’s wellies also died so a shopping trip was in order. We went to Inverness and after much faffing finally found some good solid Dunlop wellies for Tarly, a Regatta fleece for Davies in a sale and some really good waterproof walking boots for him in the same sale too, with which he is very pleased. I got a neoprene support bandage for my ankle which was improving but feeling very unsupported and like all the inside bits might be falling apart so this was good for holding it all together. We visited Morrisons for food supplies and then called in at the North Kessock WSCS as Michelle had tipped us off about a free gift for visiting both centres and we were planning to visit the Spey Bay centre on Monday. We saw no dolphins from their large viewing window but the kids enjoyed the various activities including some enormous floor puzzles showing food chains and some feely boxes of natural and man made things you might find in the sea.

Back to the campsite for more view, friends, dolphins and relaxing. I think this was the night where I woke in the early hours to go to the loo and was so amazed by the orange light beaming into the tent I got up, found my glasses and took a picture. Right infront of us in the sea was a small boat called The Ballena which we’d been admiring and using as a barometer for the weather – it sat still on a calm sea and bobbed about like crazy on a rough one when it was windy and rainy. We’d debated who might own it and why they might use it, it was sort of the mascot of our week. We were really sad to learn that the day we left a storm caused it to come loose from it’s moorings and crash onto the beach 🙁
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We’d started to make friends with people around us by then. We had a Dutch family opposite us who were very friendly – their two boys (late teens?) were lovely lads who had a brief dip in the sea every evening. We’d also spent some time chatting to one of the photographers who came along to Rosemarkie every year for dolphin pictures. It was a really friendly campsite where you exchanged a word or two with every single person you came across.

We’d decided we’d make the drive to the Spey Bay WDCS centre with a plan to call in at Findhorn . So that was Monday’s plan. In the end the drive was longer than expected and there was enough to do at Spey Bay to keep us there for most of the day so we never got to Findhorn. We had a cup of tea on arrival and then joined a talk on Whale and Dolphin Watching. We spent some time in the shop and had a go on various computer based activities including learning about all the adoption dolphins, listening to various underwater sonar sounds, listening live underwater and chatting to the staff who were all very enthusiastic and friendly.

We’d brought food for lunch so sat outside eating watching various birds (gulls, gannets) and looking out for otters and seals. They make all their cakes on the premises and we’d seen them mixing up cake batter when we had our cup of tea earlier so we headed back inside to sample some cakes and scones which were delicious before joining another talk in the ice house there. It is the biggest ice house in Scotland, dating back several hundred years and has six chambers. It was used to store sea trout and salmon caught from the river Spey using ice taken from the river. Davies, Scarlett and I had been looking at the remains of an ice house in Bognor the week before from the outside and talking about them so this was perfect to now see inside one and really understand how they worked.

The tour was really good, the chambers had all been set out in different ways with the first one containing some art work made from marine litter such as fishing nets, broken cans, bottles etc. They were mostly mosaics of dolphins, whales and other sea life and were very lovely, while still being made out of rubbish and are done to raise awarenss of the dangers to wildlife of beach litter. The next chamber contained lots of found original and recreated tools from the ice house days including picks, carrying containers, a boat and various tools they have yet to identify the use of. There were also pictures of the river Spey in recent years with it’s vast amounts of ice, grainy old photos of people holding up prize catches of fish and we were told about the river and how it floods and breaks its banks every year when the snow and ice melts and changes the flow to the sea creating new sand banks and mini islands every year as well as how rich in wildlife it is.

The next chamber was filled with bones of whales and dolphins, some whale teeth and we were shown and handed around the ones we could touch. Finally we made it to the fifth chamber (the sixth was just used as a foyer) where a life size dolphin and new born calf models were suspended above our heads showing us the size and scale of just how big the Moray Firth dolphins are – the biggest in the world, nearly twice the size of the ones in places like Florida, as a result of living in so much colder water. Then a short film was projected onto the wall all about whales and dolphins and porpoise. This was mostly beautiful film footage of them along with plenty of facts and figures.

When we came out there was the hourly shorewatch going on (the staff spend the first ten minutes of every hour with binoculars observing the shoreline to spot wildlife, noting anything they see) and a small crowd was gathered watching osprey and then suddenly there were dolphins! So we stood and watched them out at sea, had a go with their really good binoculars and another, different perspective of dolphins until a sudden thunderstorm drove us back inside again and then finally when it looked set in we decided to head back to the campsite.
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Back to the campsite for another visit to Chanonry Point, more playing on the beach til late for the kids and more sitting admiring the view for adults.

Tuesday was our last full day and night and we’d already decided to stay close to the campsite. The tides changing meant there were two chances to see dolphins that day so we planned a picnic lunch at the point seeing the first, a visit to a nearby brewery that offered tours and tasting, a last quick trip to the WDCS in North Kessock and then a communal haggis dinner with Marcus, Michelle and Chloe before a final visit to Chanonry Point in the evening. We nipped to the deli in the morning for supplies and wished we’d visited earlier in the week. The man behind the counter was a true salesman, encouraging us to try various things (all of which were so delicious we ended up buying some) and chattering away to us. I’d planned to walk to the point but seeing no sand and far too many rocks to make it safe for me at the best of times let alone with my poorly ankle I had to acknowledge my limits and we drove. It was pretty cold down there but we had our picnic and then when the dolphins were heading off we did too to the WDCS.

This time we were in luck and had a stunning aerial view looking down on about 12 dolphins spread out below us in groups of two and three. There was loads of activity and it was a very different perspective looking down and seeing how they interacted with each other. Scarlett had found various crab claws and dried up starfish on the beach over the week and had decided to offer them to the centre for their display so she did that and they were gratefully recieved and put straight on the display which pleased her 🙂 . We watched with the various binoculars and enjoyed the enthusiasm of the girl who worked there excitedly shrieking ‘ooh did you see that!?’ every time a dolphin jumped out of the water. We watched the tour boat, packed with people go out into the middle of the dolphins for what would have still not been as good a view as we’d been treated to every day at Chanonry Point and were most grateful that the dolphins of Moray Firth had shown themselves to us with such amazing regularity each day :).

Back to the campsite via the Black Isle Brewery where we joined one of the free tours of the tiny operation of beer making. It was really interesting and we enjoyed sampling a couple of different beers. Ady bought a couple, I bought some beer soaps.

And so to Haggis Night 🙂 . Marcus had volunteered to cook haggis and gravy which left us with mashed potatoes and mashed swede. I was on peeling duty then Ady took over, realising we didn’t have a masher (rather short sighted, must add that to our camping list along with a whisk 😉 ). It took ages to cook them as it was breezy and the gas was blowing about on the cooker making for an even longer cooking time, then they needed mashing up with a fork but we got there 🙂
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Scarlett loved the haggis but was less keen on the swede, Davies loved the mash and swede but was not keen on the haggis, I liked it all, loved the flavour but was slightly offended at the baby-food-ish texture of everything being mashed up and scoopable up with a spoon. Would have it again though 🙂 .

Michelle and Chloe were not fussed about Chanonry Point, having plenty more opportunities ahead as they were staying for the rest of the week so very kindly did all the washing up :). The rest of us went off for a final bout of dolphin spotting.

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A lovely last night back at the tent admiring that view and drinking Black Isle Brewery beer 🙂 .

Wedneday
morning with huge thanks to Marcus and Michelle we packed up and were away in record time (ankle considering 😉 ) bidding a fond farewell to our lovely holiday companions and a truly fab campsite and gorgeous place. I always say I’d not go back to any campsite on the basis there are so many others to try and so many bits of the UK to see but I think I’d make an exception for Rosemarkie, it was a fabulous six nights with pretty much nothing possible that would have made it more perfect :).

The seven hours to Jan and Jonathan’s was the biggest chunk of all the journeys over the holiday. We stopped only once, at everyone’s favourite services Tebay and arrived at about 7pm. As always hospitality, company and surroundings were fabulous there and we all enjoyed our brief stay with Davies and Scarlett having a great time playing with Jasper, then watching various Youtube clips with Catie and Megan (and the rest of us 😉 ) before bed, then the rest of us sitting and chatting for a couple more hours about respective life changing plans. Before getting a really rather good nights’ sleep in a bed.

19 July 2010

Tuesday two weeks ago

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:00 pm

The display for Bognor library we’d been working on as part of Home Ed Book Club had been put up ready for the launch of the Summer Reading Game. We wanted to visit to see it all up in all it’s glory anyway so when a plea went out for any of the children involved to go along on Tuesday at 1pm as the local paper were attending to take pictures and do a short article we decided to combine the two (always up for more media opportunities 😉 ).

So Davies, Scarlett and I headed over to Bognor, parked up at the park near the library and had a picnic lunch there. I had posted up that we would be doing so if anyone wanted to join us but no one arrived so D&S played in the wooded areas and I read my book in the sunshine – very nice :).

We walked through the park to the library and had a chat with the other three families who had come along, were positioned infront of the display in various poses by the photographer and I had a quick catch up chat with Jody, who used to work at Lancing and moved across to Bognor last year. Very impressed that he remembered the kids names 🙂 . We left there and headed back to Worthing for swimming lessons.

I can’t even remember now why I decided not to swim that afternoon, I think it might have been simply to save on leaving wet washing hanging around for 2 weeks but it proved to be a rather foolish decision 🙁 I sent Davies and Scarlett to their respective changing rooms and went to the spectators area. The swimming pool itself is at ground level but there are three flights of about 15 concrete steps up the front of the building with the top level of the car park, the reception and a gym area all upstairs with a tiered spectators seating area back down to pool level again. I have fallen on the steps / chairs before and made a fool of myself so I really should exercise more caution, but weak ankles, silly shoes, general carelessness and clumsiness along with a knack of never really learning by past mistakes meant I did it again, this time with even more spectacular results 🙁 The steps themselves are pretty steep, concrete ones and the area with chairs is more steps, twice the depth of the steps with wooden cinema style folding up chairs. I attempted to negotiate one of these double steps, got one of my shoes (flip flop style ones) snagged on a chair which tripped me up, the shoe broke and my full weight ended up on the foot / ankle I had put first, which crumpled beneath me, my bag of towels and the force of gravity coming down onto the concrete. It felt like the whole swimming pool stopped to look although I suspect it was merely the two women just infront of me who turned with gasps to ask if I was okay. I’d already identified some damage done but for someone so attention seeking I am notoriously bad at admitting I need help when in pain and just wanted everyone to stop looking at me so I could assess the damage privately. I assured them I was fine and just needed to catch my breath back before sitting for a couple of minutes on the floor breathing heavily and then hauling myself onto a chair.

My ankle / foot was already swelling up, my shoe was broken and I knew the chances of being able to get down the steps outside and drive home were pretty slim. I sat holding it all together until Davies appeared and I whispered to him what had happened. He was an utter star, admitting later he’d been really scared. He asked me what he should do, offered to go and get dressed again, go and get help / whatever. By that time I was starting to fret about where Scarlett had got to as her lesson was already about to start and she was off in the changing room alone. I sent Davies back to find her, he came back with her (still not sure just which shiny thing had caught her eye and distracted her) and I sent her to her lesson. Davies and I pondered what to do and I rang Ady. At the sound of his voice I dissolved into tears. He insisted I go and ask for a first aider and get some help, waving aside my ‘but I feel really stupid’ whinge with a tut and telling me to just go and get a bloody ice pack! I left Davies there as he was already changed into swimming trunks and hobbled out to reception.

I explained to the receptionist that I had fallen on the stairs and could she get me an ice pack, she paged a first aider, who took ages to come and then wanted to write his incident report and check the steps weren’t slippery or wet first (I rather asserted myself again at that point and asked for the ice pack first please!). I assured him it was my clumsiness rather than any liability on their part, filled in my details for his form and he bound it up for me with a bandage. Davies reappeared, now dressed again, looking very worried as I’d been gone about 10 minutes and he was fretting I’d gone off in an ambulance or something. He helped me back to the spectators area, got changed again and collected Tarly from her lesson and went to his. Tarly is the worst possible child to have around a sensitive body part as it is like a magnet to her treading on it but I managed to mostly contain her by yelping ‘mind my ankle!’ approximately every 30 seconds.

I rang Ady who said he was leaving work but wouldn’t be there before the kids lessons finished so I rang my Dad to ask him to meet us at the pool and take us home in my car and Ady would drop him off to collect his van later. I also knew I’d need help getting down the outside stairs. I took the bandage off as it was still swelling and by now was far too tight and then my Mum arrived, having been rung by my Dad and just a 10 minute walk away from the swimming pool at work. Davies finished his lesson and got dressed, then we all hung about at the top of the outside steps waiting for my Dad to arrive. By the time we’d negotiated those Ady was also there so now we had four adults, four cars, two children and one of those chicken, fox, grain puzzles. Added to this the ankle was still swelling and getting ever more painful rather than easing. If we’d not been due to drive to Scotland the following day I may well have left it and gone home for a soak in the bath, some painkillers and an ice pack but worried about being away from home with a possibly broken bone unattended to I was persuaded by my Mum to go to hospital instead.

So Ady took Davies and Scarlett home in his car, Dad took Mum and I to the hospital in my car before going back to our house for Ady to bring him back to the swimming pool to collect his van and once I was safely installed in the waiting room at A&E Mum walked back to the pool for her car ready to bring me home in. Poor Ady cooked the kids tea and then fretted about packing the car up ready for the holiday – a job we’d been supposed to be doing together as it’s not his strong point (he has many, many qualities but knowing what to pack, where to pack it and how to put it up once we arrive is not one of them).

A&E have a system of tiered waiting where you are bumped down the list by new arrivals if they are deemed more emergencyish than you. Children are bumped up the list. I was (rightly) considered a minor case and told it would be at least 2 hours. I had no shoes, was cold from the air con, starving hungry, in lots of pain and equally fretting about the holiday. Mum did a fine job of talking about all sorts of things to fill the silence – in fact it was one of her finest parenting moments really. It ended up being more like 3 hours with a rather frustrating wait in the middle – I’d assumed once diagnosed treatment would follow but you returned to the waiting list again and could be bumped back down by new arrivals.

The A&E experience was predictably depressing, old people there alone, bleeding and confused, a few rowdy probably self-inflicted injured as the evening wore on, a young, very pregnant girl who kept going outside for a smoke and not nearly enough staff to deal with us all. The doctors and nurses were all fantastic; friendly, professional and apologetic. NHS always seems to me to be in turn amazing and wonderful but dire and inefficient. Amusingly it was one of the world cup football matches that night and it was being shown on a TV in the waiting room, eyed by a large amount of the people waiting and every so often a collective groan or gasp or ‘oooh’ would echo round the room which seemed funny given the low level of such noises happening there anyway from injured people. 😆

Having hobbled about in immense pain (really should have accepted the offer of a wheelchair, will I ever learn?) I was prodded, X-rayed and eventually told I had cracked my ankle bone. This is better than an actual break I was told as it won’t need a cast and should knit back together perfectly, better than torn ligaments as they can’t really be treated and remain forever weak but nontheless very painful and likely to take a long time to heal. I was told the treatment is fourfold – elevation, pain relief, cold and exercise. The doctor I saw was lovely and said he had done almost the identical injury himself last year and as a result changed the advice he gave from ‘painful for about 2 weeks’ to ‘ very painful for 2 weeks, quite painful for 4-6 weeks, a bit painful for several months and eventually better after about a year’. He gave me prescription painkillers and crutches, told me it would be agony in the morning, really bad the day after that but should get incrementally better each day onwards, strapping it up was my choice if I felt it helped but was no longer something they did as a matter of course.

So after a (almost literal) crash course in using crutches I learnt very quickly that a) they are not as easy as they look and I had always imagined b) A&E is the very best place to have a first go on them as you appear to be in danger of a repeat injury to the other ankle as a result of the crutches unless you are very careful 😆

Back home Ady had done a fine job of starting the packing up of the car so I gobbled some painkillers, had a much needed glass of wine, instructed Davies and Scarlett to bring me various clothes and packed them, struggled to get in and out of the bath, ate a very late dinner and went to bed where the combined effects of my two types of painkiller, wine and tiredness cocktail meant I fell asleep and slept through til morning.

Celebrating Birthdays

Filed under: — Nic @ 10:44 am

We had a nice quiet morning with me doing various online bits and trying to clear emails from my inbox before loading up swimming things and heading over to Lewes. We stopped at Asda on the way to gather picnic supplies. Parking proved to be an issue – both my rather rubbish parking ability (I am fine when I concentrate and always surprise myself at managing when I actually try but would rather find a nice easy drive-into-able space if possible) and the lack of actual parking. I managed a very good reverse parking between two cars then got out to buy a ticket and realised that side of the road was permit holders only 🙁 . I drove around the block again and found a space eventually, parked, paid and we headed over to the park where Ali, Jay, Freya and the other birthday-celebrating-guests were. C, E, M and D who we’ve not seen for ages.

We gave Freya her present and were speedily presented with a present each back for Davies and Scarlett as she’d requested Ali get gifts for all the attending children rather than party bags / prizes for party games. And very excellent, well chosen gifts they were too – Pop Up Book kit for Davies and Lip Balm maker kit for Scarlett.

As the weather had been very changable all morning and we seemed to be heading for a sunny interval Pool Time was called and we headed over to the open air swimming pool next to the park. We’d been there before to celebrate Freya’s fifth birthday, although neither Davies or Scarlett could remember it according to them. I had decided not to go in although I had brought my costume. The water was very cold and it just wasn’t a hot enough day to have me desperate to plunge into cool water. The others all had a good dip before coming back to eat food. Everyone had brought food to share so a very good picnic was on offer including some very interesting ‘pakes’ sweet pizza bases to spread with sweet toppings. After eating most of the others went back into the water again, I sat chatting to J enjoying the sun which had decided it probably would shine actually.

The others had a date at a pizza place for the more traditional savoury version so after a very nice couple of hours they headed off there while we headed for home. We stopped by the allotment to do some watering and harvested some garlic which was ready along with some peas and beans.

I rang my Mum as it was her birthday and we had provisionally planned a barbecue for dinner or a trip to the Harvester depending on weather. The weather had remained changable all day and we decided it was bound to go overcast and breezy as soon as we cooked food outside so the Harvester was the plan.

Back at home the kids got some clean clothes ready to change into and explored their new kits. Ady came home and we all got changed and my parents arrived. We gave Mum her card and presents and she had a look at the ducks, the quails and the chicks before we went to the Harvester. Mum and I decided fizz was in order and we toasted her birthday in the bar before moving through to the restuarant. It was very busy in there and they pre-warned us there was likely to be a bit of a wait for food and service. There was, but the food was probably the best we’ve had there, probably partly due to waiting, partly due to having plenty to drink while we waited and partly due to having lots to talk about while we waited.

Frazer joined us for dessert (he didn’t finish work til 9pm) and then the rest of us returned here for coffee.

05 July 2010

Weekend Roundup

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:23 am

Otherwise I’ll get too behind and forget stuff.

Saturday A far too early start given the lateness of the night before but we had to be up for Wildlife Explorers. We are *always* late and I was determined not to be so got everyone up, fed and out way earlier than normal. Just as well as there were loads of little hold-ups for road works and despite leaving half an hour earlier than normal we were only 10 minutes early. We looked around the shop for a while, talked to an expert on hand about binoculars and then dispatched the kids at WEX. They did grass sweeping and found lots of little bugs and beasties.

Ady and I debated walking or sitting in the sunshine with tea and coffee and the hot drinks won :). It was very lovely sitting looking out over the reserve chatting – no interuptions from anything :). We’d driven past my parents on the way and Dad had been outside with a bloke he’d gotten round to cut the hedges so we’d stopped briefly and said we’d call back on the way home. So we did just that. Dad shoved £20 at me and told me to go and get some lunch so we walked up to Sainsburys and bought all sorts of luxury luncheon items then walked back and made lunch for everyone. Frazer was there too and joined us and it was very nice :). I explained in more detail about the whole WOOFing idea. I’m fairly sure Dad thinks we’re bloody mental, well actually I know he does because he told me so, but is supportive of us chasing dreams and will help which is the most I’d have hoped for. He’s already offered to store all our furniture which is one worry / expense to not have to think about.

There have been some waterworks going on locally which have created a problem with their water (and all their neighbours) coming through contaminated and undrinkable unless boiled so Dad has been flushing it through by over flowing his pond which cleans the pond out and drains off the unusable water. He did that and we all sat by the pond enjoying the sunshine while Tarly made boats out of leaves and rescued all the ants getting caught in the flood.

We finally left when the kids started to get a bit annoying to each other. A quick stop at Aldi on the way home for some binoculars and some bits for dinner. Davies and Scarlett had a bath, I dealt with lots of washing, we took some pictures of the quail chicks and brought in a bantam chick to compare size. I read some Alone on a wide, wide sea and the kids were in bed and actually asleep at a fairly sensible hour. Ady cooked a very lovely steak for dinner.

Sunday
A much needed lie-in for me. Ady and Davies played chess in the garden, Scarlett played with the birds and I did more laundry processing. I’d realised we only had pastry left to make and we’d finished the flour section of the River Cottage family cook book. I read about pastry to the kids out in the garden as they were eating ice lollies and then we came in and did some making. Having made soda bread, several loaves using bought yeast, our sourdough starter yeast and turned the same dough recipe into pizza we decided to finish the chapter by making flatbread. We quite often buy wraps or tortillas. Davies made the dough and kneaded it and after resting it Scarlett did the rolling out and I cooked them. They were eaten up for lunch and declared delicious by everyone.

While we were resting the dough we also made the component parts for a lemon tart for pudding tonight. Scarlett made the pastry and Davies the lemon curd. This involved weighing, cutting up butter, rubbing in, seperating egg whites and yolks and kneading for Scarlett, zesting lemons, juicing lemons, seperating egg whites and yolks, weighing and cutting up butter, sugar for Davies and then cooking the sauce (which he did on one ring while I was cooking the flat bread on another). Lemon curd left to cool and set, pastry put in the fridge to rest.

We had lunch and then I wanted to nip into town to get a card for my Mum’s birthday tomorrow and a gift voucher for her. We did that and then Ady did some lawn mowing and hedge cutting, Scarlett rolled out and baked blind her pastry case and Davies mixed cream into his lemon curd to make pie filling. Pie constructed they decided they did want to glaze it later before serving so we put it back in the chiller. They went off to tidy their bedrooms and I cooked a roast dinner.

We watched Countryfile and then the end of Peter Pan while eating dinner. We glazed the tart under the grill and ate loads of it with cream – it was utterly delicious :). Then we watched an episode of River Cottage Treatment. Davies is really into it but Scarlett got upset about some lambs being slaughtered. We had a long chat about meat eating, how it’s killed, how it’s kept and what my opinion is about it all. Both the children really like meat and Davies is very clued up and realistic about where it comes from and how we get it. Scarlett does know but sometimes chooses (as do most meat eaters in fairness) to not think about it too much. I wouldn’t be at all surprised if she ends up vegetarian eventually and would support that and make it as easy as possible for her.I’d far rather a conscious vegetarian than an ignorant meat-eater.

Davies and Scarlett went to bed, Ady and I watched a programme about foxes and having finally caught up on blogging I’m off to bed.

04 July 2010

Shrektastic

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:38 pm

I was at work for the day. Dad was here in the morning looking after Davies and Scarlett. He’s not had them for a while as we’ve been managing with them going to work with Ady so both he and the children were pleased to be spending time together. I had a quick ten minute catch up with him during which I blurted out details of the whole Living The Dream Plan.

I had a good day at work. I’m rather enjoying something of an elevated status at the moment thanks to my contacts with more senior members of staff due to Chatterbooks and being part of the Reading Group. Fortuunately I get on well enough with the rest of the staff that it doesn’t seem to be causing any animosity although I suspect it would if I were there for more than my rather paultry 11 hours a week.

It was Baby Rhyme time and to start with we only had 3 children – one who has been coming since she was a tiny baby and is now nearly 3, her mother used to be my hairdresser way, way back in the day and I have long since diagnosed as autistic. She goes way beyond the worst toddler tantrums I have ever seen (and I’ve witnessed a few 😉 ), is really obsessive, has a very closed, angry look about her and despite having seen me fortnightly at the library for pretty much her whole life, being ‘Nicola the Rhyme Time Lady who could well go and work for Cbeebies if it doesn’t work out at the library’ still just glares at me when I say warmly ‘Hello X, how are you?’

The other two were mad, will be on the stage one day, X2 and her little baby sister. Mad,WBOTSOD X2 sat right infront of me, close enough to be inhaling my exhaling breathes, her little sister is still at glazed eyes while focussing all her energy on sitting up stage and autistic X grabbed *her* instruments and went to sit on the bench while studiously ignoring all the people singing nursery rhymes for the full half an hour. Her Mum ignored her and sat joining in with the singing and actions. We then got another three children and their mum join us 10 minutes late as they’d been stuck at the railway crossing so ended with 6 children and 3 adults. Not that you’d have known it as mine was the only audible voice again. I tried engaging the new arrivals with ‘Old McDonald’ asking them what animals live on a farm, noting one of the girls was dressed in pink so asking what pink animal might live on a farm. The only response was from M,WBOTSOD girl who stood right in front of me shouting ‘I know! I know what animals live on a farm! Ask me! ASK ME!!!’ so I did and got ‘Goat!’ in response. ‘And what noise do goats make?’ I asked and was told ‘Goat!’ again.

We ended up singing ‘with a goat, goat here, a goat, goat there…’ etc just because I was getting bored. Then MWBOTSOD girl got hold of my list of songs and started pointing to the one she wanted next. For some random reason I have ‘one finger, one thumb’ on there and she was adamant that she knew that and wanted to sing it. So we did. Well actually no, I did, and did all the actions, getting right the way through to ‘one finger, one thumb, one arm, one leg, one nod of the head, stand up, sit down, keep moving’ while everyone else just watched. I made them all clap me at the end for my one woman show, drifted off briefly into a Simon Cowell fantasy again, collected up my instruments and was most pleased to note that I’ll be away for the next Rhyme Time and there is only one more after that before we break for the summer. My colleagues had very much enjoyed this week’s Nicola Goddard show, particularly my tambourine shaking during Grand Old Duke of York which they said was reminscent of the Mamas and the Papas, so we spent some time harmonising about when they were up they were really, really, like up and when they were down they were oh so very low, low down. I’m planning to do have summer holiday themed Rhyme time for the last one before the summer break so that at least if it is me all on my own singing I can have some fun with it and not just have to sing Twinkle, Twinkle all by myself again. Actually I think I might bring D&S along with me that morning, they’ll sing and play instruments with me 😆

The rest of my workday was all pretty run of the mill stuff and when it got to ten to six I got kicked out early to go home and get green :).

Ady had gotten home around lunchtime and so the kids had eaten and were ready for Operation Fancy Dress. Having had a great time at the Alice in Wonderland Gala event at the local cinema we’d booked for Shrek Forever After Gala Event. At Alice there had been a huge turn out of fancy dressed children and adults. Davies had beaten off stiff competition to win and both children had said Ady and I should have dressed up too. So we decided to for this event. The brief was to dress as your favourite character from Shrek or another fairy tale. Ady and I felt our physiques lent us perfectly to Shrek and Fiona as ogres so that was us sorted. After some debate Scarlett said she’d go as Puss in Boots and Davies as ‘Gingie’. A charity shop find of a walking stick, some end of roll fabric, scraps from my own material stash and face paints later Davies was indeed Gingie . Scarlett became Puss with material from a cheap fleece blanket, hair tied into ear shapes, the same hat that served as the Hatter’s for Alice, the boots she wears for Badgers and a sword from a Captain Hook outfit. The feather was fashioned from yellow paper. Ady wore his own trousers, belt and shoes, a top of mine, a waistcoat I made from offcuts of Davies’ outfit and lashings of green facepaint. I wore a green sundress from the cheap shop (that I will wear again), more face paint and a tiara from the pound shop!

Suitably Shreked up we headed into town and fortunately found a parking space right outside the theatre. They had costume characters of Shrek and Fiona and a real live donkey from a local farm there. We quickly realised nowhere near as many people had come in fancy dress, and NO adults at all. We collected our drinks and boxes of cakes (ginger bread man, some chocolate mice, cupcakes etc) and went to our seats. They had laid on face painting, nail art and manipulated photos but the queues were pretty big so we sat and chatted to people instead. The photographer and the manager of the theatre came and found us and asked if we’d go back downstairs and have some photos taken with the donkey. We agreed so trailed back down again to the street, had loads of photos taken with the donkey and a load more infront of the theatre which they got our permission to use as publicity photos.

Back inside it was time for the fancy dress competition. We’d already deduced there was not much in the way of competition and sure enough Ady and I won (jointly, once they’d ascertained we were together), two very small children (one dressed as Shrek and the other as Puss) won and Scarlett won. There had been some confusion and actually the real winner was Davies but the whispered deliberations from the judges to crown the ‘gingerbread man’ had been misunderstood by the man with the microphone and Scarlett got it instead. Which was fine as Ady and I gave Davies our goody bag and they all contained the same thing anyway – a gingerbread cookie cutter, keyring with film cell from the Shrek film, bag of sweets, Shrek ears, voucher for two free cinema tickets. Links to follow of coverage in local paper / theatre website.

The film itself was pretty good we thought. Plenty of funny, sad, exciting, tense and poignant moments. The 3D is pretty good too. Scarlett was flagging rather by the end, I think she’d had quite a bit of sun during the day, not enough to drink and by 1030pm was tired and thirsty – must remember to take water to the cinema next time. But she snuggled up with me and really enjoyed the evening. Back home the kids went off to bed having been wiped clean of fancy dress faces and Ady and I enjoyed the curry he’d put in the slow cooker earlier in the afternoon.

01 July 2010

It’s a beautiful day….

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:57 pm

I’d arranged to meet Julie at PYO this afternoon. Somewhere along the way I managed to invite lots of other people and collect Tasha, Toby and Vinnie to bring with us. In the end we only had one other attendee – Bid & boys who cycled there and arrived pretty much simultaneously to us.

We caught the tractor up to the furthest picking for today which was strawberries, apparently 1/2 mile from the entrance or as Bid christened it ‘weigh out shack’ which pleased me 🙂

Davies, Scarlett, Archie, Eliot and Toby all get one well knowing each other all from various places as well as as a group. Vinnie hung out with Tasha, Bid and I and we set up camp amid the strawberries. Tasha and Bid loosely know each other too, both from Home Ed contacts and Circus Skills and because Bid is doing some art work for the Empty Shops Initiative that Tasha is involved in. We had very interesting and diverse conversations and did some weaving as Bid had brought some hemp strong, cardboard blocks and scissors so we created woven tablets of random things we could collect from strawberry fields. Tasha and I had left our lunch in my car so we caught the tractor back to the car park, realised I’d left my car keys back up at the field so stayed on and I jumped off the tractor, ran ahead of it to the next stop, grabbing my keys as I went and jumped back on. This inspired a ‘jumping on the moving tractor game’ for the children which enjoyed at length before the tractor driver told them off.

Tasha and I walked back to the others with lunch and carried on sitting in the sunshine eating our fill of strawberries. Tasha had come over all Domestic Goddess and made bread rolls, coleslaw and hummous all before we came out which was rather impressive. The kids had just been told off for playing in a wheat field when Julie, Jack, Maisie and Lorna arrived.

Julie and I had a good catch up and then Tarly needed the loo. It’s quite a walk to the toilets – they have some over by a field used for car boots sales at the weekend and some more in a cafe by the farm shop, both a good 10 minute walk. Tarly and I chose the car boot sale field loos and walked briskly there and then back through the irrigation spray which was very refreshing :).

The others had moved on to pea picking by then so I hung out with Julie to pick peas. It was getting on for 4pm by then: Julie had to get Jack to the dentist, Bid and boys needed to tackle their cycle ride home and Tasha and I were all fruit & veg picked out. I walked back with Bid chatting about Scotland, camping and plans for the rest of the summer. We’d been there for 5 hours, eaten our fill of strawberries and I just bought £1.50 worth of peas – I don’t feel bad as we have often spent loads of money there and last time we visited I bought a sack of potatoes in the farm shop that were all rotten so they owed me those free strawberries ;).

Scarlett pressganged Tasha into inviting us in to see their kittens – four weeks old and very, very cute. So we had half an hour of kitten worship for Tarly and me. Then home.

I’d taken braised mince out of the freezer for dinner tonight knowing it would force me into pasta making when we got home. So we checked the quails – still just 3 eggs hatched, checked the chicks – 2 hatched, one still not, washed our hands and made batches of pasta dough. I read out the recipe and Davies and Scarlett each made a 100g flour / 1 normal egg (so 2 of our bantam eggs) amounts – I made double ready for Ady and I later. While that was resting they both made a batch of bread dough – one for pizza /garlic bread base (garlic bread to go with Ady and my dinner tonight, pizza for the kids’ tea tomorrow night) and one for a loaf of bread which I cooked later for everyone’s lunch tomorrow.

Then we rolled the pasta out and cut it up. Scarlett went for fairly random shapes, Davies copied me and went for long and thin. Ady arrived home while we were at this stage. The kids both cooked their pasta, checked to see when it was done and I drained it for them. Davies had just butter on his, Tarly had grated cheese and they both emptied their bowls and proclaimed it ‘best pasta ever!’. They both recited the recipe for me and said they could make it again :). They are learning so much from this cooking exercise. I have learnt we need a second rolling pin ;). I read a couple of chapters of Alone… to them while they ate.

We transfered the quails into a brooder, Ady had brought home chick crumb for them so they are installed under a heat lamp and are Very Rowdy Indeed. We’ll give the other four eggs in the ‘bator til the end of tomorrow before turning it off and throwing them out. The third egg under the hens now contained a dead chick 🙁 Scarlett broke it open and it had not managed to take in the egg yolk properly so it’s stomach was a big bubble but it seemed otherwise fully formed. Frankly if an egg doesn’t hatch under a hen it has no chance as they are far more able at intervening than a human will ever be so that was just a life not meant to be. Scarlett and Ady buried it in the garden. The other two chicks are doing really well out there so far though and the three quail seem to be thriving.

I finished sewing waistcoats, tails and gumdrop buttons onto various costumes so they are all ready for tomorrow night, had a bath, made garlic bread and cooked dinner for Ady and I and baked the loaf the kids had made earlier. Ady watered the garden, painted Davies’ walking stick with white paint ready for Davies to paint a red stripe on tomorrow to be a candy cane and put the bins out. Suddenly it was 1030pm, so a Nic o’clock dinner again.

We watched Up In the Air – a George Clooney film which I really enjoyed and thanks to yet more fresh air and exercise D&S seemed to get to sleep pretty quick once again.

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