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31 January 2011

Administration Online

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:28 am

Ady wanted to paint the garage and a garden wall today. To me these are unimportant tasks; they won’t affect the price or whether we get a tenant now but I guess plotting hosts on a google map could be viewed the same way and I really wanted to do that, so we all got on with whatever we felt like doing.

Ady did painting, the kids joined him for a while and then came in and sat with me. I contacted all of the Scotland hosts, created a new list of booked hosts from zones one and two and plotted them all on a map.

Ady cooked dinner and we all sat and chatted while eating; talking about how we might celebrate birthdays while we’re WWOOFing and plans for the Bye Then party aswell as thinking up things we’d like to do before we go.

Ady and Davies watched the second half of PotC3 while Tarly and I played some PvZ and messed about with googlemaps some more then we did Bad, Good, learnt today:

Davies:
Bad:
burnt my hand while making a coffee for Daddy
Good: Enjoyed painting walls with Daddy
Learnt: The term ‘Davy Jones’ locker’ for dying at sea.

Scarlett:

Bad: Didn’t have enough pieces to build something out of Lego that I wanted to make.
Good: Played with chickens
Learnt: That paint is bad for chickens (fortunately not from experience, from Ady explaining that it would be best to keep the paint away from the chickens).

Ady
Bad:
very achey from working hard this weekend
Good: Achieved everything I had planned for this weekend
Learnt: That masonry / exterior paint should be applied once the temperature is over 5 degrees.

Nic:
Bad:
I accidentally deleted some emails
Good: I’ve emailed the zone 3 potentials hosts
Learnt: How to use google maps to create my maps and made a map of confirmed hosts.

We watched Countryfile and the kids went to bed. We watched TV and discussed whether I am ‘fun to be around’ as claimed in a message someone sent me :).

30 January 2011

For Kirsty :)

Filed under: — Nic @ 8:04 pm


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Can’t come up with a title Saturday

Filed under: — Nic @ 1:13 am

Scarlett brought me a cup of tea in bed this morning ๐Ÿ™‚ I’d been awake a while listening to the others watching Pirates of the Carribbean 3 on dvd. Dad appeared first thing and ended up staying all morning and having breakfast and lunch with us. It was great to see him ๐Ÿ™‚ I’m going to miss him very much this coming year although he has promised they will come and find us regularly wherever we are.

I suspect my parents are in the middle of one of their falling out with other episodes, this was backed up by Mum pulling into our road at lunchtime but never appearing, she must have seen Dad’s van here and driven past ๐Ÿ™ I had a bit of a moan about a few things she has done wrong just recently (several of which I was quite hurt by but I’m determined to just get over as I really don’t want to fall out with her just before we go) which he will probably use in ammunition against her so I’ll regret having mentioned as now she’ll probably hear about it anyway. Kids eh? Oh yeah, wait I mean parents eh? ๐Ÿ˜‰

Ady did tree lopping. We have an old dead cherry tree in our garden that we planted some ivy at the foot of years ago and the ivy had totally covered the old dead tree. We do trim it a bit most years as it grows pretty furiously and snatches light from our lounge and edges rather close to the telephone wires above it. Two of our neighbours had asked Ady if he could possibly take it smaller before we go as they have a complicated method of signalling each other using lights and our tree was restricting their vision of each others lights. So Ady took it right back to almost the bare dead tree again. It will grow back over in a year or two but means it will be maintenance free for the tenants.

Davies and Scarlett spent some time playing outside and ‘helping’ which mostly involved taking turns climbing up the ladder and having a go with the loppers aswell as whittling sticks that had been cut off. Then they came in and wanted a bath as they were rather covered in ivy pollen so they spent about an hour in the bath playing.

Ady came in for lunch, the kids got out of the bath and then Dad left. I had a phonecall from Mike the letting agent to say they have had some credit checks and landlord references back from the tenants and all seems well which is good ๐Ÿ™‚ .

Ady did some trips to the tip with the tree loppings and then we all went on the last run and drove on into town. We got Scarlett some waterproof walking-style boots and some socks (I know ๐Ÿ˜ฏ Scarlett, socks!), both kids a set of thermals (leggings and tops) and a pair of waterproof over trousers for Davies. That more or less kits everyone out for the start of the trip I think :).

Home via two supermarkets as the first didn’t have everything we needed. The kids had tea watching Total Wipeout, they got out Davies Gruffalo theatre book and put on the play instead of a story at bedtime and spent ages playing at being Secret Agents dressed in their thermals (all black) which they have both gone to bed in as pjs :).
Ady:
Bad: No pepperoni in Morrisons!
Good: Tree lopped
Learnt: Pigeons carry on coming even when tree has gone

Davies:
Bad: didn’t whole film
Good: watched some of the film
Learnt: chicken anatomy

Scarlett:
Bad: pigeons tree chopped down
Good: Excited about WWOOFing
Learn: my shoe size

Nic:
Bad: Mum just drove past
Good: Dad came round
Learnt: you’re never too old to be immature ๐Ÿ˜‰

29 January 2011

Further penultimatingness

Filed under: — Nic @ 1:11 am

Today was my penultimate penultimate at work in that I have now done my penultimate Wednesday, Friday and Saturday shifts and now just have a penultimate Thursday shift to go before I am on Last Shifts.

Ady took Davies and Scarlett off with him for the day, they went Ramgate way I think and had their lunch break walking round a lake, feeding some ducks and geese and talking to the woman who looks after them. I LOVE how buzzed up the three of them are after a day together and I also love althoug find hard, how much I miss the kids and they miss me when I work. It’s yet another indicator of how very right our plans for this year are – when there is nowhere you would rather be than with the other three members of your family it is only right that you make every compromise, every sacrifce and every endeavour to make it so. It won’t be long before Davies and Scarlett have other people and places they want to be so while it is our company they crave it would be crazy to do anything other than answer that really…

I did Rhyme Time with C, who will be taking it over. She did a fab job and I had to step in just once or twice when she wobbled but if I’d not been there she would have been just fine. In the afternoon I spent time plotting with my militant colleague S to try and do *something* for Save Our Libraries Day on Saturday 5th February when there is a national initiative to visit your local public library to join, take our books, read stories and just show your support. I also talked to the woman from the local ornithological society who has a display of bird photographs up at the moment about how Scarlett had identified them all. She is a retired teacher and on the strength of me telling her about Tarly invited her to come and join the local bird watching group. I explained we were off travelling and she made me promise to get in touch when we get home so Tarly can join up. Needless to say Tarly was most thrilled when I told her this :).

Back home we all caught up with each others days and did Bad, Good, Learnt today:

Scarlett:
Bad: Davies stole my bad
Good: Saw lots of red kites
Learnt: kites are named after the birds

Davies:

Bad: Long time in the car today
Good: Went to a duck park
Learnt: When a goose breaks it’s wing it is left with a bump where the break was.

Ady:
Bad: Drove a very long way for a five minute visit
Good: Lovely hour walking round a lake with the kids
Learnt: The best before date on crisps is always a Saturday

Nic:
Bad: Missed Davies & Scarlett today
Good: My penultimate Friday
Learnt: National Save Our Library day on Saturday 5th February

Ady went off to get bits for dinner while the kids and I read some stories. Davies came and talked to me in the bath for ages about Home Ed having watched Ady cut up a whole chicken (it was cheaper than just the breasts so the carcass is being boiled up for soup) and being given a swift biology lesson. I have a post in draft about celebrating the way we Home Ed but this was a lovely example of it and he came to me all fired up with enthusiasm about his freedom to learn all the time about the things he is interested in. ๐Ÿ™‚

I probably have other stuff to say but I’m far too far into Friday night / Saturday morning to be remotely coherant so I won’t even try.

28 January 2011

Slacking and swinging

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:36 am

I had a lie in this morning, it’s been quite a week! ๐Ÿ˜‰ Ady went off to the office to print off his resignation letter and hand it in. Although he was handing it in to the MD who already knew having been told by Miranda he was still really nervous. He said when he was folding the letter up to put it in the envelope his hands were shaking.

Ady has been asked to keep it fairly quiet until an official announcement on Monday but has told a couple of close workmates and got a mixed reaction of mostly positive but a couple who think he is pretty mad! I’m guessing they’ll be blaming me ๐Ÿ˜‰ It’s weighed heavy on Ady not saying anything at work so it’s a massive relief to have it out in the open now.

I had some bits I wanted to do online so we decided to have a morning at home and go out this afternoon. We wanted to do the World Beach Project pebble pictures before we go and also Hove Museum which we’ve been meaning to get to for weeks so we decided to see what the weather was doing after lunch and make a decision based on indoor or outdoor weather conditions.

Davies did some Xboxing, Scarlett some DSing and I did some telling the world online ๐Ÿ™‚ I also did some getting fed up with people collecting, or rather failing to collect freecycle stuff. Stupid questions today include: ‘will it fit in the back of my sister’s car?’ I don’t know, why don’t you come and try! and ‘can I lift it?’ I don’t know, do you have arms? Pillocks!

After lunch we decided it was dry and bright, if very cold so we should probably do the beach. We’d talked a bit about how we were going to do it and gathered a tub and a towel each having watched a video on the website . The kids decided they wanted to do their own. Davies went for the approach of finding some interesting stones and getting inspired by one to suggest a picture. He found one that looked to him like a T rex head so he found more stones to create a whole dinosaur
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Scarlett had already decided before we even got to the beach that she would do a cat so she was specifically looking for the component stones to become eyes, nose, whiskers etc.
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I had wanted to do a complete picture with full background and initially thought I’d do a sunset over the sea but I wasn’t happy with it so I changed it:
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It was enjoyable and we’d definitely do it again, I’d have stayed longer but it was very cold which sped us up a bit. So much so that we were done within the hour so we decided to go to the museum too. I’d thought the featured exhibition on moving pictures and stories in pictures would be bigger as last years recycled art was excellent and kept us engaged for ages. This was good but possibly aimed at a slightly younger age group and a bit too ‘guided’ if that makes sense. We do quite a lot of looking at pictures and talking about them but both the kids are pretty adept at drawing their own conclusions and projecting their own ideas and feelings on to art so didn’t need quite so much direction, it almost felt like reading the trail guide was interfering with us. Glad we went though.

We came home via the supermarket and were all really cold so we lit the fire early to warm up. D&S played with geomags for a while and we talked about the Scott of the Antarctic book we’d read yesterday as they both had some questions about it. Ady arrived home while I was cooking the kids tea so we had a nice hour or so just catching up on each others days while they ate and did bad, good, learnt today.

Davies:
Bad: Don’t have Pirates of the Carribean here to watch now – Ady was home early enough for them to have watched it today but I haven’t picked it up from work yet, they are on the third one now.
Good: Got to the museum after waiting ages.
Learnt: 104 weeks is two years

Nic
Bad: Too cold on the beach to stay for very long
Good: Did the beach AND the museum
Learnt: Even when you are *giving* people something for nothing they are still arses!

Ady:
Bad: A couple of my workmates were really sad about me handing my notice in today. I’ll miss them lots too.
Good: Handed my notice in – the last bit that we have control over, everything else is out of our control
Learnt: The sound of a whip cracking is the breaking of the sound barrier

Scarlett:
Bad: The museum wasn’t as good as I was expecting it to be
Good: We made pictures on the beach
Learnt: You can buy packets of sweets with all different ones in there (Randoms)

The kids brought me a pile of Dr Seuss books to read for stories and I watched Human Planet which was fascinating.

27 January 2011

Penultimating

Filed under: — Nic @ 1:18 am

Work for me this morning so Ady took Davies and Scarlett over to Julie’s for the morning and then collected them and brought them home again arriving about 5 minutes after I got home. I had a nice morning at work, it was really busy so it went quick. Several more people asking whether our library will be closing… I am both pleased news of library closures is getting through and frustrated that people take no action other than telling a library assistant like me how important it is to them to have the library service. Write letters, march, protest, shout! I do despair of the majority just putting up with what they are told to do ๐Ÿ™

Davies and Scarlett had a lovely couple of hours with their cousins – they are going to miss each other lots while we’re away ๐Ÿ™ All of our scattered friends will probably see more or less as much as usual of us but J,M & L and some of our more local friends will definitely be missed. They went for a walk across the fields to visit Honey the pony and feed her sugar lumps. Both Davies and Scarlett were upset to see poor little Lorna with one arm in plaster from shoulder to hand as she broke her arm yesterday after colliding with another child. All three of the cousins have now been in plaster which prompted a conversation about how neither Davies or Scarlett have been. I am unfeasibly paranoid at the moment about one of the four of us doing an injury to ourselves which delays or prevents our departure. I did remind D&S that I’ve never been in plaster (despite cracked ankle last year and broken toe a couple of years ago) and neither has my brother, although several of their friends have.

Back home Ady shot off and the kids and I had lunch. We had planned to go to the beach this afternoon but it was very grey and cold and they had gotten up early to play a new (to him) X box game Davies got yesterday and were keen to continue it so instead we all settled into various things indoors. Scarlett did some plasticining; she is making a family of foxes, I did various things but mostly played PvZ and Davies X boxed.

We needed to pop to the post office as Eve had left her shoes here, plus I had to send some insurance documents off so we nipped to the library to photocopy stuff and then the post office to post stuff and home via the book shop. I put chickens away and made / took some phone calls to the mechanic about the van and the letting agent about the house. This resulted in various things being agreed with the agent and we have a new provisional date of 23rd to move out. This is fab for us, it means we can finish working while still in the house and then have our Bye Then party, pack up, clean up and move out, with about 10 days before we need to be at our first host, giving us time to have a readjusting period before starting our next life.

There is still paperwork to be completed but in order for timings to work out we have decided Ady will hand his notice in tomorrow so have drafted the letter tonight for him to take in. I suspect he won’t sleep much tonight ๐Ÿ˜‰

Ady and Davies watched the end of Pirates of the Caribbean 2 while Tarly and I played the Zen garden bit of PvZ and then I read a Ladybird Scott of the Antarctic book to them.

Scarlett:
Bad: Feel sorry for Lorna with her broken arm
Good: had a nice morning with Jack & Maisie
Learnt: Sled dogs are quite wild and more like wolves than domestic dogs (from Scott of the Antarctic Ladybird book)

Davies:
Bad: Missing the lacey chickens a bit (although pleased to see pictures showing they are settled in well)
Good: Got a new x box game and it’s really good
Learnt: About joints and types of arthritis.

Nic:
Bad: Several novels I was looking forward to reading won’t be out until after we’ve gone. Looked at my reserved list this morning and realised none of them will be published before we leave.
Good: Dates for tenants moving in means we will be able to host people to stay for Bye Then Party ๐Ÿ™‚
Learnt: Chris Price has got an Apple product!!! ๐Ÿ˜ฏ

Ady:
Bad: very twitchy about handing my notice in tomorrow
Good: very pleased about handing my notice in tomorrow
Learnt: Worldwide there is more goats milk consumed by humans than cows milk.

26 January 2011

Signing off and saying goodbye

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:45 am

Monday I have a job list for each of the remaining three weeks and I’ve already more or less finished this weeks :). Yesterday I spent the morning making phonecalls to notify various places of our moving date. I’ve cancelled Sky, broadband, BT, council tax, water, house insurance, TV licence, got quotes for landlord insurance and found out the procedure for final meter readings and so on.

I’d listed various things on freecycle so did some coordinating that and then dropped off a toy car to someone who wanted it but had no transport til later in the week. We nipped into town to post an ebay parcel – I’d listed a childs’ kilt without thinking about Burns night and someone had asked for a buy it now price over the weekend and if I could get it sent first class on Monday so they’d have it in time.

Back home we had lunch, I stuck several loads of pizza dough on for dinner, the kids got Davies’ bedroom ready for a sleepover and moved stuff out of the way that they didn’t want touched, I did some laundry and then we all did some playing PvZ which we have now completed (some mini games left to play) and the kids played with the Playmobile.

Em & co arrived but the kids were not hugely compatible as D&S had been home most of the day waiting for friends to arrive and were rather over excited, particularly Scarlett, whereas E&R had already come from a 24 hour visit at Alison’s and a late night so were rather less in the mood for full on craziness :(. They watched most of a film together and had dinner, then Davies and Scarlett went off for a sleepover together in Davies’ room, while Em’s 3 all slept in Tarly’s bedroom. Em and I chatted into the night ๐Ÿ™‚

Tuesday: not such a late start as my reputation might have one believe ;). D&S woke my chatting in Davies’ room and when I checked the time I decided I might as well get up, it was about 830am. Breakfast and the kids all got dressed and went and spent time adoring chickens, D&S introduced E&R to the three hens they have taken to give a new home to. We had a chicken based hiatus mid morning when a couple of them flew over the fence into the front garden and one made it all the way across the road. They had obviously been spooked by something, I suspect a seagull had landed to eat some of the food that had been rather scattered around the place. I dashed across the road and after some comedy chicken chasing managed to herd it back across the road again, fortunately traffic stopped both ways so the chicken was able to run and I was able to chivvy it without either of us getting run over. So there you go, the chicken crossed the road to get back home again because I was chasing it. ๐Ÿ™‚

We let them all calm down a bit and the kids played some game to do with oragutangs which they nearly fell out over as they decided the group needed a leader and I could hear Scarlett insisting it should be Davies as they would have a male leader and the others disagreeing. In the end D, S and E all wanted to be leader and one of them came up with the suggestion of a vote. E won the vote but they came down to ask us to vote too. As none of them had any sort of political manifesto or could tell us what great things they would accomplish as leaders we refused to vote ๐Ÿ˜†

The kids went back out to the chickens again and as Em wanted to get home before dark to settle chickens in we boxed them up and waved goodbye. A very nice, if very brief visit :).

We had some lunch, dropped a bike off to Tasha’s that I’d put on freecycle and she’d responded to, the kids put the bedrooms back together again and Davies did the washing up. He’s being super helpful at the moment and said he had observed how much work there is involved in having friends to stay when we had guests over new year and as he enjoys having the guests company as much as we do he feels he should pull his weight in the extra work too. Such his fathers son that boy, wish I could claim he gets his thoughtfulness and kindness from me but sadly he does not. ๐Ÿ˜‰

We looked at the beach picture website Zoe had linked to and talked about doing it and a link some people had put on facebook about turning a flight of stairs into a giant piano and then they got back to their plasticine and playmobile game. Davies had gotten very upset when a plasticine model he’d made was discovered broken into five pieces in his bedroom. We can only assume it was not put up out of reach for Os and he’d gotten hold of it ๐Ÿ™ A real shame as it was one he was proud of but he definitely learnt the lesson about putting stuff up high I’d been trying to get across to them yesterday afternoon.

I made the kids tea, put the chickens away who seem to have adjusted to their reduced numbers and then Ady came home. We did bad, good, learnt (since Sunday as we missed yesterday):

Davies:

Bad: Plasticine figure broken
Good: chickens have gone to a good new home
Learnt: There is a level on PvZ where you can play as Zombies

Scarlett:

Bad: Feel a bit sad about saying goodbye to chickens
Good: Mumma completed PvZ
Learnt:there is a Worldwide pebble display exhibition

Ady:

Bad: Government selling off forestry commisssion to people
Good: Good day at work
Learnt: HMS Victory is still a commissioned warship owned by the Royal Navy.

Nic:

Bad: So many cancellation charges for stopping things – phone, internet etc.
Good: Several steps closer to heading off – services cancelled, chickens rehomed, stuff freecycled etc
Learnt: Why the chicken crossed the road! ๐Ÿ˜†

We read a Ladybird version of Robinson Crusoe before bed which they enjoyed.

23 January 2011

Practising

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:52 pm

I put dough on for cinnamon rolls last night so this morning I made a huge batch and we all had a late breakfast. I’d had a night full of very strange dreams including having a huge fall out with my Mum on the phone as she only wanted to look after Davies and not Scarlett and then Scarlett and I had been watching out of the window while a new car was delivered (some sort of Smart car or similar to be hitched to the back of the campervan) and in the style of a squash plant from PvZ the delivery truck dumped it on top of our garage as the campervan was in the drive, it smashed straight through the garage and squashed the other vehicle inside the garage and they both crashed into the campervan. I don’t often have bad dreams I can actually recall but when I do they are always with a foot firmly in fact, something I am already bothered about and usually to do with something I have been doing or thinking about just before going to bed.

Usually other people’s dreams are very boring but I’m guessing if you read this you think my life is interesting enough so I thought I’d take a chance on my dreams being so as well ;).

So today’s schedule was yet more clearing of the garage and garden. Ady didn’t think we’d do it all in one weekend, I knew we would :). So the garage is now empty aside from two chest freezers which the tenants might want to borrow anyway, a washing machine that needs selling for spares / repairs (or sticking on freecycle if no one wants to buy it) and some tools and bits all tidily stacked at the far end and covered with a tarp that we’ve already agreed we will be leaving there. The back patio is clear, the chickens coop is very tidy, all raked over and ready to be handed over with two bins filled with food and bedding. The whole of the side and front gardens are clear of toys, rubbish and gardening things. The kids filled one sack each with toys they want to keep and they have been stowed along the side of the garage. Their sandpit, slide and playhouse are all on freecycle.

We did another 4 runs to the tip and I spent nearly two hours chopping up a full 3 week supply of firewood and then stacking all the rest up that is too big to chop and needs splitting with a sledgehammer and wedge. Back is very protest-y about such efforts now but I’m thinking it will be good practise for inevitable physical graft coming up this year.

In between we had tea / coffeee /hot chocolate and further helpings of cinnamon rolls to keep us going. Once home and finished Ady got dinner going while Davies had a bath, then I had a bath which Scarlett came and joined me in while Ady and Davies started watching the second Pirates of the Carribean film. I was reading How to be Off Grid and wanted to carry on so just read it aloud to Scarlett. I’ve been telling the rest of the family about the book anyway so she enjoyed actually being read some of it :).

We had dinner – roast turkey, bought at a quarter of the price just after Christmas and stuck in the freezer and watched Ray Mears and then Countryfile before doing Bad, Good, Learnt today:

Davies:
Bad: Didn’t watch whole film (it’s 2.5 hours long and neither Tarly nor I want to watch it)
Good: Looking forward to Eve & Rei coming tomorrow
Learnt: About national grid and pylons (me talking about the book and what on and off grid means)

Scarlett:
Bad: Got rid of ornaments from garden
Good: Got rid of lots of crap (she was shocked when I said I would actually type that she said this ๐Ÿ˜† )
Learnt: how easy it is to grow watercress (Countryfile)

Ady:
Bad: Only done a few hours work and I’m aching
Good: Achieved our aims for the weekend of clearing garden & garage
Learnt: You need to set a barometer to altitude (height above or below sea level) before it works.

Nic:
Bad: How many things we’ve put into landfill
Good: Lasted very tough month financially (pay day tomorrow!)
Learnt: Little pop up cooking check on our turkey that tells you when it’s done. (very clever little gizmo that came stuck into the turkey and popped out when it was cooked).

Ady had a bath, I’ve caught up on blogging and replied to some emails. I had a Bob in the bath and I think such early indulgence has wussed me out (along with all that wood chopping).

22 January 2011

Candyfloss

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:09 pm

Work for me this morning. Lots of squeeeeing from work colleagues as they learnt we have tenants lined up and I have handed my notice in. I put a poster in the staff room for a leaving meal so we’ll see just how genuine their affection is ๐Ÿ˜‰

I had a nice morning, with 2.5 hours on the enquiry desk which is pretty much my favourite place to be as you get to sit down and have internet access and people come and ask you interesting questions. Today I was asked 6 times whether our library was at risk of closure. I am so pleased to see that the various coverage of library closures around the country have sunk in, particularly the very clever taking all the books out protests in various places. I was very proud to be part of and to demonstrate to Davies and Scarlett the thought out, peaceful, non violent forms of protest we took part in during the months following the Badman report as Home Educators. Being a part of the mass lobby, the mass petition of parliament, banner wearing, bubble blowing, mass picnics etc were all in line with how I think our voices should be heard, in rather stark contrast to some other protests I’ve seen recently… Hopefully some of the very clever initiatives to protest about library closures will have an impact and raise awareness, they certainly seem to have done so locally.

Home for lunch and I found Ady doing sterling work clearing the garage having done one dump run and brought everything out of the garage. Davies and Scarlett were playing in the garden. We all came in for lunch, I listed a couple of things on freecycle and then we did 3 runs to the tip. We all felt bad about taking things there that if we’d not stored in our very leaky garage for years might have been useful for someone else – water damaged tables and chairs and some other furniture.

We came home on the final run via the hospital so I could finally return my crutches from my broken ankle last summer, Halfords to return the spark plugs as my car seems to be running okay so it makes sense to have the money back for now and maybe replace them when we come home and Sainsburys for some veg for dinner.

The kids had some more time in the garden, Ady lit the smoker to burn a load of confidential paperwork while I lit the fire and checked emails. The others came in and Davies & Ady watched Pirates of the Carribean while Tarly and I cooked dinner for her and Davies, played a couple of rounds of PvZ and then I had a bath while they ate tea which she got in with me having finished eating with Ady and Davies watched the end of the film.

We forgot Bad, Good, Learnt today so I had to get them both back out of bed to do that ๐Ÿ™‚

Ady:
Bad: Threw stuff into landfill which could have been useful if we’d thought about it before
Good: Garage cleared
Learnt: HSBC stands for Hong Kong Shanghai Banking Corporation

Davies:
Bad: Took stuff to the tip & the tip makes me feel sad
Good: Finally got to watch Pirates of the Carribean with Daddy
Learnt: If being chased by a bear your last resort would be to make yourself look as big as possible & make lots of noise

Scarlett:
Bad: Saw a bit of Pirates of the Carribean which was scary and I might have a nightmare tonight
Good: Bath with Mumma
Learnt: People throw things like soft toys away with care at the tip

Nic:
Bad: choice in Sainsburys for on offer vegetables made me take ones in plastic bags
Good: My car started and is running really well
Learnt: Peaceful, well thought out protests do work.

I cooked dinner, we tried and failed to watch The Comedy Awards and I’m now wussing and falling asleep over my laptop.

21 January 2011

The Art of Conversation

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:53 pm

Up with the alarm today as Richard the mechanic was coming at 830am. I was most surprised to find Davies already downstairs when I came down. He’d got up so early he’d even seen Ady :).

I’d made dough for cinnamon rolls last night knowing I’d be up early enough to make them so I made them and set them to prove and then Richard arrived. I spent some time outside chatting to him while he got the van up on his recovery van. He’s taken it off to try and work out what’s going on with the batteries as it seems to charge up but not have enough power for the couple of times it takes to turn it over and get it started, also the sockets in the van are not working off the leisure battery but the lights are so something has gone adrift with the wiring somewhere.

I rang Mike, the letting agent and we’ve provisionally agreed for us to come out of the house on 14th Feb. 1st Feb marks the 17th anniversary of us first moving into the house and our first Valentines Day together two weeks later on the 14th Feb 1994 was a hilarious affair with me attempting a romantic meal in a kitchen less well equipt than our campervan, we ate on an occassional table and it snowed heavily. I hope our 17th Valentines day together is marked with just such atypical fanfare ๐Ÿ™‚

So, cinnamon rolls, a round of two of PvZ with D & S each getting to choose all the weapons and then I dashed off a resignation letter and we went to the library. I had to print it off there but had taken in envelopes for it so introduced myself to the new boss who I’d not actually met yet and handed her my notice at the same time ๐Ÿ™‚ I showed Tarly where the adult books on wildlife and animals are which was like an epiphany to her ๐Ÿ™‚ She took out four glossy, filled with colour photographs books with glee :).

There is a big display of photographs of birds from the local ornithological society up at the library and Scarlett went through pretty much the whole display and named all the birds which is far more than I could do, Davies also read them all and when we got home they went through a load of posters we’d got from RSPB for the Big Garden Birdwatch and Scarlett identified them all while Davies read them all. I also forgot to mention yesterday that Davies had asked about BC and AD while we were reading about the Romans so I’d explained it. He’d grasped it straightaway and drawn a timeline to demonstrate his understanding so he could confirm it was right. I then explained about negative numbers because it was relevant and asked him what -3 +4 was which he answered 1 without even thinking about it. We talked a bit more about negative numbers and then about temperature too with minus temperatures. I can remember really struggling to get my head round negative numbers when taught them at school so I’m always chuffed when things seem to come easily when they just crop up like that :).

Back home again I’d intended a head start on trips to the tip but when I got the garage door open I was confronted with so much stuff I bottled out and decided Ady and I could do it together at the weekend. Wuss! ๐Ÿ˜‰

We came in for lunch and the kids played with the lego and toy animals and watched Over The Hedge on dvd – in a bid to enjoy as many home comforts as possible :). Davies also did some psping and Tarly some bouncy ball making while I photographed some stuff and half heartedly listed some on ebay.

I talked to Dad on the phone, chopped up some firewood and got the fire lit and the kids did some PSPing and DSing while I did some more ebaying and then Ady got home.

Bad, Good, Learnt today sparked loads of conversation as we looked at stuff about animals sleep patterns, talked about why animals mate with the male on top of the females back, checked out something Ady had heard about golf balls on the moon
Hurrah for sharing facts and being able to ‘proper google’ ๐Ÿ™‚

Davies
Bad: Didn’t get time to finish creating a Total Wipeout level on Little Big Planet
Good: I woke up so early this morning I got to see Daddy
Learnt: Cows sleep with their eyes open

Scarlett
Bad: Used up most of my bouncy ball kit granules
Good: Mummy relented on my getting books out of the library and I got four!
Learnt: Twit-twoo is two owls, not one.

Ady
Bad:Feel guilty about our neighbours who are sad we are going away
Good: It’s Friday! And Willow is being sorted
Learnt: The skeleton from the whale from the Thames is now on display

Nic
Bad: Slightly poignant moment handing my notice in
Good: Really impressed with Davies’ reading and Scarlett’s ornithological knowledge
Learnt: There is golf balls on the moon, maybe three, probably two!

The kids went to bed (although Scarlett did get back up and come and do singing with my in the kitchen while I was cooking dinner later) and Ady and I had a very enjoyable conversation about proudest moments, memories we’ll treasure for ever and our most precious and treasured experiences. Very uplifting ๐Ÿ™‚

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Carnival

20 January 2011

Biding Time

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:49 pm

I had work today. Ady took Davies & Scarlett with him on a big circuitous drive along the coast and back into Kent taking in Dover, Ramsgate and other such places. They seemed to have a nice day and managed to fit in some educational stuff along the way.

Work for me was fine, I have been rather stripped of duties which makes for a slightly boring full day really. But I talked to borrowers including my old History teacher from secondary school – not sure who was most ‘eeek’ about the fact that was nearly 25 years ago! I’ve spotted her coming into the library before and been fairly sure it was her but today I served her so was able to check on her ticket to see her name. I said ‘you used to teach me History’ and she peered at me and said yes, my face did look familiar but she couldn’t name me. I told her my (maiden) name and she said she remembered it, which given she taught there for over 20 years so would have had thousands of girls on her registers was pretty impressive I thought. She said if she’d not been a teacher she’d have liked to have been a librarian so I said I was only part time and Home Ed my own children the rest of the time which she was very interested in. She was a good teacher, one of the ones I think was there for all the right reasons although she said today that if she went back and did it all over again she probably wouldn’t have stayed in teaching so long (she is now retired). Which I guess probably backs up my theory that she went into it for the right reasons I suppose…

I did get a phone call from Mike at the Letting Agents to say our tenants have been in to collect paperwork and pay a security holding deposit of ร‚ยฃ300. We talked about potential dates and I’ll ring him tomorrow with our proposed date to be out of 15th February which gives us 3 weeks and would only mean a week staying at parents (or in van – still not heard from parents…). I’m planning to hand my notice in on Saturday, giving four weeks notice and Ady will hand his in as soon as the paperwork is all completed, hopefully mid to end of next week.

I got home and Tarly had me a cup of tea ready :), we all caught up with each others days and did bad, good, learnt today:

Davies:
Bad: Felt sorry for Scarlett that she couldn’t get up the sea defences at Dover
Good: I could climb up!
Learnt: About how pilots used white cliffs of Dover as a marker when flying in the war.

Scarlett

Bad: Hurt my knee trying to get up
Good: Found lots of pretty shells
Learnt: About red flags to show high winds and tides

Ady
Bad: Crazy mileage today for nothing really worthwhile
Good: I fixed the oven ๐Ÿ™‚
Learnt: The actor from Robinson Crusoe still lives on an island

Nic
Bad: Really long afternoon at work
Good: Tenants collected paperwork from agents & paid security deposit
Learnt: Interesting local history photos from colleage of a large vault in Shoreham

I read a bit from the Romans in the book we started last night and the kids went to bed. Tomorrow we have a busy day starting with the mechanic coming to look at Willow at 830am.

Where do cows go to learn more on a specific topic?

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:16 am

A moosium. This blogpost title is brought to you for the sole interest of making Ali laugh. Along with where do cows go when they want to see jazz hands? A moosical. Where do cows go when they want to see a film? The mooovies? And what is a cows favourite song? I like to Moove it, moove it.

Today we had arranged to meet Julie, Jack, Maisie and Lorna at Worthing museum and art gallery. This was planned incase of my non starting car not starting as it is (just) walkable or certainly bus-able. In the end my car has now decided if Ady has some degree of mechanical ability it will behave itself after all :). I rang Julie as we had a tenant viewing booked for midday so I wanted to either cancel or arrange to meet earlier if possible. We did arrange to meet earlier but Julie came over on the train and was not only late for the newly moved earlier time but was late for the original time too!

Davies, Scarlett and I had a good look round though, we went to an event there last year but didn’t go to the actual museum in 2010 so we had a refresher look at the permanent exhibits and a look round the art gallery exhibit and talked about our favourite picture, different art techniques, how they made us feel etc. and looked at the archaeological finds of which there are many locally. Was very impressed with how much of flint knapped tools knowledge has gone in and indeed mining generally from our visits to mines in Wales in 2009 too.

Finally Julie & co arrived so we had half an hour with them. The four older children were initially a bit rowdy so I gave them a brief lecture about Museum Behaviour Etiquette and they calmed down. I listened to them for a bit and they were playing an excellent game where they were able to jump into the exhibits and telling each other things about them. Lovely to hear D&S sharing with J&M the stuff we’d just been talking about on our first look around. I walked with Julie and Lorna and we managed a brief catch up with each other before we had to go.

Back home Davies and I fell out about bedroom, specifically his bed. He draws, plays with plasticine and generally hides things in his bed including todays finds of several discarded contact lense wrappers, the containers Scarlett’s bouncy ball granules came in, loads of bits of tissue, pencils, one of my wool needles (being used to model plasticine) etc. I yelled, he cried, I came downstairs to hoover while he power-tidied and then the tenants were at the door.

Three of the four people who will be sharing attended, the fourth is on holiday but has left it to the others to find a house. They looked all around including a second look round the downstairs, out into the garden back and front, asked questions about the chickens, feeding and bedding etc and were very interested in breeding them and asked lots of question about them. They seemed very nice and after they’d left the kids and I said we’d be very happy for them to be our tenants.

There followed a tenterhooks afternoon waiting to hear back. Davies played with Lego and made a lego Willlow, Scarlett did some drawing and then played with the animals and they joined up for an animal and lego game together. I blogged, fretted, spoke to Dad, Ady and the letting agent on the phone several times each and then got the phonecall from the agent to say they would like the house :).

Loads of finalising details still to do including start date of tenancy, notice for Ady and I at work and quite where we will live in the interim. Dad is talking to Mum about storing our stuff – he’d not actually mentioned it to her previously… eeek. I phoned and gave notice on the sky tv and we’re now waiting for final confirmation to go ahead and cancel things like BT landline, broadband etc. The earlier leaving the house date should mean we set off with slightly more in our contingency fund but will effectively leave us homeless for the last 2 weeks of working. We’re debating the most sensible option (thankfully we have several) for that period.

Ady and I spent lots of time looking agog at each other and I’m not sure it’s fully sunk in yet ๐Ÿ˜ฏ Davies & Scarlett seem to be taking it in their stride, so far…

We did bad, good, learnt today:
Davies:
Bad: Set up Gruffalo theatre for a play but had to tidy it up
Good: Made a lego Willow
Learnt: Giant Earthworms can grow up to 3metres long (wall chart with animal facts may be responsible for lots of learnts in next few days!)

Scarlett

Bad: Maisie was scared of a skeleton display in the museum so we couldn’t walk past it
Good: Saw Jack & Maisie
Learnt: About various types of helping dogs including dogs who predict epileptic fits and cancer

Ady
Bad: Condensed time to get a lot of stuff done
Good: Nic’s car started today again (and heavy frost!)
Learnt: About the most expensive coffee in the world, eaten, partially digested and then excreted by an animal!

Nic

Bad: Probably be paying for a couple of weeks worth of landline, internet & Sky tv that we won’t use as have to give months notice.
Good: We’ve (probably) found a tenant!
Learnt: what a waxwing looks like (googled after it was mentioned on ff)

I read the pre-history section of which the kids may have been feigning interest in to prolong bedtime but I suspect grabbed their attention, particularly after a museum visit this morning.

19 January 2011

Balancing cows

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:57 am

Today the kids and I went to an Educational visit to Plumpton college. There are a couple of colleges in Sussex / Hampshire specialising in farming / agriculture / animals which I earmarked several years ago as potential places for both Davies and Scarlett to get qualifications in the things they are interested in if they remain the same as now. I’ve spoke to reps from Plumpton at various South of England Show events and other places, so it’s somewhere I’ve been hoping to get along to with them for a while but their open days have clashed each year with something else we’ve already planned to do so we’ve never quite managed it.

A localish Home Ed mum is pretty good at organising trips of this sort and arranged a free visit there so we booked and went along. As we were not sure about my car Ady managed to plan his days work over that way so he could drop us off and pick us up. As it happened, despite really heavy rain in the night my car started first time when I turned the key on the off chance when I went to get my wellies out. It also started again later despite a heavy frost so am keeping fingers firmly crossed that the distributor cap was the problem, although we will still change the spark plugs at the weekend.

Ady dropped us off with picnic and wellies and we spotted C and her children so walked to meet them coming from their car. We ended up being first there as many of the other attendees had either gone to different entrances or were operating on Home Ed time (ie late). That was fine as we got full access to Lynne, the woman running the session and the kids enjoyed talking to her about a couple of animal skeletons – a dog and a sheep. The kids guessed them both and made some really good observations about teeth, jaws, feet etc to help them identify them. There were also various birds nests to look at. All of this cheered Scarlett up as she was stroppy about having to wear wellies, a fleece and a coat, but she conceded it was worth it. For her wearing proper clothes and maybe even socks is going to be one of the biggest challences this year. I do have sympathy though as I’d rather be coatless and barefoot too really.

The morning session was a tour around part of the working college farm. Once everyone else had arrived, the obligatory H&S talk and introduction had been covered – Plumpton runs a mixed farm with animals for meat and produce and arable crops for animal feed. It is not organic or intensive but is on a pretty large scale and does supply supermarkets. For us it was a very interesting introduction to farming and will be a great benchmark for other things we see this year.

We started with the dairy cattle, looked at some (who I think were penned as they were about to birth), then the calves who were adorable and gorgeous but given their overwhelming instinct to suckle at anything that came close – I spent ages with one licking my hand and then another sucked at my waxed jacket while I stroked it, I couldn’t help feeling they should still be with their mothers rather than being encouraged onto straw ‘solids’ while their mothers were off being milked for human consumption.

Next the milking parlour and cow shed, which was airy, well ventilated, clean and spacious but still not a field! Davies really didn’t like the fact they spend most of their year indoors, despite all of the woman’s explanations about how it’s better for their feet and they churn up the soft grass and ground if they are out in late autumn, winter or early spring. I did note that the beef cattle are out year round and I have heard about a grass and clover seed mix which is hardy enough to create greenery year round and stand up to cows feet. I did mention that there have been cows far longer than there have been cow sheds….

Next to the pigs, where they have all stages of pig rearing from pregnant sows, birthing sows and tiny litters of newborns, weaned litters kept in sibling groups, then a ‘finishing’ area. The birthing area was slightly disturbing (as actually most birthing areas for animals that have been open to general groups of people wandering through have always been disturbing to me – it’s one of those things I just feel should be as calm an environment for as possible, regardless of species or end destination for mother and offspring). The sows were clearly stressed by us walking through and the piglets were at huge risk of being stamped on.

Back to the classroom for lunch and some interesting chats about meat and animal product eating between Davies, Scarlett and I. Both children really grasped why I am so passionate about animal welfare, natural behaviour and of course good treatment, respect and ethical slaughter. I really enjoy meat, dairy and poultry and have no intention of stopping consuming, although I do have massive respection and understanding of vegans views (less so for vegetarians really as despite not eating actual animal flesh, there is just as much poor treatment of animals in the production of milk, cheese, eggs etc.) I am looking forward to seeing the difference in self sufficient animal rearing when the need is just to feed yourself rather than farm sufficient levels to make money. So slightly saddening, very educational and just good to be outside, on a farm, with animals.

Lunch did that thing of raising blood sugar levels and creating crazed children ๐Ÿ™ Who were then cooped up in a classroom :(. Davies, Scarlett and I had lunch sitting with Ali & C which was nice, but we watched several of the other children getting increasingly louder and badly behaved around us. The afternoon session was about the arable side of farming, so there was talk of cereal crops, what is made from them and then some bringing out grains and seeds to mill and grind in hand powered and electric grinders and rollers.

This was done in that style of teaching I find particularly irritating – encouraging children to finish the end of your sentences by guessing the answer and putting their hands up. This excludes a huge swath of children who don’t bother listening if they are not being directly talked to and I just find patronising. If the kids know the answer then they get bored being tested, if they don’t know the answer then why not just tell them and then they will. I much prefer a session on giving information, which includes everyone; those who already know get it reinforced, those who don’t get to learn it, then questions from the children to back it up rather than questionning the children.

Lots of toddlers were being noisy, wandering around the room, lots of children old enough to know better were also being distracting and I got two boys out from under a table where they were sitting being really annoying. I hate that parents bring kids who clearly have no interest in learning anything somewhere, allow them to be disruptive, rude and prevent others from learning and sit back without dealing with them at all. It is all of the very worst of Home Ed trips ๐Ÿ™ Don’t bring younger siblings who will ruin it for older children, don’t bring kids who are incapable of sitting still or being respectful to places where they need to demonstrate those behaviours and don’t sit on your arse ignoring your kids being gits!!!

In the main it was a good morning, I just wish it had been a slightly smaller group of children who would have had the chance to learn a bit more as it could have been pitched more to their ability and allowed them to ask more questions. When the woman was doing more of a one to one chatting to D and S earlier about animal skeletons she was excellent so I think it was simply lowering her pitch to the lowest common denominator when the larger group was that which brought out the ‘teaching style’ that I disliked.

Ady picked us up and dropped us home, popping in for a coffee. We spent the afternoon playing PvZ, Scarlett made some more bouncy balls, Davies played with the geomags and I cooked their tea. I took a phonecall from the agent booking a viewing for tomorrow, Ady came home and I went off to Reading Group.

It was my penultimate one and it’s looking likely it might be everyones last group next time. B, the chief librarian who runs it is taking voluntary redundancy so we will both be leaving at the end of February. We had thought a couple of the group would be up for taking it on but no one seemed willing to and they all just looked sadly at B and I saying ‘oh it will be really sad if the group stops, we wish you weren’t going’. But we are, so if they want it to continue then they will need to make it happen themselves. I’ve really enjoyed being part of the group, it was an evening out once a month way back when the kids were very small when I got to talk to adults, I’ve read loads of things I would never have looked at before, it was instrumental in me getting the library job and I’ve made some good friends, particularly Mike & Rose, the not-swingers, through the group.

Back home for bad, good, learnt today, dinner and watching ‘The Nuture Room’ which I found both sad and uplifting.

Scarlett:
Bad: Some of the children at the college were ‘gits’
Good: Went to the college farm and really enjoyed it
Learnt: That there is a runt in a pigs litter which can be loads smaller than it’s siblings

Davies:
Bad: Sad about cows being inside for three out of four seasons of the year
Good: Piglet I was worried about was fine
Learnt: People knit jumpers for ex battery hens to keep them warm when they have lost feathers

Nic:
Bad: Too many examples of the behaviour that gives Home Ed a bad name
Good:Car started after heavy rain and heavy frost
Learnt: that the phrase ‘chalk and cheese’ to suggest two very different things may have origins in the fact cows grazed on chalk land would not produce very creamy milk and therefore it would not be much good for cheesemaking. Not at all sure how much I believe it and a quick google (as opposed to a proper google) suggests it is more likely they are simply two things which are nicely alliterative and different, but something new for today nonetheless.

Ady:
Bad: Worried that potential tenant might not be perfect match
Good: Tenant viewing tomorrow
Learnt: The earliest cultivated crop in history is garlic

18 January 2011

Stop me if you’ve heard this before…

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:51 am

I feel like I’ve already blogged today from various friendfeed updates ๐Ÿ™‚

The kids and I had a lie in, so letting out & feeding chickens, sorting the kids breakfast, tidying up the kitchen and then sitting down with a cup of tea was all I managed before about 10am. Both the kids needed a bath so Davies went and had one after breakfast and before getting dressed. He spent quite a while in there (no idea where he gets that from ;)) while Tarly got out her bouncy ball kit. She got it for Christmas and I’d really recommend it as a fun and well priced kit but she used it up straight away on Christmas morning and so I scoured the internet to find some refill granules. Eventually I found a company that sold something that looked similar and bought a refill from them. It too ages to come (obviously caught in the postal backlog from Christmas and the snow) and got put to one side when it arrived last week as she’d long since forgotten about her inital enthusiasm in it. But this morning she dug out the moulds and made a load more balls. This stuff actually seems better than the original granules and is making more pleasing balls.

I rang the letting agent to chat about the house. I said I was getting twitchy and he said he was too so we discussed possible reasons for not getting viewings and some ideas for action. We decided to reduce the price by ร‚ยฃ100 a month, which is fine as it only actually takes it back to what we’d initially expected, as we’d inflated it slightly to see if we got any early takers. We also agreed to have a To Let board put up and we are going to be less specific about the term of the lease as actually we don’t 100% know that we’ll be back in a year anyway. Fingers crossed these measures will have a speedy effect…

I also rang and booked a mechanic to come and look at / collect Willow on Friday to have the work done to get the electrics sorted so that she is running and ready for an MOT just before we go. We have a weekend sleepover planned in her next weekend so really want her running for that.

Ady came home as he was going up to London today to deliver some stock for a press release photoshoot and we’d initially planned to go with him as the congestion charge and parking was pre-paid so we’d thought we could have late afternoon / early evening in London and go to one of the musuems or something. In the end the kids both felt they’d had more than enough time sat in a car this weekend so we decided not to go after all.

Ady managed to change the distributor cap on my car but try as we might we could not get it started and the battery was completely dead. Dad’s jump leads are either now ruined from our trying or we were simply failing to get a connection on them as jumping it didn’t work either. Ady went off to London and I rang our breakdown cover. I decided if they couldn’t get it started then the time had come to put it into storage now. The guy came and did get it started by jumping it off his van, warming up all the spark plugs and spraying loads of dampstart on it. He recommended new spark plugs though as the existing ones are not a set of four so two have been changed at different times to the other two.

I rang a couple of places but nowhere seems to just change plugs (I guess a garage would but at a price), so we took the car for a run to charge the battery back up and then came home. We decided to have popcorn for lunch as I’d brought home The Last Airbender on dvd from work so the kids half watched that and half played with Davies’ Doctor Who characters. We nipped along to Halfords for some spark plugs and a tool but I don’t have the knack for opening the bonnet so Ady needs to teach me how to do that tomorrow in daylight and we’ll change the plugs over. Another ร‚ยฃ25. If that does not sort it then it will definitely now go into storage and I can cancel the insurance and tax, particularly as the campervan should be running pretty soon.

The kids and I played some Plants vs Zombies, they had tea and Scarlett had her bath and hairwash – much talk of hairwashing and cutting here today thanks to Chloe :). We played some more PvZ and Ady arrived home. We did a quick recap of the last four days for bad, good, learnt today as it’s just not practical to try and do a daily catch up.

Davies:
Bad: didn’t get bedtime stories (he was outvoted in the shall we play more PvZ or read a story ballot)
Good: got full version of Plants vs Zombies
Learnt: Lynda & Stuart had extended their house – he didn’t realise they had had the work done.

Scarlett:
Bad: Spent about 9 hours sitting in car this weekend
Good: had lovely weekend with Lynda & Stuart
Learnt: Play area in Chill Factor – the indoor ski slope in Manchester, for some reason the fact there was a little area for just playing in the snow hadn’t registered with her last year when we visited.

Ady:
Bad: Nic’s poxy car!
Good: Lovely weekend, good to go back to Manchester
Learnt: Giraffe’s cannot cough or swim

Nic
Bad: Had to drop potential rent as no tenant yet
Good: Reactions of Lynda & Stuart and Miranda & Harmen to Wondering Wanderers Adventure
Learnt: seedless grapes (the question was asked at breakfast at L&S’s about how seedless grapes reproduce and why pretty much all grapes are now seedless, so we did a proper google and all learnt together about fruit grown from cuttings and grafting. Great to show L&S how our HE works in action) and how to authenticate amber – I really love my amber but was surprised that it feels more like plastic than glass when I’d expected it to be the other way round. So I’ve been researching ways to ensure it is really amber. I’ve done several of the tests and am pleased to know it is indeed real amber ๐Ÿ™‚ (which is what it was sold as but I’m glad to have checked).

17 January 2011

Super speedy catch up

Filed under: — Nic @ 1:13 am

Friday Feels a long time ago now, despite only barely being the day before yesterday. I worked all day, Davies & Scarlett went off with Ady for the day. Work was fine, I did Baby Rhyme Time which I’ve not done for ages and if we find a tenant and leave as planned I will only have 3 of them left before I go. I have been pretty much stripped of all my jobs and wasn’t even down to do the banking, which I understand as contingency plans need to be put in place to keep the library staffed and running but feels rather odd when I’ve still not formally handed my notice in. So wish we had a tenant sorted…

I’d had to walk into work as Ady and the kids left before 8am and my car was still not running, besides they were picking me up to leave straight from work anyway. Ady had left an umbrella out for me which I dithered over taking and double-backed for when I opened the front door and realised how very hard it was raining. It was an error though as I walked through the alleyways which is much quicker than the roads but too narrow to carry an umbrella through and actually the odd bits of road I walked along were so blustery that the brolly blew inside out several times anyway, so I ended up carrying it most of the way and resenting it for that as I *hate* carrying things. It rained non stop all day so I didn’t even bother going out at lunchtime.

Ady and the kids had nipped home to put chickens away and made me a toasted sandwich and thermal mug of tea, collected Mum & Dad and they were all outside the library waiting for me when I came out at 6pm. We’d had a long standing weekend planned to stay with Lynda and Stuart who we really wanted to see properly before we go off WWOOFing and had also planned to visit Miranda while we were there. Whilst out for my birthday Mum & Dad had been talking nostalgically about when we lived in Manchester and a spur of the moment plan was hatched for them to come up with us, stay in a nearby Premier Inn and join us on a Memory Lane trip as they’d not been up there since we moved home nearly 7 years ago.

So family, tea and possibly best of all my birthday amber was waiting for me in the car as that had also arrived in the post. I totally ♥ it ๐Ÿ™‚

We had a really, really good run up there and dropped Mum & Dad at their hotel by 10pm and were with Lynda and Stuart drinking wine / Guinness / making an early start on breakfast crossiants / admiring their fantastic new extension by 1030pm. Davies & Scarlett went to bed about 11pm, we sat and had a brief catch up and went to bed just after midnight.

Saturday
We woke and had breakfast then Ady went and collected Mum & Dad from their hotel. A quick cup of tea with Lynda & Stuart and then we left them at home while Ady, the kids, Mum, Dad & I nipped along to the Trafford Centre past our old house. We pulled up to look at it (very special place in our hearts, quite aside from a very happy 2.5 years there because it was the home in Scarlett’s home birth :)), waved at our old neighbour, drove past several landmarks, had a wander round the Trafford Centre (and I bought a length of leather in John Lewis to string my amber onto so could start wearing it) and then to the indoor ski slope nearby to show Mum & Dad having told them about it after our last visit.

For us, it was mostly about spending time with Lynda & Stuart though so after a couple of hours we drove back to their for a late lunch and a lovely afternoon spent chatting and catching up on each others’ news. They get on well with Mum & Dad having seen a lot of them over the years and whilst the closest relationship is probably between Lynda & I it is as close to having in laws as I think we’ll ever get, both in terms of the children having a second set of honorary grandparents and us having a second set of older people who love us, support us and are generally important in our lives :). Their support and enthusiasm for the whole WWOOFing idea has meant a huge amount to us as I think we are close enough to them for them to give us honest feedback if they felt horrified at the idea. I can’t believe I once used to pay Lynda to look after Davies & Scarlett and I don’t think she can either.

We had fish & chips for tea (Dad, the kids and I walked to the chippie at the end of their road), Lynda, Mum, the kids and I gathered round Lynda’s laptop and looked at a load of our flickr pictures of Scotland and various things we’ve done this year with the kids giving a running commentary. Then Ady ran Mum & Dad back to their hotel, the kids went to bed and we had another couple of hours chatting.

Sunday After breakfast Ady went to collect Mum & Dad and we had a leisurely morning before saying goodbye to Lynda & Stuart and dropping Mum, Dad, Davies & Scarlett off at a big interior design, furniture & gift shop place with a cafe for a couple of hours while Ady and I went to see Miranda & Harmen.

She had already guessed we had come ‘with news’ so we asked her to guess what it might be. ‘You have come to hand your notice in because you are moving to North Wales?’ was her first guess. Which was not far wrong ;). Both of them were really enthusiastic and positive. The farm next door to them has WWOOFers so they knew about the organisation, Miranda declared it ‘ a gap year for grown ups’, which is the closest we could possibly expect to the promise of a job for Ady if he wants to come back, realistically I knew she would be of that opinion and while we were honest about hoping we don’t come back she made it clear if we did then there would be something for Ady within the business. Which hopefully goes some way towards appeasing my Dad.

Lovely to see them if all too brief – I can’t wait for our lives to slow down as they are inevitably about to do so we can decide to stay longer in places it feels a wrench to leave…

Miranda asked Ady’s permission to share the news with the MD of Ady’s work which he agreed to and she said they had only been discussing Ady last week with a view to a new venture so although like me he still has the formal handing in of his notice to do once we have a tenant the actual telling his boss part is now over and done with. We both felt pretty relieved, Ady even more so than me. All that now remains hurdle -wise is the finding a tenant and then we really are on our way ๐Ÿ™‚

We collected Mum, Dad, Davies and Scarlett and drove home. A straight run with just a small hold up on the M40, but a slow and tedious journey nonetheless. We got home just before 9pm and I suspect for the kids and I at least it won’t be a speedy start to tomorrow.

14 January 2011

Zombies ate your brain

Filed under: — Nic @ 1:14 am

Hmm so my gift to the rather more structured HE folk out there is the bad / good / learnt today. Their gift back is introducing us to Plants Vs Zombies… something not quite right there ;).

More rain, don’t remember the last day it didn’t rain actually. Sod getting the car started and dealing with the electrics on the campervan, I think ark building might be more useful.

Really pissed off with vehicular things today, between the car and the campervan we are paying ร‚ยฃ70 per month insurance and both are taxed at about ร‚ยฃ40 per month so that’s over ร‚ยฃ25 a week we’re spending just to have two engines outside, neither of which are working at the moment. I’m not entirely sure what the issue is with the campervan and not really too worried that it is something not easily sorted so have taken over dealing with it and on payday next week will get a mechanic to have a look at it and get it roadworthy. Will also spend the small amount to get a new distributor cap for the car and if that doesn’t sort it once and for all it can go into storage from then, I’ll cancel the insurance and tax for it and use the campervan. Feel better for having made a decision. Frankly if we’re managing without a car anyway it might as well not be costing us money!

Caz and Bid dropped Archie & Eliot off with us for an hour or so while they went to do a gardening job. Aside from one short yell at the kids not to chuck toys down the stairs (fretting about chipped paintwork) I didn’t really see or hear them. Caz and Bid returned and we cobbled together some lunch and had a lovely couple of hours chatting about life, the universe and everything.

They had to go to deal with the dogs and eventually extracted a very reluctant Eliot who really didn’t want to leave ;). Davies and Scarlett went to tidy up Davies’ room where they’d all been playing and I tidied up the kitchen.

Davies was doing some PSPing and Scarlett some DSing when I saw Babs talking about Plants vs Zombies, googled it and downloaded a trial. The kids were both lured over and the three of us lost the rest of the afternoon to it, but we did work our way through the entire free trial. We realised it had gotten dark around us so hastily put chickens away, lit the fire, pulled the curtains and sorted their tea, which they equally as hastily ate, finished with some jelly that Tarly and I had made earlier and then back to the game.

Ady arrived home, slightly stressed from a bad day and in discussing what to do about cars and vans we lost another hour or so. I read a couple of chapters of Narnia to the kids, my parents rang to discuss plans for tomorrow and then it was 9pm. Davies and Scarlett were about to go to bed when we realised we’d not done bad / good / learnt today so we did that:

Scarlett:
Bad: Archie & Eliot couldn’t stay longer
Good: That Archie & Eliot came today
Learnt today: Kangaroos find it difficult to walk backwards (we presume their tail gets in the way)

Ady:

Bad: I’ve run out of beers!
Good: I didn’t have my appraisal today
Learnt today: All clown fish have three stripes (thanks to animal facts from Tarly’s DS game)

Davies
Bad: full plants vs zombies game costs money
Good; Manchester tomorrow!
Learnt today: throwing something west means it will go further than throwing it in another direction (another blast lab gem, apparently to do with the direction the Earth spins in)

Nic
Bad: Running really late this evening with still lots to do (stress infected from Ady)
Good: had a really chat with Caz & Bid
Learnt today: seahorses change colour to match the plants around them (ditto Tarly’s DS game)

The kids went to bed, Ady cooked dinner, I packed up bits for tomorrow and had a bath and then we had a very late dinner watching recorded Fish Fight.

13 January 2011

A shit home ed provision ;)

Filed under: — Nic @ 12:24 am

I worked this morning. Dad stayed here with Davies and Scarlett. Apparently he mostly teased Scarlett while having a conversation with Davies about how people who climb mountains ‘because they are there’ are suicidal idiots. Oh he’s all about the tolerance and respect for the views of others is my Dad ;). My car wouldn’t start again (heavy rain overnight) so he did run me into work and come and pick me up again afterwards though.

Work was fine. It’s a very curious atmosphere there as they have all known for months that I am leaving but now when I should really be giving a firm leaving date and can’t due to the ongoing ‘when the bloody hell will we get a tenant’ debacle it’s thrown things rather into chaos. Knowing I *will* be leaving means for long term planning’s sake they are getting me to hand over tasks I do, train other staff in things and try to put a plan into place for covering my hours once I go. Not knowing when that might actually be makes everything really rather tricky. Added to that the big boss (who I do Reading Group with) is also leaving at the end of Feb as she has taken voluntary redundancy in the latest round of cuts and restructuring so she is also torn between being professional to the very end and that whole end of term yipee feeling of leaving a job.

I got home and we had lunch. Dad had dashed off to look at a job but rang me shortly afterwards for a favour. I love the way he asks for favours, he’s just like me and hates asking but is clearly incredibly grateful.

Davies and Scarlett had their plasticine out and were watching a video of a load of Morph episodes so were happily engaged with just the odd admiring comment at their creations. Scarlett is obviously rather animal-centric in her creativity but is just as imaginative and talented as Davies at creating pieces of art and I am often in awe of both of their abilities to visualise something in their heads and commit it to paper or 3d sculpture the way they do. Davies remains very Aardman inspired with his plasticine modelling but I guess he would really with it being such a strong early influence. Today he was creating a whole farmyard of animals and started with a sheep and pig. I love the way all his characters get full biographies when he makes them.

I was flicking through some online stuff and stumbled upon a link I’d mentally made a note of going back to look at again from a local HEor – the flushtracker to see where your poo (and other waste water) goes to. We loved it (and very entertainingly started a whole poo tracking trend too :)). Once we’d seen where our flush ended up we then tracked a flush from my parents to see if our speculation that it would go to the same place was correct. It was. Both the children were quite fascinated with the google earth stuff and the ability to zoom in and out, get aerial views and street views so we played with that for a while, looking into our neighbours back gardens and talking about the vans that went round getting all the images.

Further speculation on waste water thanks to the worthy message from Domestos meant I looked at our water suppliers website and found some interesting information on how waste water is treated and how tap water is treated so we also spent some time looking at that.

There was more plasticineing, putting chickens away, lighting the fire, cooking kids’ tea, looking at zone two and adding a few more potential hosts to it and emailing them, going through the zone three list and finishing that off ready for an email to be composed and sent to them maybe tomorrow, checking again to see if my car would start, looking at the WWOOFing forum and discovering a HE family about to do something very similar to us and making contact with them and talking to Scarlett about her very valid and non hysterically made point after watching Newsround that there are so many natural disasters happening it’s like the end of the world is nigh.

Ady arrived home having had a long and all too much driving day at work so once he had had a restorative cup of coffee we did bad / good / learnt today:

Davies
Bad: Can’t get favourite dvd to work on downstairs dvd player
Good: Making plasticine farm animals made me feel really excited about WWOOFing
Learnt today: car windscreen glass cracks at 300mph (from Blast Lab earlier, unseen by me so unchecked statistic!)

Scarlett
Bad: Grandad teased me
Good: watched some good animal programmes
Learnt today: where our flushed water (poo) ends up after leaving our toilet

Ady
Bad: had to go to Cambridge (not specifically Cambridge, just a long drive – 408 miles in total driven today)
Good: England won the cricket
Learnt today: worldwide a child (under ten) starves to death every ten

Nic
Bad: Bloody car won’t start!
Good: organised a swap of my shift at work so I can be off for our Bye Then Party.
Learnt today: that although all the water that comes out of our tap is drinking water quality only 3% is actually consumed as drinking water or in cooking, the rest is sent down the drain as waste water from toilet flushing, hand washing, baths and showers, washing machines, dishwashers etc.

Before bed Scarlett and Ady looked at the RSPB magazine together while I showed Davies a youtube clip I’d told him about ages ago but not got round to showing him about a weather balloon being sent up into space.. Davies went off to bed as he was actually feeling quite tired, although he did come back down again to enquire as to whether I thought he might have an intenstinel worm as he was hungrier than usual at the moment! ๐Ÿ˜† I assured him it might just mean he was finally growing!!! Scarlett and I looked at the Insect Lore catalogue which had come in the post and she was about to go to bed when I ran the hoover round and discovered it was all clogged up with hair and cotton threads so spent some time unpicking all that from it’s brushes. Scarlett decided this was just her sort of project (she loves picking and fiddling) so her and I had a very satisfactory half an hour or so doing that (similar to the wool untangling at camp!) while half watching a programme about seriously overweight teenagers which just happened to come on after whatever we’d been watching and was interesting if rather sensationalised.

Scarlett went to bed, Davies seemed to actually fall asleep at a respectable hour, Ady and I watched Hugh (and I cried ๐Ÿ™ ) and I exchanged messages with the Also-WWOOFing family.

I love days like this when we come across educational and interesting stuff by accident, one question leads to another and we are all fascinated and learning alongside each other. I love that everyone is in the room together doing their own thing but interacting and saying ‘hey look at this’ every so often. It reminds me anew of why we do what we do, how we do it :).

11 January 2011

These boots were made for walking…

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:23 pm

This morning we were off to Tasha’s. We’d already arranged to see if my car would start and if not walk. I was fairly convinced by the colour of the sky that we’d be walking in the rain for at least one of the to and from journeys and sure enough my car didn’t start ๐Ÿ™

The walk is pretty boring, all along the main road to the seafront and then along the seafront road for a bit. It’s actually quite a bit further than I’d thought too, I checked when we got home and it is 2.4 miles, meaning we walked nearly 5miles altogether. I quite like walking but there has to be plenty to look at or good company. There was nothing really to look at and it’s a route I have walked along probably more than any other (I used to work just off the seafront when pregnant with Davies and we were down to one car for much of that time so I often used to walk to work). It’s a busy road, particularly with buses and lorries so quite fume-y too. But we kept up a fast pace and were there in a little over half an hour.

Tasha and I had a nice few hours chatting and Davies and Toby enjoyed playing with consoles together but Scarlett was at a bit of a loose end. She played with the cats (Tasha has seven!) for a while and did actually play with Vinnie quite a bit but I found out later she had done some rummaging about to find toys to play with the cats and not tidied up after herself ๐Ÿ™

I wanted to get home well before dark, which we did although predictably the walk home always feels longer.

Chickens away, tea for children, fire lit, phonecall from Ady to say he was home but had decided to get my car started, spent ages jump starting it from his, borrowed some WD40 from David across the road (thank you neighbour) and finally got it going so was driving round and round the block until it was warmed up properly. Hurrah! He is definitely taking seriously his ‘this year’ plan to learn more about how cars work.

Finally he came in and we all caught up on each others days and did bad, good, learnt today. For us a big part of it is reconnecting the four of us and chatting about our day together, something important now when either Ady or I is away from the other three working and important for later in the year to get a daily habit of talking about how we are all feeling about what’s happening, the highs and lows, allowing each person time to air the bits they really love or hate with a proper audience and a dedicated four way conversation every single day.

Davies:
Bad – we had to walk to Tasha’s.
Good – that we went to Tasha’s
Learnt – pirates used to send death threats of a black dot.

Scarlett:
Bad – I can’t find my stylus!
Good – walked to Tasha’s
Learnt – pirates chop off their enemies ears and make them eat them

Ady:
Bad – Tidied up a cupboard and nobody bloody noticed!
Good – car started!
Learnt – a lump of gold the size of a matchbox can be flattened out to the size of a tennis court.

Nic:
Bad – My back is achey
Good – it didn’t rain while we were walking
Learnt – It is 2.4 miles to Tasha’s so we walked 4.8 miles today.

Ady read the kids a chapter or two of Narnia while I nipped back out to give my car a longer run and go to the supermarket for some veg for dinner. The kids went to bed, I had a very enjoyable half an hour in the kitchen singing along to music very loudly while getting dinner in the oven and then a bath while chatting to Julie on the phone. Queen of the multi-tasking ;).

We watched Hugh’s Big Fish Fight which provoked exactly the desired response in both of us ๐Ÿ™ Hope it makes a difference.

I’ve not managed any begging today but will have a go at some tomorrow instead ;).

10 January 2011

Well wasn’t yesterdays post title prophetic!

Filed under: — Nic @ 11:49 pm

If I was superstitious I’d come up with something predicting good news and all round cheer for tomorrow, but suspect Mystic Meg has nothing to worry about in the way of competition from me and my fortune telling skills ๐Ÿ˜‰

Scarlett’s sleep pattern seems retored to normal thankfully. Slightly less thankfully she is noisy in the morning so she woke me before 8am today to ask how to spell SPOT for a DS game. Then her and Davies were rowdy in his room despite several requests to be quiet.

I rang the letting agent to confirm a viewing later today and we had a fairly quiet morning watching TV and talking about house renting. I wouldn’t let the kids get much out so after lunch they did some drawing at the table while I tidied around them, lit the fire (I thought as it was both listed and photographed on the web marketing I should show it in action) and resisted the temptation to bake bread and brew coffee.

Sadly 15 minutes after they were supposed to arrive the letting agent knocked on the door to say it didn’t look like they were coming – I’d seen him pull up a good 10 minutes before the appointed time. He came in for a look round as he’d not been to the house before, it was his partner who has been previously. No idea why they didn’t turn up obviously and sadly it is the second false start – it would be quite nice for someone to actually come and look round the house at least, even if they don’t end up renting it! We still have a couple of weeks to get someone sorted to allow everything to happen as scheduled and I’m really confident we will have someone ready to move in for 1st March, but just not signed up in time for us to hand our notices in at work and be off by then. I’m torn between a que sera sera feeling and knots of anxiety that it’s not all going as planned.

I did some twittering and emailing companies to see if anyone wants to supply us waterproofs etc in return for reviews / mentions on the blog. Will carry on with a couple of those a day being at least something I do have control over (stamps foot in childish manner).

Davies and I did some knitting, him doing the knit rows and me the purl rows. We’ve finished the front (or back I guess) of the head. I suspect I will need to do lots of ‘encouraging reminding’ to get it done but I’m impressed with his picking up of the skill. Scarlett did plenty of looking at books and then they both played with the Playmobil for a while.

The kids had tea, I marvelled at how light it still was at 430 and the kids and I had a discussion about what we might have learnt today. This led to them asking some questions and us finding the answers out together online. I prefer the days when we learn something new just in the course of our day but sometimes making a conscious effort to think of a question we don’t know the answer to and then finding it out works too. Ady arrived home and we shared our bad, good and learnt today:

Scarlett: Bad: Daddy worked today & I’ve missed him, Good: watched lots of wildlife stuff on TV: Learnt: giraffes tongues are 45cm long and their hind legs are shorter than their forelegs.

Davies: Bad: I didn’t get to watch Pirates of the Carribean, Good: Completed first piece of knitting, Learnt: Tomato ketchup has loads of ingredients including vinegar and pepper and tomato puree is concentrated tomatoes.

Ady: Bad: Tenant viewing didn’t turn up. Good: Productive and positive day at work. Learnt: when you fold up a napkin or piece of cardboard to balance an uneven table leg you have made something called a ‘shim’

Nic: Bad: Ady stole my bad! Also car still not working, Good: Four chickens rehoming arranged. Learnt: that Davies is the sixth most common surname in the UK and that almost all animals exhibit homosexual behaviour, in particular giraffes!

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